For someone willing to give me a honest opinion.?

Question

Me and this guy who works at a casino (host) stare/follow eachother all the time, he is sweet, and curteous to everyone. He had approached me a few times with a short "Hey" or "are you winning?". He stares ALOT btw. One day I sat next to a woman and she won 2000$, he witnessed it and started to conversate for 30 min with me and her. She was drunk and whispered if he would ever date me and he said 'oh ya". 20 min later he came up to me, lowered his head and said "I dont do this sort of thing often and i know you hear this from alot of guys but if you ever want to go out sometime..here is my card with my email." (his business card). I emailed the next day saying how are you and i would like to go out sometime (his work email) and he saw it when he got back (wednesday) and said he is glad I feel that way, suprised I already mailed him. Apologized in case he scared me that night, knows I get hit on alot but wants me to know he is a good guy. Even tho we don't know eachother is glad I am

Willing to give him a chance.Said im beautiful/greatpersonality and normally would be too shy but his dad told him “what is the worst that could happen? You get turned down /well at least you gave it a try and your not sitting around wondering what might have happened” and is glad he did. I went back that day and he smiled and talked to me..recommended me to some machines and told me I had 10$ on my card. When i got back I had a msg waiting that said he was sorry we cant talk much when I am there, gave me his # said I can call it anytime. Gave me his cell and siad I can call it anytime, that he might not get my msg right away but checks his phone all the time so call anytime! I called later the next day and he didnt answer. He sent me a msg the next day (friday) saying ..again..he was sorry, he didn't get back till late. That he works till 2 am that day and wont have days off till mon,tues,weds but promises to call me soon. I wrote back telling him "dont be sorry,call when convenient

Then he said this sunday "Okay cool, I just didn’t want you to think I was ignoring your call.
Oh yeah & about your question – I’m about 6 foot & 1 inch tall.
I felt bad one night you were here because I saw you getting on the bingo bus around the same time I was getting off work & I was going to offer you a ride home but by the time I was ready to go the bus had already left. I’m starting my 4 days off after tonight so I’ll give you a call sometime to see what you’re up to. And I hadn't heard from him yet, why he hasn't called and it's getting on my nerves. Really don't know what to think of that letter or why he felt like teling me about the bus/car situation. I know this is long and I apologize in advance..but I would appreciate some solid opinions..not jokes or hate comments. I am offering 10 pts

Btw..he is 21 and he DOES work like 12 hr shifts..this is the first break he has had since we exchanged numbers..is it typical for him to wait till the last day of his vacation? It makes no sence..I mean..he does take advise from his dad... ty

Answer 1

Everyone stop being mean. My opinion is he told you about the bus/car situation cause he wanted to see if you would have said you would have taken a ride with him. It sounds to me like he is shy himself to some degree and still wonders if you like him if he was blowing you off he wouldn't message you at all. So my advice is to give him a call and leave a message saying look I like you I want to go out with you and see how things go and then ask him out and give him a date and time if he responds back that he wants to but that date and time is no good then tell him to give you a good date and time for him. If he doesn't show for that then I say he is not the one for you and move on.

Answer 2

First off, he sounds stable enough to at least give him a chance. Second, he really sounds shy and lacks self confidence and of course, he's very busy. You know how life sometimes doesn't "fit in" to our social calendar and at the worst possible times? Maybe something came up and then he was so embarressed that he waited too long to contact you, that he is now scared you will have a negative opinion of him. Maybe you can reassure him (by phone or email), stating" hey too bad we couldn't hook up on your days off, but I totally understand that life throws ya some curve balls so give me a call when you get a chance because I'm still interested in getting together if you are.
It may put your feelings out there a bit, but you never know if it was worth it until you try.
Good luck......I just think he lacks confidence and is a bit intimidated. Even nice looking guys lack confidence sometimes.

Answer 3

Well he could be tired from work and very much so resting. I think he may be alright. Don't think your getting played cause I don't see that being th case here.
Just an opinion though.
Also It is his first day off right, give him a message later or wait til tomorow to try to contact.
He cant talk or whatever the case may be at work , posible due to STRICT policies.
Including but not limited to, He could loose his job, His job may see that you and him might be trying to CHEAT at the Casino.
Give him a chance. 12 hour shifts are rough, even rougher if rotating.

I read and re-read the whole thing before I submitted an answer. This isn't a question in words, but a question in thought.......

Answer 4

It sounds like the guy is just being honest with you.

Women have a tendency to see only the bad in some situations because of there own shortcomings of picking "beautiful" men who use them on a regular basis.
Don't treat every guy the same, we're all different just like women are.

Number one he got the nerve up to ask you out and guessing by your post here, I'd say you sound like you were either pretty darn beautiful or a good catch.
Give him some rope as you would with any guy and see what happens. If he doesn't turn out to be the same person he portrays himself to be then let him go. But at least give him a fair chance, I think that's all he's wanting.

Answer 5

I think that is suspcious
if a guy did that to me, I may be patient and wait for him to call
but after we get to see each other on a solid scedule I would do the same thing to him for a little bit so he doesn't think you're desperate
NEVER EVER take a last minute date. If he makes plans at the last minute, like on Friday night calls you and asks to go somewhere say you have plans too and put in, "aww I would love to have come but I have plans, you should have called earlier"
Don't let him have you so easily ESPECIALLY if he's not responding fast enough.

Answer 6

I thank that the guy that your dating are really tire.I mean he work 12 hours. that's a really long time! I work at a restraint and it a 10 hours job. when i get home. I take a shower and I just pop in to me bed. the next thing that i know is that i am asleep. Than the next morning when i wake up it time to go to work. I really thank that you should just jive him a little brake. The thing you have to keep in your mind is that When you work in a bunissess placre that have custermer that could be really hare cause some people thatk that when they walk in the place. they just thank that they are so important and they dont really care what us the people that work for the bunnissess feels like. For all of the people that is reading this. Next time when you go in to a restrant or something like that. You need too thank about what it feels like if you were us. We have feelings to! dont yell at us or make us feels like we are slaves

Answer 7

ok, i bypass to furnish you an extremely truthful opinion. I show regret if a number of it sounds slightly harsh. shall we initiate off with the residing house internet site. i admire the background and the subject, very amazing. Your font colours and varieties are fairly good however the format sucks. Your links on the left take in too lots room and throw the 'particular word to shoppers' element off center which looks cheesy. your place internet site shouldn't even have the 'particular word to shoppers' element on it. that could desire to be located decrease than a link on the left like another issues. interior the residing house internet site you're able to introduce your self, write with reference to the cakes, and record your addresses and emails, and so on. So yeah, take out the 'particular word to shoppers' element. Make the residing house internet site exact conventional. additionally the photograph down the backside looks slightly low priced and stupid. The shifting words above it are fairly annoying. Now on your 'flavors and fillings internet site'. The record of stuff is a information on the thank you to long. you're able to separate it into in line with probability 3 columns quite than having it going promptly down in one in no way ending line. The font for that record is likewise too small, you're able to make it larger. additionally the photograph down the backside is crap, get a clean one. The Gallery. The gallery is fairly good, i don't think of you particularly might desire to alter this. visitor e book is effective. approximately us. The approximately us could be split up into distinctive categories and placed decrease than links. including 'working from residing house' and 'fee'. Yeah, that's approximately it. Oh by ability of how, you have valuable cakes. Very fairly. :)

Answer 8

Honestly! What do you know about this guy that say is a good guy ?
he seems to me as someone that work in a place where he can meet lots of girls... I will never trust I guy I meet like this, and don't even have time for you when you already call him back, have he ever ask for your phone number or invite you to a date?. It sound to me as you are more into him, than him into you. he had days off he could have invite you those days for a coffe or something, It doesn't sound right to me for someone with a honest interest.

Answer 9

You are obviously attracted to him, and you know that he works long hours. You don't yet know what his home life is, though - it might be as crazy as his work schedule.

My advice is patience and persistance. Give him a call and see what happens. The next time he works, try to be available at the end of his shift, if you can.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained . . .

Answer 10

OOOOKKKAAAYYYYYY! So it seems that you REALLY like this guy and that's fine. The thing is this, don't act too needy. If the guy works long shifts and late hours, give him a chance. If he's really feeling you, he'll get back at ya'. If not, then move on. Give him a chance but don't put all of your eggs in one basket with this guy. He's one guy. And if he does get back at ya' :), take your time with him. Don't get so romantic and demanding of his time too quick. Check HIM out, see what HE'S all about and get all of HIS info before you start offering your autobiography. Play it safe and good luck.