So my fwb asked me the other day if he could watch me and his friend's girl have some girl on girl action but he says i can not fool around with his buddy... only with the girl and/or him. Is that selfish? Do friend w benefits do this freaky stuff? (he is my fist fwb btw and i'm not gay or bi ) also why is it ok to " share" me with a girl but not with a guy?
2007-11-14 03:42:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy just thinks you're a freak since you're his fwb. He's secretly hoping to get a 3-way out of you. I'm surprised his buddy would be cool with his girlfriend getting involved with that. Next thing you know, his buddy's gonna want the same thing with you two girls.
Your fwb is being selfish. Draw a line in the sand and tell him no. He just wants to control over you to satisfy his fantasies. You're probably better than that.
2007-11-14 03:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by drew 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay. A friend with benefits has no right to tell you what you can and cant do. Only boyfriends in commited relationships have any say as to who you can or cant mess around with. As far as I can tell, your in an open relationship and can sleep with anyone you want, ... and then again, you're gross. Sex isnt something to be tossed around without consideration.
2007-11-14 03:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching a girl have sex with another girl is hot. Watching a girl have sex with your best friend is not.
Tell him you're not into girl on girl action and you won't do it. You're both using each other, so there won't be any hard feelings about denying him this desire he has.
2007-11-14 03:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋