Me and a guy got pretty close pretty fast. Then suddenly out of the blue he says he thought he was ready for a relationship/commitment but he now doesn't think he is. He says he does like me but wants to be friends now and get to know each other more as friends. Which is fine. But I'm just wondering if this is something guys really do when they really like someone and just don't want a commitment at the moment? I just don't want to get my hopes up that something might happen in the future if we slow things down and be friends and all along he was just trying to take the easy way out. I really like this guy.
2007-11-14 03:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. most young guys don't & they jump from one girl to the next.
2007-11-14 03:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is consistent with being open to the idea of a relationship, but having a red flag thrown suddenly in one's path that decisively changes everything. That's a no-fault situation you can't really plan for.
2007-11-14 11:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's trying to take the easy way out. That's
the thing about movin too fast, doesn't give us guys anything to look forward too. Its more like sayin NEXT!!!! I hope that's not case but its more likely then not.
2007-11-14 11:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to be friends. would u rather be used as a bootycall?? i dont think so. be friends with him and get to kno him . so u begin to trust him,
2007-11-14 11:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋