I never recieved a 86.90 check from Verizon and so i've been calling them to find out what happened. I just got the fax of the copy of the check and now my suspicions came to light. It's my husband's handwriting. He has a bad lying problem. I suspected he did it. I even had a bad dream last night that he did it. It upset me so much my stomach aches!
Now that i am almost positive it's him, do i even have the right to be upset since he is my husband and it 's "OUR" money?
I am mostly upset because he is lying. All i can think about right now is packing my **** up! Help!
2007-11-14 02:49:24 · 12 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ooops i found it was my husband but it was deposited and he just forgot about it! I feel stupid.
2007-11-14 04:01:12 · update #1
It's a federal offense for someone other than you to open your mail. heh. I never open Aubrey's mail no matter what it is. Unless I ask him first.
2007-11-14 17:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did he say the check never came, signed and spent it? Or did he sign and deposit it, forgetting to mention it to you?
This isn't about the check is it. It's about the bigger issue, the dishonesty. Are you looking for reasons to leave? I wish you well with that because lying is natural for people who do it all the time. Take care of yourself, whatever you do in marriage.
2007-11-14 11:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutie, a couple things:
a. You don't throw away your marriage because of this one thing.
b. Yes, you have a right to be mad. But be productive about it.
c. Talk to him. Hit him with the facts FIRST. Then talk about his lying.
d. Just because you two are married, does not give him the right to do what he did without telling you.
e. Marriage counseling would work wonders.
2007-11-14 10:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Richard F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this issue has more to do with that just a check from verizon....talk to your husband
2007-11-14 10:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok but look at what you wrote. It seems your husband has such a huge problem with lies ..serious ones..that you are even afraid he would commit a federal offense ( forgery ).
Keep your finances separate. Do not file with the IRS with him either.
2007-11-14 17:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be mad! Honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship and he should not be lying to you. You need to talk to him about his lying and he needs to stop - otherwise how can you ever trust him?
2007-11-14 10:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did ya ask him about it? If he lies, tell him to grow up! He has a right to money too, but why lie about it? Just don't get some people.
2007-11-14 21:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by chris j 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my if he would lie to you over $86 then what else will he lie to you about sound like you need to get him some counseling.
2007-11-14 13:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying is never good. present the proof to him and ask him what happened and why he did not let you know about it.
2007-11-14 10:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the check made out to you? or him?
2007-11-14 10:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋