Some advice or something?

Question

My bf and i have been together eight months, he has become so inconsiderate of my feelings, makes me cry almost every night and doesn't seem to care, but i don't want to give up because i like him so much when he isn't treating me like this..for instance he text messaged me obviously trying to be funny, or i'm not sure? it says i asked santa for a condom he gave me 3, i asked him for a dollar he gave me ten, and i asked him for a ho and he gave me this number...and he never said anything after that nor even talked to me tonite, why does he do this it hurts so bad, hes constnatly going out to the bars and getting drunk and i feel so hurt, ?

Answer 1

Holy crow! This guy is a drunken verbal abusing jerk! Why in the world would a women put up with being called a whore and then made to cry over the horrible things he says?
Hon, please have some self respect and tell this loser to get lost. Tell him when you asked Santa for an a**hole, he gave you his number! He is a loser with a capital L. Dump him like the trash he is and you will be free! Life is too good for this nonsense! Good luck you can do it!!! :)

Answer 2

You say that he makes you cry almost every night, so when is it that he "isn't treating you like this"?

Honey, this is one BIG LOSER. Don't fall into this kind of thing. It will not get better, not ever.

Take it from a woman who's been around a lonm time and who worked with battered and abused women... You can't change a guy like this and there simply is not much there in the way of a future.

If you want to continue to be miserable, then stay. But I promise that IS your future. Cut your losses now and cry for a few days and move on. I know it hurts now, but it won't for that long, not near as long as it hurts to be stuck with a cruel abusive jerk who doesn't care for you, let alone know how to treat another human being.

Answer 3

Forget about him. What kind of guy does that to his girlfriend? He doesn't seem to really care about you from what you're saying, and unless you've done something bad to him, you deserve better. Just because you've been together for eight months doesn't mean he has to stick around forever. It's horrible the way he's treating you it seems, and I would dump him and move on for someone better.

Answer 4

I'm very sorry that you were raised to have such low self worth and allow someone to treat you this horrible way. I'm even sorrier that you don't have enough self respect to dump this one and allow some one kind and loving to come into your life.
In my opinion, you are the victim of early childhood conditioning to be abused by someone you think you like. One solution to reverse your 'victim hood' conditioning is to go to work on raising your self esteem. Get some self-esteem training and put a stop to being treated so badly by someone you think you like.
You won't 'like' people like him once you have regained you self respect and honor.

good luck
jim

Answer 5

If you want to go on being treated like **** just keep him. He sounds like a real ******** and certainly has no respect for you.
If you are crying because of him you should see what you have to do. Unload him NOW.

Answer 6

Dump him. He has no excuse to treat you like that. You're better off without him.

Answer 7

drop him. bottom line. there are better guys waiting in line for you. get this bum out of the way, and make room for them.
otherwise, ill see ya on jerry.

Answer 8

IF HE TREATS U LIKE THAT THEN U REALLY NEED TO DUMP HIM TRUST ME IVE DATED A GUY LIKE THAT! AND FOUND 1 WAAAY BETTER! U DESERVE BETTER!

Answer 9

ether hes lost intrest or had alot of bad days...i feel so bad for u though :{

Answer 10

Leave him. He doesn't seem like he cares about you.