okay this name matt his been friend for like 2 years only friends .we always laugh at r jokes. my last hour of class i sit down and he tikle me and being playful. he does it every day and i dont like it. his only myfriend i want him 2 stop how can i tell him but not hurting his feeling.........help me
2007-11-14 15:26:22 · 4 answers · asked by mayra v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
his also being horney and stupid
2007-11-14 15:52:34 · update #1
Odd....he's 'hurting your feelings' with the unwanted tickling but you won't stand up for yourself and tell him to stop it because it might 'hurt his feelings'! Are his feelings more important than yours?
If you had more self respect, you would not let anyone 'hurt your feelings' without some kind of protest! He's just treating you the way you allow yourself to be treated - WITH CONTEMPT.
You teach others how to treat you and If you want people to treat you well, you have to be willing to stand up for yourself and let them know what you will or will not put up with --- regardless of how that impacts their 'feelings'.
He is not more important or valuable than you are and you surely must deserve to be respected and treated better than being tickled against your will - even by a so-called friend!!!!
good luck,
jim
2007-11-14 16:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u jus got to tell im straigth up i was in the same situation and i told this guy that he was pissing me of and that he needed to stop.tell him u dnt like it, and that u have no intentions of hurting his feelings
2007-11-14 23:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, jus tell em to stop and if he doesnt i would jus tickle em back until he tells u to stop and then say see how i feel? if u stop i will stop. problem solved.
2007-11-14 23:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like... listen, i like being friends with you, but you are being a little to.. clingy.. so just like back off a little.
2007-11-14 23:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋