Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

2007-11-14 03:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't found them yet, but I have paid for the service. I am hoping that I can find them before I get married. My adoptive parents made it clear that they will not attend my wedding and I do not want to deal with the awkwardness of one set of parents not being there.

2007-11-14 02:56:47 · 19 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Weddings

2007-11-14 02:56:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost my dad 1yr today,and am still having a hard time.We were very close and I miss him ever so much.

2007-11-14 02:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by PatriciaLIrishladypat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My man has never been spontaneous when it comes to sex. We have only ever done it really when we are in bed about to go to sleep. He says he hates being on top of a woman and can only make love really in one position with me on top facing him. Lately we only have sex once or twice a week ( been together a year) so I can't really spice things up because we can only do it one way really. Do you think he has psychological problems? Or just a low sex drive?

2007-11-14 02:52:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to india and met someone that I like, and we did not have time for engagement, but we want to go ahead now. Is there a way that if I file for her as a fiance visa from USA, then she can go to indian embassy or wherever she has to go, and then get the visa, then I can come back to india after the 4-6 months, and then we can have the engagement and marriage and then she can come back with me right away. I am a US citizen.

Please advise
Regards,
Naveen

2007-11-14 02:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by transam44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i told a man at my work that i'm very attracted to that i just want to be friends as i'm not divorced from my husband yet only seperated. I told him i respect my marriage even though i don't want to be with my husband. He came over to my house one day actually the first time i meet him outside of work and he was all over me it was so bad i had to ask him to leave. We hadn't even gone on a date. Since then he has texted me and called which i don't answer when he comes in the break room i get up and leave. Another co worker everyday asks me why i don't like him anymore hmm..? anyways i just found out my husband who is the military just went to a strip club and paid alot also he rents hotel rooms on his weekend passes as i see from our bank account. Well i got away from this guy because i was afraid of cheating with him as he is very hot. should i talk to him now since my husband probably is cheating or should i wait and be the better person.

2007-11-14 02:52:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a college student and I have a huge crush on this guy. The thing is, he works in a building near my job, I just don't know which one. I asked him a few months ago, where he worked, but forgot. I only briefly talked to him once, which was initiated by him, and it was casual. I only see him when he comes to the post office or the cafeteria in my building which is rarely. So I hadn't seen him in a few months. However, recently, I found out that he goes to my college. I decided to leave school early one day and while I was going to my car, I saw him across the parking lot on his way to class. I was staring at him because I knew he was familiar, but I wasn't sure where I knew him from. He was staring at me too, probably for the same reason, but he then gave me a really big smile, waved, and said hi. As you know I have not seen him since, at school or at work. What should I do and how do I tell if he likes me back?

2007-11-14 02:51:41 · 5 answers · asked by sdw2840 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so we just had a baby 14 months ago and then 5 months later - boom - we're prego again. (No one told us that you're 100 times more fertile after having a baby.) We're due in about a week, and this morning, my husband looked grumpy and unhappy. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he was just overwhelmed with everything and bored with his life. He works a ton and we haven't had a vacation in about a year because I really don't like leaving baby no. 1. (I am very attached.) So baby no. 2 is coming and I am so nervous that he will drive himself off a cliff because, let's face it, the first several months suck. I have, in a nutshell, been prego for two years now. A large woman and not in the same bod I once had. Any suggestions on how to spark some life? I don't want to be emotional and want to listen and be a supportive partner. Don't laugh but I was thinking about taking him to a strip club just to perk him up a bit. That would be a little surprise. Any thoughts?

2007-11-14 02:51:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 02:50:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never recieved a 86.90 check from Verizon and so i've been calling them to find out what happened. I just got the fax of the copy of the check and now my suspicions came to light. It's my husband's handwriting. He has a bad lying problem. I suspected he did it. I even had a bad dream last night that he did it. It upset me so much my stomach aches!

Now that i am almost positive it's him, do i even have the right to be upset since he is my husband and it 's "OUR" money?

I am mostly upset because he is lying. All i can think about right now is packing my **** up! Help!

2007-11-14 02:49:24 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-14 02:49:15 · 13 answers · asked by daniel65ng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Are there techniques to slow or speed up the big O to better time it with your partner.

2007-11-14 02:48:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Through our marriage, my husband had the full-time job, and I was a stay-at-home mom for four years, then have worked a part-time job for the past year. He made a lot of money, I made enough to pay for childcare and have a little extra spending money of my own, and it was fine.

This past weekend, he decided he wanted to leave, without giving me ANY warning, and he's moving into his new apartment tomorrow. He WILL be paying child support in the form of my rent and car payment, which is actually a little more than the standard child support.

I've been on his health and dental insurance, and he emailed me this morning to let me know that I need to attend to all my medical stuff in the next few weeks, because he's dropping me from the insurance then.

Is it standard to do that, or to wait until the divorce is final, or at least FILED? I am looking for a new full-time job, don't have one yet, but I won't even qualify for most health insurance at work until a few months from now.

2007-11-14 02:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7 in Marriage & Divorce

For the men - Would you be more likely to try to sleep with a co-worker who was married and pregnant than if she was not (because there is no chance you'd get her preg)

For the married women - Have you (or would you) consider hooking up with a coworker while pregnant? (Again because you can't get pregnant from him while you are already pregnant)

2007-11-14 02:46:29 · 25 answers · asked by momtosaraandscott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is that why she died a slow and painful death (throat cancer) even though she did not smoke. Was this Karma? Cheers.

2007-11-14 02:46:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my last boyfriend went on a "break" but sometimes he says we brokeup. We still talk everyday and hang out a couple times a week and when we are together its like were going out. We still kiss and mess around... but then a guy from work asked me out and i like him but i love my last guy. is it ok to date this other guy?

2007-11-14 02:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by sparkysprite101 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is getting married in a few months. They are having an engagement party later this month. I am on a tight budget, but I would like to buy them a nice gift. I purchased a picture frame that was wedding themed and the bride's style. Should I add something to that? The frame was pretty inexpensive.

2007-11-14 02:45:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-14 02:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by jade 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend says he is fat and he only weighs 180lbs and he is about 6'3"ft he is really good looking and he says he is fat i love his cute tummy and i don't want him to lose it how do i tell him without making him mad and do you think he'll listen?

2007-11-14 02:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I'm starting to like, she has been flirting with me for more than a month in school, we make eye contact a lot, she smiles at me and says hi almost everyday and other stuff happened (like she was all over me at the halloween party)! The problem is we haven't had a real conversation... Last week she came to me and asked me my name I didn't have the time to answer because her teacher was calling her so I continued this conversation the next day, she asked me my name and I got hers, she also told me that I look like her friend! What should I do now? I really want to get to know her! A close friend of mine talks to her a lot but I don't think she likes him... The problem is that I'm shy and he's not!

2007-11-14 02:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 02:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by mantywoc 1 in Singles & Dating

i am trying to covince some of my friends to join a backyard wrestling thing im starting. It isn't gonna be crazy like some other ones. Anyone know how i could compose a good convincing way to convince them?

2007-11-14 02:38:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

aftr i caught her flirting wth othrs, i askd 4 explanation, she says thts jst frndship tlks, whn she says "luv u" 2 othrs she dosent mean it, bt means jst 4 me. i took it lite, bt once again i found her givin her cell no. & fixing meetings wth guys (though she says shes jst givin guys dates, nt actually meetin thm), i again tried to clear things...she again says its nthn serious..she ws doin it jst like tht...whn i ask her to meet up, she constantly gives dates, makes plans, n hangs 4 sm or d othr reason...i m real confused wht to do nw...i deleted her chat ids, her cell no. every contact...bt i m sure she will call bck (lyk did everytm be4)...n she will giv a big explanation, n will try her best to convince me emotionally...wht to do now? is this all my misunderstanding? i aint in d mood of timepass....if i start luving its gonna b forever...bt wht if she is jst flirting like shes doin wth othrs...n quits in between..bt she says she luvs me more thn nythin on earth...more thn her dad

2007-11-14 02:38:23 · 6 answers · asked by confused soul 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever been to a wedding when someone DID jump up and say they knew of a reason why they shouldnt get married? I was just wondering what the percentage was of wedding which do not go ahead because of this???

2007-11-14 02:38:09 · 14 answers · asked by JustJem 6 in Weddings

when you're looking for a seriouos relationship, how many years younger/older do you look for? Would you be more interested in a brand new woman, or an old friend? what charecteristics would you look for?

2007-11-14 02:36:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 13 months. Lately we've been having a lot of fights (we used to never fight!) I'm freaked out because we had never talked about breaking up before. He seems cold and careless but says that he loves me and cant see himself without me.
how can i make our relationship better? I dont want this to be it....im scared of what might happen next...

2007-11-14 02:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by clarissa 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I don't even know where to start. First of all, I am a 23 year old married woman. I have been with my honey since I was 16. He was my first real true love and the first person I did anything with. We married when I was 19 and we had a daughter when I was 20. We were basically kids when we first started dating.... I have changed alot and he is the same. I have goals and needs that I didn't have then. He is laid back and easy going. He doesn't try to make any decisions at all. I have to make any life altering decisions myself. I want a man that supports me on things. I need a bold shoulder to cry on every now and then. I get tired of being the strong one everyday. I want a man that wants to take a load off of me and be the one to take care of me for once. I am really tired of playing wife and mom to my husband. I don't know if this is enough for me to want to end the relationship or not. He is a good dad and I love him for that. I don't want to put my daughter through a divorce for

2007-11-14 02:34:52 · 48 answers · asked by crystal g 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do u feel that nose makes a persons face. do u find something sexy about it apart from the other features?

2007-11-14 02:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 02:33:53 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor B 2 in Singles & Dating