if you find out that your husband is cheating on you (you didnot see him with your own eyes)
2007-11-14 13:50:41 · 6 answers · asked by Didi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well my hubby cheated on me but if he did it again i would not be with him.I would be to hurt to face him.
2007-11-14 13:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by LEO GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to catch him.
If you do not see it with your own eyes .. then you don't know for 100 % sure.
Some circumstances are convincing .. and stories can be true .. but tread carefully with gossip.
Catch him.
If it's an on-going affair, you will eventually be able to catch him.
If it was a "one night stand" .. then he will probably do it again sometimes.
He will 'slip-up' one day.
If you want to catch him .. then don't let him know that you suspect him ... because he will be on-guard. Give him all the rope (space) he needs ... he will trip on it.
Think this out carefully.
2007-11-14 22:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to find solid prrof that he is. Then if he is in fact cheating. Call an atty and kick his A$$ out ASAP. Noone deserves to be cheated on, even if you still love him, thats not love to you if he is cheating.
Good Luck!
2007-11-14 22:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id rather gouge my eyes out then cheat on my wife. hell i wouldnt even cheat on my ex wife who cheated on me numerous times, wish i could have put a paper bag on her head though couldn't stand looking at her after i found out
2007-11-14 21:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't predict with 100% assurance what I would do...but I can say that my husband would agree with the first poster....
2007-11-14 21:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective and get your proof. Then divorce him.
2007-11-14 21:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋