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talk to her a decent amount at school but not like a whole lot but not a little either.. anyway every weekend usually i have about 15 ppl over guys/girls. she usually comes. on this particular night we went down to watch tv in my basment on this big couch. i sat down first she sits beside me. i scooted over close to her and she didnt seem to mind. then we went outside and there are 2 patio couches out there. im sitting at one by myself and my friend ( the varsity high school qb that all the girls like) is on the other. she sits by me then at school on monday she says hey to me and squeezes my shoulder . usually i dont have trouble telling if a girl likes me or not but she is pretty shy and nervous around guys so this ones kinda hard to read then..
i told my friend i liked her and told him not to tell anyone because i wanted to feel her out over the next few weeks to see if i could tell if she liked me but anyway. my friend told everyone and now she knows what should i do????

Answer 1

Bob, you talk to her like you have a pair, anything less then that is only going to make you look silly, stupid, and naive in this realm. So shallow your f'in pride and stand by how you feel about her. Talk to her........ if you sit around wanting for her to kneel down and prefess her undieing love, your going to be waiting for awhile. But its not even about that, its about you being able to RELATE to her about YOU, you jerk. Anything less then that, it doesn't matter if she loved you, you'd screw it up.