Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

should that be a good enough excuse to stop a girl from becoming promiscuous?

do you think promiscuous girls really care what guys think of them? they obviously aren't looking for a man to respect them, they're looking for sex without having to deal with the commitments associated with relationships.

2007-11-14 07:03:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so if you had to choose for your wife.Would you wan't to have the love of your life be a profession who wins a lot of money,but can't cook or clean or anything but you still love her..OR would you wan't a love at home.Who know's how to cook for you,and have the house clean and everything inbetween ?

2007-11-14 07:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by I walk,my walk & Talk,my talk 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 06:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by shirleykins 7 in Weddings

Kid is 15 and messed with my sister. Naturally, as a big brother I want to make this kid regret it.

2007-11-14 06:54:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok long story short..i love love love shoes! i have hundreds of shoes from $20 vintage shop ones to $2000 designer signed ones. so for my wedding i want to get a basic classy white heal but die it a very very light blue (for my some thing blue) my mother thinks this is very tacky and wants me to do white. i figured no one will see them any ways. is this a battle worth fighting with my mother? or should i just find some thing else blue?

2007-11-14 06:50:50 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my girlfriend were about to have sex for the first time (me and her). we started making out, caressing each other, and I was ready to go. But as soon as the clothes came off, so did my soldier. I know its not because she's ugly because she is gorgeous, and i dont think i would have gotten an erection from all that kissing and caressing and such if she was ugly... so can a cold room ruin an erection??

2007-11-14 06:47:28 · 28 answers · asked by Jesus 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always gone to my inlaws(they are great) for the holidays. Because I am an only child my parents were invited too, and did come on occasion. However, my parents recently moved 8 hours away. I want to go there for Thanksgiving. My mom is begging me to come. My husband thinks it is unfair to his mom who is a single parent for us to leave for the holiday. (She has 2 other children and her sisters family who will be there.) I think it is selfish and unfair that he does not want to see my parents who I haven't seen in 2 months. He says he will go after we eat with his family on thursday, but that would mean we wouldn't get to my folks until after midnight. I would only have Friday and Sat. with them. I miss them terribly. Am I wrong for expecting him to give a little in this area?

2007-11-14 06:41:28 · 29 answers · asked by Sparky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What advice would you give to someone who is in the dating scene? What to look for when one is dating?

I am currently dating two great guys, both with amazing qualities, but I don't think I am in love with either of them...#1 I have been with for almost 7 yrs. We have good conversation, but he treats me more like a friend now & there isn't much chemistry. He is very respectful & is always there for me, but he's a little boring. #2 I met about 6months ago. We get along great, have amazing conversation, he is more adventerous, but I am not 100% attracted to him all the time.
Many people have told me to look at who is more husband material, because in the long run, the butterflies & "love" fade & reality sets in.

Is this true? I am so confused right now. I don't even know what I need anymore or what I should be looking at for the long run!! Any advice???

2007-11-14 06:41:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if it was up to me i would like it 3 or 4 times a day

when i wake up, during the day some time, and bed time

2007-11-14 06:38:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i cant make friends with girls...they hate me. Aparently im too competitive and weird...that being said, i tend to get along well with guys. Here in lies the problem...the only friends i have are guys who have crushes on me. Now...id understand that if I didnt have a long term boyfriend, but come on people...why is it that you guys still think you have a chance and 2 months down the line when nothign happens you get pissed off and flip out? I dont lead people on, and I make sure they know that i have a boyfriend...i dont get thatif they are jsut tryign to get some why they don put their efforts into a girl who is single...please explain this?

2007-11-14 06:37:24 · 6 answers · asked by 00000 5 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband treat them like we would lkie tp be treated , how about you do you cookouts and do hobbies together, and there chidren play with theres,

2007-11-14 06:36:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't know the bride at all and I'm not much more than a casual friend of the groom. I'm not part of his main circle of friends, I only know him because I used to work for his family. I was unfairly dismissed from the job and don't get along with his father, though my friend doesn't seem to know the details. I don't think it would be fair to play such an important role in the wedding as I think there will be an unpleasant atmosphere between me and my friend's family and I would rather not be put in that position. I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings by telling him I don't want to do it or about my disagreements with his father, but I need to get out of this situation. The wedding is going to be in St Lucia early next year but I want to decline now rather than accept and then let them down at the last minute.

2007-11-14 06:36:19 · 20 answers · asked by Quinn 1 in Weddings

how do you make to your spouce or partner when you've blander and feel rooten about it...it was all caused by some of your mis judgement..even though your partner still assures you that its not over ..but that rooten feeling is still there haunting you..
Not only that you're in two different places..what i mean here is not sleeping or having an affir with someone ...no! no! not that ..
what do i do please?

2007-11-14 06:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband has been gone 4 months in military i think he has called me 4 or 5 times. This is os weird because we had sleep together a week before he left. I really don't want to talk to him because he is a jerk . I kinda think he has alot going on up there or i wonder if he just hates me . what do you think do you think when he gets back to our boring town he will try to contact me should i be a btch or have one converse before we divorce as i think he used me for a greencard and he has rented room and went to strip clubs. I see this on the bank statement. I have a 7 yr old that this really hurt i had to explain to her why he never answered and never called. She has to sleep at nite with the stuff animals he won out of machines she never slept with animals before and why only the ones he got her? i hate him for this and we have a child that will be 2 at christmas. He is 35 me 30 any suggestions how 2 deal all this he is bk in town next wk i moved out of our apt

2007-11-14 06:34:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think the only thing that interests men is sex?

i want to be like a normal person who keeps his man happy on bed and as well as being a soulmate. If you don't perform they will leave you to look for new flavours to practise their fantasies, right? that's why so many people are having affairs outside their marriage.

why men are like that?

2007-11-14 06:33:15 · 13 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 06:31:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are going on a cruise and I do not want to stop at the island that he got married in to his last wife. Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about going there? We have not booked it yet but he is mad that I don't want to go there.

2007-11-14 06:31:24 · 16 answers · asked by emmablue32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive have been seeing this girl for almost two months. I asked her about a relationship a month ago and she said to my face she wanted a relationship out of this but she needed more time to get to know me because of bad past experiences. She said I could trust her. Then today after two months with me she gets back with her old boyfriend. She showed no signs whatsoever that she was going to do this. Would you be angry if this happened to you?

2007-11-14 06:26:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or will he stay true?

2007-11-14 06:24:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, we finally got married, over a year ago, and now she has the starter green card, 6 months ago, and she still wont change her name. She says she isnt ready to. What the heck does that mean? And why does it bother me so much?

2007-11-14 06:24:27 · 20 answers · asked by Guy P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband and I have been separated for 5 months now. We have not filed for divorce, we're in no rush. During this time I've dated and so has he. We haven't remained amiacable except for when it comes to having sex. We've hooked up a couple of times. But last time, two weeks ago, the sex was horrible and I didn't feel anything for him. He kept telling me that he missed me and loved me, but I'm not sure if I believe him (can't believe anything they say while inside of you really). He just texted me and asked if I was coming to visit him this weekend and wants to hook up again. I'm not sure if I want to. I mean, I want to know that he still misses me and part of me wants to go back with him and always will, but should I do this if I know it's not going anywhere?

2007-11-14 06:22:47 · 20 answers · asked by Rhyann 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Son loves both women
went to mom for advice
What should she tell jher son
He loves his mom and values her opinion. He said she has never led him wrong in all the years hes known her
He knows she can tell him right again
mom is in a delimma. She doesnt want to lose her sons respect.

2007-11-14 06:22:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So how can i confront her? Ive tried, but just get the 'ill take care of it' response. She took care of the last guy by locking me out of our cell phone records. Now it seems it may be happening again already. its only been 2 weeks. She says its just being friends, but i am not so sure. I am on the road, and cant tell whats going on. i am on the road because she told me i needed to be, to make more money.... im just so torn inside, and hate that i cant focus on what is going on...

2007-11-14 06:18:43 · 15 answers · asked by Guy P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married in September 2005. I had a very good rapport with me photographer and his wife. I received the proofs and sent him my album layout over a year ago. He will not return my e-mails and when I sent him a demanding message about a month ago his wife replied back that they sent out my album to be put together and they have had a rough year. A few deaths and a sick mother. I have e-mailed him twice since then and he is not returning my e-mails. The catch is that I have sent a lot of referrals his way and my best friend will be using him in September 2008 for her wedding so I will have to see him then. I feel bad contacting a lawyer but I really want my pics! Has anyone had a similar problem or any advice?

2007-11-14 06:17:45 · 29 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Weddings

when a guy says i don't know im not sure what i want or can't say idk...when asked what he wants with regard to starting up again the once broken relationship...what is he trying to say?

2007-11-14 06:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my husband again what does he want her or me-- he is living with her... he says again he does not know. it has been a little over 2 months since he has been living with her, they only known each other 3 weeks and they move in together.
my husband says to me you are such a good person, He didnt mean for this to happen, he is confused--- he just dosnt know what he wants-- I just wrote him a very deep letter about marriage and how I feel--- and told him that he wants to rebuild our marriage she has to go.. and this will be the last contact with him from me

2007-11-14 06:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by mm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 27 years old, and very into the outdoors (hiking, camping, canoeing) and working out. He also loves the Red Sox! However - he seems to have everything he needs for all of his sports, and doesn't have much room in his apartment for anything big.

Any ideas? I'm trying to avoid a gift card but it seems like my only choice.

2007-11-14 06:15:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does it make a difference with sex, does it feel different for the Woman? I think it does..For some reason if the man is not cut, it never feels FULLY hard because it is always covered with (soft skin) ??

2007-11-14 06:14:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is odd i know. My wife is very religous and faithful, and just a very good person. I am in no way religous, and we have many differences on raising a child (home school which she wants and i dont, etc) Things like that

I guess my issue is this.....im feeling like im not right for her. I feel like my not being religous takes something away from her life and that she really wants to be a stay at home mom...which i also dont want.

I love her very much...and she loves me. Just not sure where to go from here.

And dont say go to church. Im a good person and live my life right, but its just not me...im not comfortable there and its just not who i am. So part of me feels like im taking that from her becasue she wont go without me.

The stay at home thing is similar. She wants to be near the child (we have none btw) and i dont want that.

So nothing is really wrong, we get a long great.....but at what point knowing all that...do you still say you are not right for each other?

2007-11-14 06:11:48 · 15 answers · asked by Matt C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend, and every day in every conversation he mortifies me!!!
Is this a sign that breaking up is a must?

2007-11-14 06:09:13 · 1 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating