Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

or do they just have to have it all from a pure "skill" level?

2007-11-14 05:23:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

complain about .I just wanna no why!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-14 05:23:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You can answer this even if you are not married but in an LTR or if you have had one in the past.

If so, would it be a one night stand or an ongoing affair?

2007-11-14 05:23:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is the father of my 3 year old son. We seperated a year ago and only recently got back together. Since we reunited my son has been acting very angry and hates being around his dad (only when we're all in the house together).
I need some advice on what I can do to make the transition of dad being back in the house easyier for both dad and son.
And just a note : The whole time we were apart my son was with me 90% of the time. So, as you can imagine he is very close with me and I feel he gets VERY jealious when my husband and I show each other any kind of attension.

2007-11-14 05:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ginger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have caught him several times and she has called him at all hours of the night waking us up! He has constantly lied to me about talking to her. He says it is completely innocent and he just didn't tell me because he didn't wanna fight. He also said it was one-sided and he didn't initiate anything. I sent her an e-mail and told her I was tired of being woken up and she blew up and said "Did he forget to tell you that sends me messages at all hours of the night!" Then she called me a *****! I showed him the message and denied calling or texting her. Then he refused to call her about it. She called me a ***** and he didn't even stick up for me! We saw her a few months ago and they didn't even acknowledge each other. I thought that was strange. Yesterday I asked him why he thought she didn't say anything and he said he had no clue! Today I found out they had seen each other in the parking lot while I was inside and he told her not to talk to him once they went inside because I was there

2007-11-14 05:22:09 · 42 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

With guy 1, I was all about women's rights. I wanted equal say in everything, I forced the issue. I wouldn't let him watch porn, i'd get mad at him for getting a hard-on when I just wanted to be romantic and make out.

With guy 2, I completely trust him to do everything. I trust him to be the "head" of the household because I trust that he would never do anything to hurt or lessen me. He is my hero. And whenever he gets a hard-on when we make out, I think... "what a beautiful thing that this healthy man loves me". It's his natural reaction and I find beauty in his male form and good health.

Which one is love, which one is stupidity?

2007-11-14 05:22:06 · 22 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

this its the story me and my wife are in difrent states and were talking on getting back togethere but until today when i told my wife if im in her future and stuff and shes like i dont know yet after yesterday she told me the oposite im just tire what should i do ?

2007-11-14 05:21:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

trouble in their marriages? Do you think it has alot to do with people not respecting the vows that said on there wedding day? I hear & have been through so many cases of everyone out for theirself in relationships. I just don't understand what is going on in our soceity.

2007-11-14 05:18:42 · 8 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Men...your opinions are welcome!

2007-11-14 05:18:05 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Last night my bf wanted to engage in a romantic evening but i was just too tired that i couldnt even put my best foot forward. He seemed upset too before going to bed, but i nudged him and told him sorry and that i was tired from working all day then going straight to the resturant for dinner at the same time attending to a 2 month old baby and two school age children. Now today he seems really bothered by it and he told me not to apologize or talk about it anymore or it will make him upset all over again. what kind of mess is that?? i really felt bad for not satisfying him but why is he so mad?? there would be other days that im able, but what's one day?? what should i tell him?? we are not the kind of couple that argues we usually talk things out.....

2007-11-14 05:13:18 · 26 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 05:13:10 · 17 answers · asked by LELE 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl i like knows i like her ad she keeps saying to everyone she hates me. but does she really? we have had moments where we keep staring at eachother and today she gave me the biggest grin ever!!! lol. but then when i want to talk to her she says she hates me. does she hate me or like me?
i sent her a note and she ripped it up :(

2007-11-14 05:11:40 · 36 answers · asked by Tommy K 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is getting married and he and his future wife do not want to register for any gifts. They have been together for a long time and do truely have everything they need. Instead they would like to set up something called a "money tree." They have said they do not expect the guest to put money in if they don't want to. But registering for things they do not need seen silly to them. I have been informed they do not want to be put in the same situation as my oldest daughter. I was told my oldest registered just to make me happy and to shut me up. Apparently she did not need anything either. And I also found out they had a yard sale and over half the gifts they received were sold because they did not need them. I've been told this money tree is at a lot of weddings. Maybe I'm just to old fashion. My son and daughter inlaw are good people. They never asked for anything not even a dime for the wedding. Should I keep my mouth shut and let them do as they wish?

2007-11-14 05:10:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My hubby is always out and leaves me on my own every evening for 5 or 6 hours, I am recently bereved as my dad passed away just few months ago. And I am alone with just the telly, I've told him many a times I'm not happy with him going out every night, but it falls on deaf ears. What shall I do? His friend has more influence on him than I do. Also my hubby knows I cant stand his friend, when I go out he is constantly on the phone to him. I come in after a shift working and he doesnt even ask how my day has been. Hes just on the phone chatting to this friend for ages. His friend works my hubby doesnt. His friends life is sorted my husband is doing nothing to find work. I work pay bills sort out the house. He sleeps late and wakes up one in the afternoon. Then he goes on the internet thats his life. We might be going for ivf I had a appointment but he cancelled it because hes saying we cant afford it. I feel he is ruining my life and I just hate him at the moment help guys

2007-11-14 05:10:18 · 40 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 05:10:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tahlequah and i live 60 miles away from him and i don't know if he is cheating on me. i see him Every other weekend. we are really close and i don't want to break up with him. what should i do?

2007-11-14 05:09:26 · 6 answers · asked by Colins Mommy 2012 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl in class the other day, we had a long conversation and it turned out pretty well. I added her on facebook and when i chatted with her online, it was totally different. She did not try to extend our conversations and she logged off without even saying bye. The next time i saw her in class again, it was the same, she was not trying to extend our conversation. I mean, what is going on? The first time i talked to her, it went well and i like her too.

2007-11-14 05:08:25 · 9 answers · asked by Monster 5 in Singles & Dating

This may sound crazy but, I don't know if I have a crush on this guy! you would think a girl would know but, I don't. Do I like him becuase he gives me flirtatious looks, or do I like him becuase he's really cute? I am the the biggest flirt in the world but, I also like a guy for his looks. So idk what to do! HELP!

2007-11-14 05:08:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mose made a new friend in the Ukraine over the internet. How does Mose raise $25,000 quickly in order to bring her to the United States to make her his bride. Is this too much for a dowry? Mose's assets are not currently liquid due to investments in new beet farming machinery.

2007-11-14 05:06:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She still doesn't treat me like her equal, and her kids don't respect me neither does she lets me discpline them when we lived togehter.....I'm am also raising my own 14 year old son.... Are we wasting our time?????

2007-11-14 05:06:24 · 21 answers · asked by bankerjay01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to propose within say 1yr, how do I go about ring shopping. Do I need to buy an expensive engagement ring or wedding ring or both? I guess I need to know what the first step is...

2007-11-14 05:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Weddings

My friend just started a new job about 3 months ago. She is married. Her boss is also married. They talk alot about relationships stuff. He is not happy in his marriage but he has 2 kids that he has to think about too. She has a daughter and is equally unhappy in her marriage. Everything they complain to each other about is the exact same complaints. He has even said that he could see himself with someone like her. She is looking for someone just like him and she doesn't know what to do. He is amazing to her. He treats her like a queen at the office. He gives her advice and feedback on things that she chooses to discuss with him. Her husband is nothing like her boss. She has searched her whole life to find someone like him but now that she found him... he is married, but not happily married. What is your advice for her?

2007-11-14 05:05:55 · 19 answers · asked by crystal g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Dating someone? than if I say no she wants to know why, if I say yes, than I get the 50 questions about her...

2007-11-14 05:01:27 · 24 answers · asked by MOs fishin 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife dropped my kids off on my door (11/15/2006) after being divorced from me for two years. I continued to pay child support until July of this year, at the rate of about $350.00 a month even though the kids lived with me all that time. I had just quit my job to start nursing school when my kids showed up. My new wife is keeping us going. I can't afford the $4000.00 to take ex back to court to change the judges order. I finally had to stop paying the $350.00 because as a student, I make 0$ ( My new wife was paying the $350.00 until she changed jobs and we can no longer afford to). I'm just waiting for the ex to get mad about something and have me put in jail for non payment. Legal aide in Ga is a joke, and will NOT help me because I'm MALE. Ex gets the kids TWO days a month and offers no support. I have about 18 months till I graduate and being picked up by the cops would be the end of school for me as my record must remain spotless to be a Nurse. Help!

2007-11-14 04:56:48 · 17 answers · asked by Lynk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I bring up the question of marriage to my boyfriend casually?
(We are both still fairly young)

2007-11-14 04:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by E-net User 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 5 years has repeatedly kept secrets and has lied to me, and some HUGE ones came out in the past few weeks. I don't want to lose him because I love him and we have two small children, but how do we function when I don't trust him and I don't respect him? He's not the same person I married, but I don't want to give up on him, and he says he is willing to do anything to keep our family together.

2007-11-14 04:55:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a baby with him and we have been together for 3 years. I no I am not perfect, but I am so tired of him always telling me that I do things wrong. I make almost twice what he brings home so u would think he would appreciate that, but instead he gets upset at me because he says that the reason why he brings home less is because I made him quit his last job. How can someone make you quit a job? I told him it was his choice but now that he brings less $ in he blames it on me and he wont let it go. When I was pregnant he punched me in my face, but in his defense I hit him first because he called me a B****. About 2 months ago I made a comment about his penis just joking around and he beat me till I had bruises all over me. I took pics in case I needed them, but I deleted them in hopes that things would just get better. He realizes he has a problem and he wants to stop drinking. I told him today that I want to break up and he just said okay I gotta go. What do I do. give up?

2007-11-14 04:53:42 · 48 answers · asked by ilovecats 1 in Marriage & Divorce

current girlfriend to make threats towards me in front of the kids and he did nothing about it. Now his Aunt wants him to have a relationship with them again by meeting at her place without the girlfriend around. I really don't think I'm ready. What should I do about the hurt that just won't go away?

2007-11-14 04:48:51 · 13 answers · asked by TwinD 3 in Family

ok im kinda stuck here and dont know what to do ....... theres this one guy i love sooooo much he says he just wants to be friends but he calls me baby he calls me on the phone he says that if he was here he could make me feel better then i heard he said i was hot he says he wants to have sex with me then a couple days ago he said i love you to me is he playing me idk its confusing but the problem is i wonder if hes afraid because he used to be BEST FRIENDS with my cousin and im wondering if my cousin threatened him and told him not to like me maybe idk though??

2007-11-14 04:48:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 04:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by ashley w 1 in Weddings