My friends tend to ignore me or push me to the side and the ones i actually really like are always older or younger than me so we don't have any clases together.
whenever i make a best friend, we will hang out all the time and then suddenly he or she will:
*find a new best friend
*suddenly change personalities and distant themselves from me
*dissappear without any word etc.
*seem to have TRIED to forget me and are polite but that's it, but i catch the people stare at me like they are sad that we aren't friends anymore or something...
my classmates and strangers will listen to what i have to say and are really nice and compliment me a lot and are really nice.
i feel like a jerk because i blow a lot of people off because i don't want to abandon my lunchtime "friends" who ignore me and i don't get along with well...
i'm a senior, so i don't care to change much now...
i'm just curious why this is
thank you!!!><
2007-11-14 15:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Those are nowhere near your friends, they don't even care about you, people who actually care about you is who you want to be friends with.
2007-11-14 15:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last part of your post says it all:
"i feel like a jerk because i blow a lot of people off because i don't want to abandon my lunchtime "friends" who ignore me and i don't get along with well...
i'm a senior, so i don't care to change much now..."
So, you decided that those who treat you with zero respect are where your time is best spent and to top it all off you don't care to change it!
Thats like choosing to eat a lemon instead of an orange. That is unless you enjoy the sourness of lemons.
Your choice on the other hand will have a life long impact on you and it's quality. If you really want to live a life filled with disappointment and disconnect then you are on track.
Perhaps it would be really helpful for you to stop and look at what you are getting from having such unhealthy relationships.
Good luck,
James
Possibility is not an accident, it's a choice!
2007-11-14 23:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by WealthyHeart 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a senior, I'd say you are old enough to study and learn all about self-esteem.
After you repair your damaged self-esteem, you'll be attracted to and attract real friends and much better situations all around.
Bad self-esteem is at the heart of what is going on with you so get busy and learn all about it.....
good luck,
jim
2007-11-14 23:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by jimrich 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all those are not your friends, with friends like that who needs enemies?
second of all, ditch the so called friends at lunchtime for friends that you can actually talk to and they will listen...thats what makes friends, being able not only to talk...but to have the ability to actually listen to another.
2007-11-14 23:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is pretty sad if stranger treats you better than your so called "friends" do.they are not really your friends then.leave them and find some real friends.The people that you call strangers seem like your friends.not those ether people.
2007-11-15 00:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need new friends. those little brats don't come under the definition of friends.
2007-11-14 23:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Evoke 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are not friends their cowards or bullies or backstabbers-so ignore them-matey.
2007-11-15 01:26:26 · answer #7 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋