Family & Relationships - 14 November 2007

If it was "girls night out" and they went to a strip club with male dancers, would you be upset? What if she got a lap dance? And what if she went there with straight guys? What if she went habitually? Most importantly, seeing as many girls are open to going to strip clubs w/female dancers, would you go with them to one with male dancers?

I am not going through anything pertaining to this, I just read another question and was curious to see what you guys thought.

2007-11-14 04:08:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My number one is PJ's with pants. She loves the flannel ones. But I know I am not gettin any if she has them on.

2007-11-14 03:57:46 · 52 answers · asked by Brightside 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever had an affair?

"Yes. And that's how I knew I didn't love my husband. So I divorced him. Never thought I'd something like that (sigh)"

"Yes and it was wonderful."

Those are just two answers to a Q&A on Yahoo. When I hear stuff like that it just racks my brain. I just start asking a million question about people. Their are just so many things that are hard to comprehend. Especially from the first reponse. How important is the way you treat your spouse or partner?

For over all karma in your life, the way you treat a significant other how much does it say about you as person? And does it effect your lifes karma?

2007-11-14 03:50:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning my wedding and was wondering what your ideas are for the perfect temperature for an outside ceremony. I wanted to get married in Mid-March when the average weather in north Florida (White Springs) is around 74, but the venue is not available. Do you think it is too cold when the average temperature is between 68-70 (late February)? The wedding ceremony will be outside, but the reception will be inside.

2007-11-14 03:48:26 · 6 answers · asked by berlyanne 2 in Weddings

Please Answer. Best Answer gets 10 points

2007-11-14 03:47:08 · 1 answers · asked by prinsisss 4 in Singles & Dating

My mother knows this Flower lady and likes her work and my fiance likes and seen her work and wants to go with the same flower lady. Well today my fiance called me and asked if I could get ahold of the flower lady for an appointment on Saturday.

I said no problem.

Well I called my mom to get her phone number and my mom sounded like she wanted to call the flower lady so I said okay let me know the time on when the appointment is so I can tell my fiance. About 30 mins went by and my fiance called and asked if I called yet. I told her my mom wanted to call so I let her do it. To rap up the story my fiance thinks I passed the duty on so I didnt have to do it. I want to be involved with planning but if I get into trouble everytime, I dont want to do any planning anymore. Do I put my foot down or just apolige? What would you do if you where me?

2007-11-14 03:44:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-14 03:43:46 · 2 answers · asked by tdiediker3 1 in Family

I like this dress. it fits me nice it shows my form. I reaaly love this dress. of course I will be getting it in white.

http://www.bestbridalprices.com/images/morilee/spring07/gowns/large/2132.html



But this dress was my first choice when i saw it, i said this is the dress.

http://www.bestbridalprices.com/images/allure/fall06/gowns/large/8326.html

I really don't know which one to go with I love them both. my mother and sister like dress number one because it looks really nice on me, they saw dress number two is too plain. please help me pick. i have to order november 23. please help.

2007-11-14 03:43:02 · 43 answers · asked by Ethan's Mama 5 in Weddings

So my fwb asked me the other day if he could watch me and his friend's girl have some girl on girl action but he says i can not fool around with his buddy... only with the girl and/or him. Is that selfish? Do friend w benefits do this freaky stuff? (he is my fist fwb btw and i'm not gay or bi ) also why is it ok to " share" me with a girl but not with a guy?

2007-11-14 03:42:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 03:39:47 · 14 answers · asked by Holly H 1 in Singles & Dating

When you consider that the man typically pays 90-95% of the time and that the women can reject you at any point in the dating relationship, if a guy pays for a couple of dates, isn't he entitled to something? Otherwise isn't he just wasting his time and money. When the relationship is over, men typically have nothing to show for it, whereas women have gotten free meals, free dates, attention, etc.

2007-11-14 03:32:31 · 12 answers · asked by roughruggedraw 2 in Singles & Dating

do u prefer going out with short girls are tall girls?? if so how much shorter/taller than you??

which is better?

2007-11-14 03:30:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im lost in what to do about a friend. weve been friend for about three years and have kinda come close to dating before but just didnt work out becasue of other things. a while back i asked her what she thought and she gave me the "i dont want to ruin our friendship thing" but i asked her about it at a prety stupid time. anyway shes been dating this guy for a while who shes now in love with , but i can tell that shes not happy. she tells me EVERYTHING about her and her relationship with him and things that piss her off that he does and their problems. my question is. over the past few months. ive really fallen for her. and i know i coulkd be a 10x better boyfriend to her becasue i know so much about her. One time about 2 months back she asked me "if me and you ever hooked up, how far do u think it would go??" just that she asked that makes me think that im in the back of her head. I just dont know if i still am. I want to tell her how i feel but i think i should wait. wht shuld i do

2007-11-14 03:28:07 · 23 answers · asked by not your average joe 3 in Singles & Dating

I have seen one with Polariod camera, but who would actually take there picture. Then I saw wedding wishes one. Where can I find one of these books??? Or do you guys have any other ideas?

2007-11-14 03:27:43 · 25 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

i've been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and these last 2 weeks its been fight after fight. anyways, about a week ago, i broke up with him (in a bad way) and we were over. then 2days later, i talked to him to try to work things out,. He told me that when we broke up he had kissed another girl in skool for revenge, he told me there was no feelings and w.e, but never wanted to tell WHO the girl was? (i told him i wasnt gonna fight her or anything)so today i decided to confront him and if he didnt tell me who she was then we were gonna have ot brake up. I couldnt continue on with the curiousity. He cussed me out and tsated screaming, and decided NOT to tell me. Is he hiding something...or am i overacting?

2007-11-14 03:25:25 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 03:23:32 · 15 answers · asked by The Babe is Armed! 6 in Singles & Dating

Me and a guy got pretty close pretty fast. Then suddenly out of the blue he says he thought he was ready for a relationship/commitment but he now doesn't think he is. He says he does like me but wants to be friends now and get to know each other more as friends. Which is fine. But I'm just wondering if this is something guys really do when they really like someone and just don't want a commitment at the moment? I just don't want to get my hopes up that something might happen in the future if we slow things down and be friends and all along he was just trying to take the easy way out. I really like this guy.

2007-11-14 03:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 03:19:27 · 28 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband just died. He was the father of my child and, although he was allowed to - he just chose not to visit. I did receive child support. Recently, he began calling our child and talking on the phone. They never had a chance to meet. This was a sudden death. My child wants to attend the funeral with me. My husband is not going. Since I told him of my ex's death and he knows I am communicating with his family, my husband has basically shut me off. His conversation is centered around how horrible my ex was and that he never saw his child and made it difficult to get support as well as his family never visiting either. I feel that this was the father of my child and he is gone. It can only be beneficial to meet the extended family that has not been around until now. My husband won't talk, doesn't hold me at night like he used to since this happened. Quite frankly, at this point, I don't care as I'm sick of the jealousy & infantile behavior. Advice?

2007-11-14 03:16:13 · 20 answers · asked by Josie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a girl over a year ago, we liked each other a lot but I kind of messed her around in the process as I wasn’t sure if I wanted a relationship, lead her on slightly, she would have been VERY good 4 me, just not at that time. She did a lot for me in the process by even putting a TV on credit 4 me as a favour worth 1,500 and was there for me through alot of things. I ended things as I really liked her but didn’t want a relationship at that time I didnt want to deal with all of that then. I started to loose respect and treated her like crap. telling her things like go and get a man and stop callin and texin me!! I said I was going to give her back her money no doubt about that, so that I could get her off my backas I didnt want a relationship with ANYONE she would find an excuse to call, she then said dont wori about the TV ANYMORE! & since then she has not bothered calling and the number that I did have for her just goes to voicemail. the last time that I saw her was in june sometime.

2007-11-14 03:15:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 03:14:46 · 43 answers · asked by Lashonda R 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the signs of a cheating relationship/marriage? Anyone have any experience in this department... I know theres going to be a lot of answers on this one... Reason I want to know is my husband started acting funny 2 weeks ago and I just found out he has gotten divorce papers without even telling me he had got them!!! I havent done anything to make him upset with me and he came back from a trip two weeks ago and started to treat me differently saying he wasnt attracted to me anymore and that he just wasnt happy with our relationship. He gave me an excuse for the reason he was acting funny when I asked him and it was that he was planning a suprise for me and that he needed me to go visit some friends for a week.... this 'suprise' turned out to be a lie. He also doesn't want to spend time with me anymore or go places and he doesn't want to be at home anymore. I just cant believe that things would all go to hell like this for no reason in two weeks...what do you think?

2007-11-14 03:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by ~*CareBear*~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do? I think he still has feelings for me.

2007-11-14 03:07:30 · 9 answers · asked by llamalover14 1 in Singles & Dating

i married on 1995, i stayed with my wife one year , after i went to dubai to get some amount and settel in my life, but my wife is going another man keeping sex relation with my absent, when i go leave to india that time she with me and i complet my leave and i will go dubai , again she is going with her , so please give me advice to me, this is my problam,

2007-11-14 03:06:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy that liked me last year,lets say his name is Bob, and this year Bob's friend told me that he liked me when Bob was right there. I think he is going to ask me out this week, and I think Ilike him back but I dont know. What should I do????

2007-11-14 03:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of the day that he married his wife and they began a new life and also the anniversery that i officially said good bye to my old life and my first love and all my dreams...le left me at the end of october and married her today a yr ago i dont realy feel sad but i feel like i shouldnt forget it either....im friends with both him and his wife

2007-11-14 03:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by love 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I went on a break about a month ago now ago because she was raped two years ago when we did not know each other and she is struggling with it now, She said she can not handle a relationship right now. She just told her family and I. I have given her, her space like she asked for. I wrote her two emails one saying how much she means to me and how Im here for her and another with some prayers to say. I know her sister pretty well and I have talken to her about my girlfriend and she told her (my girlfriend) I asked how she was doing and from what i heard she seemed to like it. Over the weekend I got a drunk email from my girlfriend saying she loves me and hates me forever. What do you think this means Am I just wasting my time waiting for her. We ended things really well. She responded to one of my emails but not the pray one. Am i just looking to much into this? Any advice would help

2007-11-14 03:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by youngen 1 in Singles & Dating

We are having a small-ish church wedding in January. My family is very religious and won't touch alcohol, whereas my fiance's family knows how to party with the best of them. (We are both middle of the road)

So I was thinking of having a simple cake and punch reception at the church right after the ceremony. (Say an hour or two), then everyone that wants to party, can come to the 2nd reception at his parent's house where there will be music and alcohol.

What do you think about having 2 receptions?

2007-11-14 03:02:19 · 23 answers · asked by luckgirl924 1 in Weddings

2007-11-14 03:01:06 · 14 answers · asked by keniziiieee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-14 03:01:01 · 11 answers · asked by bburrows13 2 in Friends