Is my life really that bad?

Question

Well Im in highschool a "senior" finally but in Texas your required to pass 4 Test in order to graduate and I still yet have been able to pass math and science? So im really stressing on that. College applications are driving me crazy and scholarships =[[ Relationships arent working for me and recently I saw this stupid movie on lifetime about aids in highschool and it said even if ur a virgin you can still get aids so Im debating wether I should get a aids test, So yeah School,relatioships, and life itself is UGH!!!!! Oh and all this stress has cause my eating habbits to change a lot so im gaining wait also =[[ ugh!!!!! Please give me positive advice? Oh and how my life could be worse?

Answer 1

Good Lord! Take a deep breath! One step at a time. Have your counselor or your parents help you with the college apps. They can be very overwhelming. Find somebody to study with that is a bit smarter than you are.

Go to your doctor and tell him/her about your fear of HIV and let them advise you.

Good luck.......don't forget to have a little fun. That's what high school is about. Making memories

Answer 2

Don't worry about getting into college, many Tech colleges will accept you with a goodish SAT score or if you pass their compass test.
The only way you could get aids and still be a virgin is if you've had oral sex or have had a LARGE intake of bodily fluid (eg. saliva) from an infected person.
I don't know what to say about the relationships thing. Senior year has had it's fun with me as well.
Well, you could have been in a car accident and be stuck in the hospital, you could've been held back a grade, you could've gotten your gf pregnant, etc

Answer 3

Man ... you already confuse me! you're asking for a positive advice and then how your life could be worse???

Ok, I go for the positive advice:

Math and science, piece of cake! study harder, ask for friends to help you out, ask for the people you know are good in those subjects, keep studying harder. done.

A movie, dude is only a movie, please don't believe all what they say, you'll have a better existence, trust me, you're not the only one who has believe in a movie and then...

If you are so concern about AIDS, first always carry on you a condom, second never do it without it, third no matter how "good" she looks (be smart always use it). As well read more about the theme, get real information, not rumors that will always make your world upside down, nope, look for information don't believe it from a movie (unless it says "true story")

And look for another way to deal with the stress than eating or at least eat carrots, drink lot of water, if not you are just adding more problems to your health. Real ones as stress and overweight.

Your life can be as good as you want, keep that in mind instead of crap.
:)

Answer 4

It could be worse, believe me, things have yet to happen that make taking and passing tests look like playtime in second grade. The thing is that life is pretty much what you make of it, and you aren't doing much but eating your way into another problem. Go to the gym instead of the kitchen, you meet more people that way and look and feel more confident too.
Then do something really radical and either study or get a school tutor. In other words, do something constructive.
As far as sex goes, you do have that to look forward to, but forget about the AIDS test, if you are a virgin, that's pretty difficult to do without sexual contact. Here is a hint as far as that goes, ask out a girl who is one step down from you on the attractiveness meter. You stand a much better chance of meeting someone nice and going out with someone easier.
Life will come, dating, graduating, sex, marriage, jobs, kids, all of it will be there, but you have to do some buckling down first.

Answer 5

God I wish I had your problems,lets see,Ill put you in my shoes for a moment.I dropped out of school(went and passed a GED 10 years later without studying,so I guess I did pay attention in school)Got into drugs(20 years),life was good,Then at 40 I realized(better late than never) that I was sick,turned myself in(i drive a truck) lost my job,and an income of about a thousand a week,went through rehab,living on about $40.00 a week for 8 months( the rest of the $250.00)I made went to bills(For a larger budget).Life was good,the drugs didnt get me into trouble,only when I decided to quit and do the right thing.(I wouldnt change my decision if I had to do it over again) My wife left me a week before I turned myself in.We are back together now(16 years married) and I drive a truck again( but for a little more than half of what I used to make.So in short,you worry too much! Focus on the the classes you need to pass,you wont get aids unless your promiscuous or exchanging blood.Your too young for any serious relationship(trust me youll see what I mean as you get older).So just focus on what needs to be done,take your time with things you cant control,but apply your self to the things you can change and it will all work out....I promise!

Answer 6

yes there is people in this world who's life is worse than yours.yet you asked for help.first of all you should ask for help maybe from a tauter and talk to the teacher tell them you are having problems in this area.ya might be surprised to know they will help.about the aids ewe,if ya is sexually active or have been in past ya better run to get the test,and if ya have been with anyone well just to be safe i would.maybe it will help you be at ease.the girlfriend thing well maybe ya need to just take a break and worry about school for now and the girls will come to you.depression will cause ya to change alto if ya feel it is a problem go talk to a counsel at college or someone who can help ya.especially before it gets out of control.good luck and hope i helped

Answer 7

Darling its nearly impossible to get HIV if you are a virgin! Unless you have a lot of contact with blood or regular contact with needles it will not happen to you. Anyway my Uncle is HIV+ and he is alive and kicking so don't even stress it.

Wipe that worry away, it's silly.

This is such a busy and full-on time in your life but it does go away, I promise!

My best advice to you is, be as healthy as you can be. Look after yourself because you are PRECIOUS. It is a hard time, everyone knows it, so you have to treat yourslef like a Prince.

-Eat well: at this stressful time you deserve the best fuel you can get your hands on. You wouldn't put crap fuel in your car for the Formula 1 would you?
-Exercise because it does give you happy endorphins
-Watch the funny movies you silly! Laughter is very good for you, and watching depressing things is not

It does pay off to work as hard as you can at this time, but you have to be fair on yourself, you can only do your best.

I walked into my final Maths exam, and I was honest with myself, I knew very little. I just let it go, I said "You know what, I'm great at other things, I'm not going to hold myself to ransom about this." And I went in and did the best I could [which wasn't very good! :o)] but I didn't let myself stress over it. Very healthy!

Then I did as best as I could in the things I was good at.

If you are suffering from mild anxiety a three or four week course of the herb St John's Wort will help to take the edge off. It is mild but highly effective, you can google it.

As I said this is a hard time, but you will get through it and life gets better and better. Yippee!

Answer 8

well, if you pass the TAKS (i'm guessing) then you'll graduate. if you go into the test with a clear mind, you'll do better than if you're stressed.
you prolly shouldnt get aids tested (that's just for people who's parents have aids or people who do drugs)
relationship stuff is tough, but it's highschool, it's just preparation for the real world.
and it could get worse if war was waged in america rather than a foreign country.

Answer 9

hmm i think you're actually fortunate to worry about those stuff.

1. you're smart enough to even stress about college stuff
2. you're rich enough to go to a high school and eat and watch television
3. you're not a retard. at least you know about aids test, and i never even heard of it until today
4. wear a condom! that should guarantee you from getting aids

and relax! talk to family members and friends or a counselor. they can give you many positive advices about your situation. just let your relationships go with the flow. i'm sure you'll find your special someone. and study. no one is stupid. i swear everyone thinks faster than me, but i work hard, so i succeed more than they did. just relax and drink your favorite drink and watch your favorite movie for one day, to refresh yourself.

good luck

Answer 10

ur life can be worse

calm down . breathe

just study for the tests, you will be fine.. the movie . who cares. aids is not that easy to get , im sure ur fine. if u want a test. go for it. relationships , well tehy come and go. that will be okay.. go back to healthy eating habbits..

the more of a positive outlook u have on your life. the more you will find things go your way

try it. it works