whenever i talk to or see the guy i like, anything he does i'll be thinking like, ok this means that he is sick of you, that means he really likes you, etc...
2007-11-14 15:56:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to do that when I was younger. Then I met my fiance and he told me, "Guys REALLY don't think that much about what we say or do. I promise. So stop." And I did. I mean, it wasn't super easy, but I've learned that they really don't put hidden meanings behind a touch. Not intentionally anyway. Just relax. If you want to know something, just ask. Just see where it goes. Become his friend. Be yourself, and give him reason to notice you. If it doesn't work out with this guy, there will be others. Just be yourself and don't worry so much.
2007-11-14 16:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kat1286 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know just what you mean. It is so easy to over analyze everything a guy says esp when you like him. But trust me, just relax and have confidence in the strong powerful woman or girl that you are and let things fall into place. Remember too, if you think negative thoughts, negative actions will follow. Be positive! Good luck! :)
2007-11-14 16:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is very normal and common among most people. Everybody is important to themselves and thus thinks (to some degree) that everything revolves around them; specifically if you care for somebody.
In my mind I believe this guy should be more concerned with how YOU feel and worrying if he has what it takes to impress you! Remember guys tend to want 1) what they preceive they can not have 2) confidence & 3) mystery.
Good Luck!
2007-11-14 16:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Duncan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great question..yes yes yes this is very normal i had this problem for awhile and im barely growning out of it with the help of my current boyfriend. as women we tend to over analyze everything our man says..does..thinks ect and it sucks when in actuality its never what we think..like my thoughts start racing like crazy when my bf doesn't answer the phone or doesn't call me back what u have to do is try not to be overly concerned and trust that he loves you enough not to do anything to hurt you and do something fun to get your mind off of the matter. but this is normal you'll get better with this as time goes on and you and your man are still together. Try not to worry your pretty little head. (thats what my bf always tells me) lol good luck
2007-11-14 16:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Joy'Cee's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too focused on what he thinks about you and that is so sad. You should try and think more about what makes you happy; what are your interests. You are much too intense and this will put any guy right off. Be more aware of yourself and your place in this world and don't worry about what others may think about you. Think about what you think of you and concentrate of being the person you can best be and when you are confident in your own likes and dislikes then you will be mentally ready for love.
2007-11-14 16:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by veraswanee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i do the exact same thing! My friends tell me to stop over analysing everything a guy does.. when a guy does something..they don't really do it for a reason..
So just Live and Let God and go with the flow
2007-11-14 16:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by taybayybayy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overthinking is just waste of time if you trust on your partner,if you have any problem with his behaviour you can directly talk to him, why do you think so much, afterall he is your friend . always think about him and your good future and happy life , how can you make ur life more happier
2007-11-14 16:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by vijender k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that over thinking is normal for some people, in general. I over think things as well in all aspects of my life. If you do that, then it's normal for you.
2007-11-14 16:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by DeAnna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just a little paranoid because you like and you want to analyze his every move to see if he likes you or not, so then you can be happy and wait for him to act, or know that you can act
2007-11-14 16:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by cubsfan5289 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i think everyone does the same to some degree
2007-11-14 16:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋