i'm 18, me and my boyfriend are freshmans in college, and we're ready to have sex. how do i lead into sex in a romantic way without really saying anything?
don't worry, we'll use protection, and we've been going out for a year and a half.
2007-11-14 16:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like parents have the sex talk with adolescents, YOU must bring it up in the relationship. Let him know that you are really serious about your relationship -- If you haven't already -- and tell them that you would like to take things to the next level. This is one of those things that you HAVE to talk about, and it's not always passionate and beautiful like in movies. You have to say something to them, or else it could be forced. Or even embarassing if you do not have protection on you. I am sure by now that you have experimented or gotten close to having sex -- Maybe -- and you have a good idea of where to start. Start off slow. Let your boyfriend know that you love him and be very slow about it if you desire to maintain it as romantic.
Choose a day, an anniversary to spend time alone and have sex. Respect each other's needs and you will do fine. Good luck.
2007-11-14 17:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hei man this is a very difficult situation, I mean if its for the first time, you have to be very carefull not to freak her away. I suggest you take a picnic basket and go for a wlk where it's quite. Sit down with her and tel her how important she is to your life, tel her that her lips are hot and you would like to have a chance to kiss them. Watch her reaction, if she smiles and becomes shy kiss her softly and lock eyes with her. You will see if she wants another kiss only this time it should be passionate. Eat your meal and go back to your room, in the room you should kiss her, stroke her arms, kiss her neck, stroke her hair, embrace her gently, if ti heats up go for her thighs but hey take it slowly..... the rest will happen just by it's self. GOOD LUCK BUDDY. ONE OTHER THING SHOW CONFIDENCE.
2016-05-23 05:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay. Start up on the couch, maybe watchin a movie. Make out a little bit...but get a little more into it than you normally do. Then casually stand up, walk away into the room you're ready to do it in and wait for him to come. I think he'll get the idea.
2007-11-14 17:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to say something. You have to have the sex talk. What birth control do you use? What are you willing to do or not do? Where will you do it? How do you feel? What do you expect? You have to have the talk.
2007-11-14 16:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you have been together for a year and a half and you have'nt had sex?! that's not ony sad, but insane considering your 18 years old! damn hoe!
2007-11-14 17:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by maldoggz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grab the bull by the HORN. I cant get any more clear than that.
2007-11-14 17:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by sharksfan1912 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none can say these through open yahoo answers...if i do...i will get reported
2007-11-14 16:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
uh..just do it if you are ready...god..
2007-11-14 16:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by hey_thanks_you_guys 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?? JUST PULL HIS PANTS DOWN GET NAKED AND SUCKY ALREADY! I HATE VIRGINS
2007-11-14 17:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by lady bird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋