How does a guy determine if a girl is playing hard to get, or just plain not interested?

Answer 1

Does she use vague, flirtatious, or stern language when she says that she's not interested? I'm not talking about what she says but the way she says it. What is her body language like? Does she stiffen up, or does her body relax? These are subtle clues, but you've got to pay attention. One option if you're comfortable is to talk to a friend of hers in a subtle but flirtatious manner, and watch the way the girl you are interested in reacts.

Answer 2

a very good question. i would like to know as well.