asked me if he could publish my poem , asked what is my favorite books, books that i read most of the time so he can go to the library and read them too
replies whenever i text him and tells him im the most sensible person he has ever encountered when it comes to texting
then suddenly ignores me in school cause i have ignored him out of awkward shyness
then tells his friends he thinks i act and think like a guy
then texts me and asks me why i did not look his way or talk to him in school the other day
then after 3 months of not talking to me, suddenly asks me if i would like to share ideas with him regarding their group project and asks me if i wouldnt mind giving a piece of my mind and inviting me to their acquiantance party,
i dont know what is up with this guy, is he just merely being friendly, or just doesnt know what to say, he has enrolled in some of my philosophy subjects though he is not a philosophy major.
2007-11-14 16:02:31 · 7 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ding dong! hi its me "obvious" may i come in?
what the heck is wrong with you? wake up! he likes you, what else do you want him to do? "whats wrong with him" how about whats wrong with you? geez you girls make it hard enough to ask you out , would-ja like him to cut off his ear for you? (check your history books for the guy who did that for a girl)
go ask HIM out. its your turn now.
you dont have to marry the guy, go have fun and if it doesnt work out it doesnt work out. and ya both move on. stop wasting yours and his time wondering what if.
go have fun together.
now go text him, GO!
~Steve
2007-11-14 16:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by Steve S. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can explain just about every piece of your story for you...
The first part, he asked about publishing your poem as a way to compliment you.
He asked about your favorite books as a way to get to know you better and a way to express his interests in your interest.
When you ignored him, he got scared that you didn't feel the same way, so he backed off. How was he supposed to know you ignored him out of shyness vs out of disliking him.
During the three month gap, he was probably testing how you react. Guys in general worry if they're always the one initiating the conversations, so sometimes we back off to see if you'll keep talking to us.
Eventually, he decided to give up on that and try asking you to hang out, because he liked you and hoped that despite your not contacting him, that he could convince you to like him too.
As for the philosophy classes, either he just likes the subject, or he's looking for a way to spend more time with you.
Honestly, my guess is he like you. Give him a sign that you like him too and you can judge his reaction.
2007-11-15 00:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That guys is a typical shy guy who is always attracted to a lot of girls but here you are first in the list so its up to you to take the next step or not if u really dare to go along with him just ask him for a evening walk along the park , if not just leave him
2007-11-15 00:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by sanntovaz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not sure yet. If you are interested, play it cool and be your own person. Never change who you really are for anyone. If he likes the real you then voila! If not, nothing is lost. Tell him it is polite for the man to approach the female in the hallway. It is he who is timid.
He kinda sounds desperate
2007-11-15 00:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Shintz62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well from how he's acting, he's probably just nervous. He might not want to show his affection to you around his guy friends. Sometimes guys have an odd way of showing how they feel. Find out his past with girls, does he like to date, does he respect women, does he act the same way to all girls. !!!hope i helped
2007-11-15 00:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I triple dog dare you to ask him that question, just like that. "Are you just being friendly, or are you scared to ask me out?"
Put that ball squarely in his court.
2007-11-15 00:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
0hhhh
2007-11-15 00:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Cody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋