How many have had an extramarital affair that your spouse never found out about?

Question

I am curious. I am not married. Nor have I ever even considered involving myself with a married man. I just want to know if this is more common that what we would expect it to be. Being that this is anonymous we can all benefit.

1 what profession are you both in?
2 your ages at the time of marriage?
3 how long you dated priror to marriage?
4 first marriage?
5 how long married?
6 happily married?

Please answer the title question thoroughly and please answer the 6 questions. I can only see as much as your words allow me to.

Thank you.

Disclaimer: offensive remarks towards ME will not be tolerated. Please be an adult about this. You should not answer this question if it hits a sore spot and causes you to insult me because I will not put up with it.

Answer 1

I've been married three times. This is my third marriage. I left my first husband for my second, my second husband left me for someone else. Now on my third- I currently am in a long standing relationship with someone whom I rarely see. While I love my husband more than anything, I cannot imagine being without the man I have been involved with. I can tell you that our marriage and life together has never been better than it has since I began my affair.
1. Stay at home mother/Electrical Engineer (the other man is involved with foreign policies)
2 I was 25, he was 27
3 We dated approximatly two years before marriage.
4 This is his first, my third, and the other man's never been married.
5 We've been married for six years. I've been having the affair about two years.
6 Our marriage was on the rocks before I began my relationship outside the marriage. Our marriage is now stronger and happier than it's ever been.

Answer 2

what profession are you both in? im a receptionist, hes an IT manager
your ages at the time of marriage? i was 21, he was 24
how long you dated priror to marriage?about a year and a half
first marriage? yes
how long married? about 20 years
happily married? very much so

ive never had a proper affair (nor would i), but ive had a few one night stands that hes never found out about, thankfully.

Answer 3

No, I never will and Hope he does the same. He travels for work a lot to many countries around the world, still we have a great communication and understanding in all ways.

1. Him; Electronic Engineer
Me; Graphic designer/ and Child Development Teacher
(But he works and travel around the world, and I'm currently a stay at home mom)

2. 29-22yrs
3. 5 years
4. yes
5. 6 years
6. Yes

Answer 4

I've never cheated and wouldn't. I don't think he has, we talk alot, I think I'd see a difference in him. My friend recently put herself in a position where she could have cheated and my husband was all over me to talk to her about marriage and respecting herself and her husband. It was nice to hear him say those things. I've noticed attrative men, but it passes as they leave the building. I'm happy with my husband and I love my kids. I wouldn't do something intentionally to hurt any of them. I'd leave before I cheated.

1. He's works at a trade, I'm a homemaker
2. both 28
3. 4 years
4. first marriage for both
5. 5 years and it just gets better.
happy

Answer 5

The Infidelity very very nearly continuously exhibits that there's no longer an efficient thank you to talk dissatisfaction in the marriage. Infidelity might sign a individual’s dissatisfaction with themselves, fairly than their companion. they might desire to experience diverse or be diverse. inspite of the reality that dissatisfaction with companion or your self are significant motives, there are others who work together in an affair or infidelity in basic terms for the intercourse. they do no longer choose their dating to end, they only seek for the exhilaration that being with somebody else brings. the two way, the soreness, humiliation and betrayal are an analogous. Catching a cheating companion is complicated by way of fact cheaters have the better hand while it contains infidelity. actually, maximum infidelity is going undetected, or unproven, by way of fact the regulations of the interest tend to prefer people who cheat. in easy terms 25 % marriages survives affair, seventy 5% leads to divorce.

Answer 6

No never cheated in my marriage and I will not date
until my pending divorce is final and the ink is dry.
In my pre-marriage dating I dated 2 men who SAID they were single and they were NOT. One had just got
seperated and could not wait for the ink to be dry,
I called him a loser pig and walked home, we were
out having a nice dinner when he mentioned it.
I needed to walk or I would have slapped him
and he was not worth slapping. LOL

Answer 7

I've never had one but of the ones that I know that have, it's military men who are GONE for long periods of time without their spouses, * or military women, let me clarify, and anyway, they end up being unfaithful.

Answer 8

I just posted a survey: my frinds and I conducted a survey and our study was re. corporate america in NYC and out of the 100 men surveyed 90 cheated...

Answer 9

1. im a stripper hes unemployed
2. 26 me 27 him
3. a couple months
4. 2nd for both of us
5. 8 months
6. yes

i had an affair and wasnt caught but i ended up confessing b/c my thoughts of guilt were eating me up inside

Answer 10

My affair turned into a secound marriage.So yes I was caught lol