how do i get the right guys to notice me?

Question

im friendly, have a good sence of humor, not ugly, etc. i have a lot of friends, but usually all my close friends get the guys and im just let out there in the cold. im not all into touchy flirty type. but i mean i will flirt its just i need a good way to approach it with out it feeling weird, ya know? and to add to that, i do not dress like a slut, but i dont wanna start, cuz thats not who i am. of course i will wear a low cut shirt once in a while. but all im asking is how can i get guys to notice me more for being hot and stuff? like the perfect package. ha

Answer 1

Talk to guys who will appreciate those things about you (your down-to-earth personality and your self-respect). There's plenty of them out there. Try talking to those not-as-hot-but-twice-as-nice kinda' guys. I'm not a looker myself but I've had no problem with girls because I try to be a nice, fun guy. Look for that type, because they'll respect you a whole lot more.

Answer 2

Just be yourself. Don't try too hard to be something you're not because then you come off as shallow or flaky since you're not being true to your own personality. You don't need to be easy or "hot" for the right guy to notice you. If you dress like a slut guys will think that they can take advantage of you. Be confident and self assured. Too many girls spend too much time worrying about whether or not they're hot when in the long run some guys would like someone they can really talk to and relate to without the pressure.

My girl was one of the ones who had "hot" friends and she was always true blue to herself and all her friends while they were back-stabbing and self-centered. Lots of guys started noticing that there was more to her than met the eye. (And yes, I think she's warm, funny, thoughtful, and very attractive)

Answer 3

Don't compare yourself to everyone else Honey.

Chances are they want different things to you. They may just want a quick sexual relationship or casual dating.

It appears you want something a bit more and that's fine. What I would suggest is to concerntrate of interests in your life you would like a guy to share. If you like working out, spend more time at the gym. Or maybe join a new group that caters for one of those other interests. Clearly people who share those things important to you are likely to be at this places as well.

Then just be friendly and open and start talking to any guy you like the look at. Just start by smiling and asking how they are. Then go from there.

Sometimes these things take time but sooner or later you will meet someone who you like without changing who you are.

Good luck.

Answer 4

once they're done dating the girls with "perfect looks" and crap personalities, they'll come around and regain their senses. This is what, high school? College will be better. Don't compromise yourself because you will regret it later.

But I will say that as a guy, it takes a whole lot more guts to approach a quiet girl because of fear of rejection. So just flirt in a way that feels natural to you.

We can tell when you're trying too hard....that's a turn off.

Answer 5

Hang out where the right type of guys are. But be careful. If they are attracted to the flirty girls, they're not the one for you. It can be tough. Be patient and be approachable. Strike up a conversation and smile at the guy you like. Maybe try to be more feminine. Maybe you are already. I dunno... just looking for suggestions. (I don't mean trashy!!!) I mean maybe wear some earrings, a pretty blouse or skirt one day, or something that will get the guy to notice you. You've already got a winning personality now let those guys see your girly side.

Answer 6

Attraction is more than outer beauty. There's spirit, wit, personality, You should have at least five serviceable teeth, preferably in front. You gotta have a great sense of humor, and be raunchily sexy for me to consider your beauty. You don't have to be a Super Model to be beautiful but a real pulse, a great sense of humor, easy-going, intelligent woman with southern values and a little charm goes a long way.

Answer 7

the right guy will come around who likes you for who you are not cuz your a slut . TRUST ME When guys want to be in serious relationship they go for the hard to get girl not the slut!

Answer 8

be yourself and everything should fall unto place. the right guy should realize how special u r and that ur not some kind of gurl u see off of the street but a special one. any other questions for me?

Answer 9

Date Republicans :)

Answer 10

hey thats like me!!!!!!!!! um flirt and be loud!