So how can i confront her? Ive tried, but just get the 'ill take care of it' response. She took care of the last guy by locking me out of our cell phone records. Now it seems it may be happening again already. its only been 2 weeks. She says its just being friends, but i am not so sure. I am on the road, and cant tell whats going on. i am on the road because she told me i needed to be, to make more money.... im just so torn inside, and hate that i cant focus on what is going on...
2007-11-14 06:18:43 · 15 answers · asked by Guy P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just be straight up with her man, quit the bullshit games and lies and ask for the damn truth. every1 deserves to know the truth. ur out there making that money and she is possibly fooling around, then gonna spend it....hell no dont take that **** dude u gotta be aggresive otherwise shes gonna walk all over u...show her ur in charge. if she cant handle it and wants to be with some1 else then its her loss. remember ur making the money! and although it may not buy happiness, it sure wont go to some1 putting u through hell...
2007-11-14 06:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by itsme21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point there is no use for you to confront her, its too late. You might as well just leave her, cause if she wanted you as a partner she could give you access on her phone and prove to you that nothing is going on with her so called friend, but instead she locks you out and by her doing that is to hide what she is really doing.
2007-11-14 06:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by you suck. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sir are being taken for a ride. If it is just a friendship there would be no reason to keep you from speaking to him there would be no reason for you to be kept from the records. Is there a reason you have to be on the road to make all this extra money, how is she contributing to your marriage finacially? Fact is she says she needs you on the road because 1. it makes it easy for her to do what she wants, have her cake and eat it too, 2. because when you do actually catch her she will attempt to make it your fault because you are always gone.
So catch her leave her and don't fall for the its your fault guilt trip.
2007-11-14 06:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry my friend but youare what women consider a punk. You're obviously weak and have little resolve. This woman has noooooo respect for you, you ust have a good white collar job and make decent money.
This woman is kinda taking the role of the big bubba prsioner and you are the prison punk, When she's done using you, she'll sell you off for a pack of cigarettes and some ramen noodels.
2007-11-14 06:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by huckleberryjoe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her than you need to end your relationship. If you have no trust in someone than there really is no relationship. If she cheated on you once than more than likely it will happen again, especially if you are on the road so much. Sorry, but you need to think about you now and if this is the kind of person she is you need to leave and find someone who will be true to you. Good luck!
2007-11-14 06:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Marra's mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look you need to stand up for your self and tell her your geting sick of her underhanded ****.She is playing you for a fool telling you to go on the road.You need to set her ***down and tell her like it is.She is playing around behind your back tell you to get a job on the road so she can have her fun.She is not going to stop so you need to stop it by dumping her ***.Find some one that wants you for you.
2007-11-14 06:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by the answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chump. Dump her. The real clue...amongst all this other stuff she's doing...is telling you that you HAVE to be on the road. Now why do you think that is? Hmmmmmmmmm?
2007-11-14 06:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's how you do it:
Get the F*CK outta MY house you 2 dollar street walkin c*m guzzling gutter whore!
2007-11-14 06:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hire an attorney or go to Legal Aid, you file for divorce, and you just smile and say "I'll take care of it" when she asks you about it.
How many times are you going to let her cheat?????????????????
2007-11-14 06:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask her....sounds like your wife is hiding something....You gave her one chance...how many more are you going to give her?
2007-11-14 06:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋