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i have nowhere else to go but stay in my room to avoid him. my friends are not around. i can't lock my door b/c if i do, he picks a huge fight with me and thinks i am doing something bad. he barges in my room w/o knocking and if i tell him to knock he fights with me. when i am not around he goes through all my things that are hidden. i found my zippo on his entertainment center that was HIDDEN IN MY UNDERWEAR DRAWER. that sickens me. im only 18 and i am his daughter. he drove my mom away by doing what he does to me. and he drove my sister away too. i would be gone, but i have nowhere to go. whenever he is around i get panic attacks real bad.. and he stole my xanax that were given to me for the attacks. i caught him RED handed. i picked a fight and he didnt even care. he was taking them to take with his beer so he can pass out like a skunk likeh e does every weekend. i have no privacy. i am a nervous wreck. he does not care nor realize that he drove everyone away and that he is making

2007-11-14 04:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Been together for 7mos. There is this girl that had wanted to go out with him before we met. She is married with 2 kids and lives in a different state. In the past 2wks she has been calling for dumb things to talk to him. One was if he had talked to a mutual friend of them. Other was that she was gonna send him pics of her kids and some kind of fund raiser they are doing. He tells me that right before we met she was gonna come visit him and see if things worked out between them and if they would of she was gonna leave hubby and come live down here w/kids. He says there has never been anything between them. That he has always told her that he would never have anything with her. I think there is something there he is not telling me. I trust him but dont see the reason behind them talking. He had a pic of her in his rm but he took it down. but still has pic of kids.Do you think Im been jealous and incosiderate? I dont know if I should tell him to stop talking to her or not?

2007-11-14 04:43:36 · 9 answers · asked by cherrie j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My family's all feuding-- it's all due to my parents' divorce & everyone on my mom's side hates my dad's side, & vice versa. anyhow, my brother & I were pretty much stuck in the middle, and my mom's side did a lot of things to try & force us to pick a [their] "side" (I was renting from my grandma & she kicked me out for talking to my dad; same grandma showered gifts on our cousins for their b-days/x-mas, but just gave us cards with 'double meaning' messages in side; our mom told us repeatedly that by talking to our dad we were encouraging him to screw her over, and pulled huge guilt trips on us if she ever found out we saw him, and called us liars if we didn't tell her ALL about the visits before she found out; that sort of thing)... also there were blogs made by my moms' friends (that I’ve never met) that were bad mouthing my dad, his family, & me & my brother (and our relationships)—well, my brother commented & told the person to mind their own business…
after reading it, my mom raged on my bro REALLY bad (at his house, in front of his 3 yr old) so he told her to leave or he'd call the cops. So now they don’t talk to each other anymore, and my 3 yr old nephew is scared of my mom. She denies he was even there & bad mouths my brother (whom I’m very close with)…
I don’t know how to deal with all the bad mouthing that I *KNOW* will occur during the holidays.... but if I don’t show up, I’ll never hear the end of it!!

What should I do?

2007-11-14 04:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Family

I have known my husband & his family for 16 years . I was close to one of his girl cousin . We were invited to her wedding and we gave her $100.00 that was all we could afford . I had just had my twins and money was tight . Ever since then she doesn't call & when my husband calls she doesnt pick up the phone. Could it have been the money ? I became pregnant and she didn't even call and now she is pregnant . My husband wants nothing to do with her . Should I call her even if she hasn't seen my now 14 month old child ?

2007-11-14 04:42:30 · 19 answers · asked by Ana C pisces1976 4 in Weddings

I am in my 20's and dating a man 14 years older than me. We get a long great and enjoy the same things. We always have such a great time. I did not how much older he was than me until the other day. The thing is, its too late. I'm already in love. He is nice and repects me and doesn't put pressure on me for anything. Is this age difference ok?

2007-11-14 04:39:59 · 36 answers · asked by Jill J 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to get a divorce from my common law spouse (Texas). I cannot afford an attorney, but I dont want him to try to take my house and vehicle. How do I go about this? I have heard about the self divorce kits, and even looked at them this morning on the net, but are they legit? And, can I still use it if I am common law?

2007-11-14 04:38:39 · 10 answers · asked by tinahoover2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok after sex with your husband does he like to talk about it. and say things like " that was 35 minutes" it feels like hes counting the minutes and all his moves just to talk about it later...is this normal do other guys do this?

2007-11-14 04:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's not a like a friend friend, but I know her and she thinks she's a fairy. She went up randomly to someone and said, "you're a rainbow fairy!" and she claims her mum is a witch. Admittedly, we are quite mean and shout "fairy" at her, but we're trying to get through to her that fairies aren't real, the hard way. She embarrasses herself with her dress sense (which, may I add, is extremely extravagant...in a bad way...) and me and my friends don't know what to do with her. What can we do to get through to her that she isn't a fairy?

2007-11-14 04:34:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son is 10 years old. He has been smart mouthing me all day, he constantly moans when asked to do something & is basically a selfish git! I have grounded him, taken away his beloved pokemon cards & banned him from every electrical appliance in the house oh & also his football training. He still argues with me when told to do something and has major tears & strops. I have had enough. My mum & dad would send us to bed without any tea but would it be frowned upon today? I threatened him with bread & water if he didn't quit! I love him dearly but feel i have to put my foot down once and for all.

2007-11-14 04:31:09 · 26 answers · asked by spice2504 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant seem to escape them, they are either just rude mean guys, or alcoholics who are very nice

Why arent there normal guys who like music, have ambition, and are decent looking good people in LOS ANGELES??

It must be me right?? i mean i dont know, im such a good person, i deserve another good person in my life..

2007-11-14 04:30:42 · 5 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend in Canada and we're planning on getting married in the summer do you think this can last?

2007-11-14 04:29:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not an ugly girl,,, and i know im not the prettiest.. im young and have a body like a porn star. but everyday i have a guy hit on me and tell me im hot. with ages of men from 10-35! thats been happening for a long time, and after a while i just was like, yea im pretty. i admit defeat! so my friends started saying oh your so concieted! but i think that just because they dont live their bodies the way they are then they have really low self esteem. my mom says their jealous, but i think that they just are afraid to have someone stand out and LIKE themselves.

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2007-11-14 04:28:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i meet this girl in the 9th grade and we were together for 4 months i treated her like my queen and she left me for a guy that finish school and he broke her heart then she went to another guy and he used her and left her and now she wants to come back to me what should i do i have feelings for her but i dont trust her and she still cant tell me why she left me should i give her another chance or let it go

2007-11-14 04:28:07 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious and conducting a pole or survey kind of sensus type of thing.......please keep your answers short.......dont answer if you believe that you should wait until marriage

2007-11-14 04:26:18 · 27 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4 in Singles & Dating

Lets say this is our first date.

Should i give her the flower right away when she get in the car ?

What should i say when i give it to her?

Or should it be after dinner?

During the dinner?

Is it okay to be in front of other friends?

Please suggest. . i appreciate it !!

2007-11-14 04:25:33 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well what I did to my girlfriend and her sick mom was wrong and a big sin. God won't forgive me for that. I robbed money from their bank account and atm cards. I have left them with no money, they can't even pay the rent and their landlord is getting pretty angry. I am a big ****. But help me guys. What should I do now. They can't go back to their home coz my girlfriend's father won't take them back. I want to help them but the problem is I am without money too. Both of them cry every night and curse me. Her mother's medicines are too expensive. I used up all their money in pleasure. They are not left with a single dime. I robbed them completely. My girlfriend won't send me to jail coz she thinks I still have their money or I could return to them even some amount. I know she hates me. But right now, she has trust no one. She is too much dependant on me. Her mother is growing sick everyday. Comeon help me guys tell me what to do?

2007-11-14 04:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They can actually do paternity testing in the womb. She found out her husband is not the babys father however he is going to stay with her and try to work things out.

My question is who should through her a baby shower me and my mom? I feel embarrassed to even ask her husband if he has any plans. Should I be embarrased? Regardless I want to make something for my sister. Any advice would help thanks

2007-11-14 04:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by sheila 1 in Family

what do you prefer french kissing are normal regular kissing???

2007-11-14 04:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by MRS.W!LL!AMS 08 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to open my own business one day but I keep getting constantly reminded that owning a restaurant will consume your life. I only want to open a small cafe', a place where people can just hang out and of course spend money.
Opening my own place is one of my biggest dreams but I'd much rather have a family and be able to spend time with them than operating something that could consume my life and destroy my marriage.

Will a small cafe really do this to me?

2007-11-14 04:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by Chuck M 2 in Family

i was raised to speak my mind, but everytime i spoke my mind and how i really felt inside i always ended up hurt, i learned how not to wear my heart on my sleeve, i was never the kind of girl who thought love was just so nice and all that other bs. i didnt really care to much for how the dudes were feeling about me especially when it came down to love, but i never intended on hurting anyone's feelings, i just always thought loves just not 4 me, until i met this dude it was back in april, at a carnival we talked i got his number i called, and ever since i think ive been falling more and more in love with him. could this be love. im feeling the way he speaks he has maners unlike other dudes but yet is just sooo cool and not geeky, love his smile, the way he smell, the way he treats his mother, and just hearing his voice makes my world so much better when im going threw hell hes just so calming. i think im in love and i cant even open my mouth to tell him i really care about him.

2007-11-14 04:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by rabbit 2 in Singles & Dating

I just kind of want to know what others think. I'm sure I'll know the decision when I get there. Mind you I really love my parents they are just a bit over protective.

My mom wants me to go to Louisville University close by home. She say she want me close and I can come home, no dorm that sort of thing.

I however have a boyfriend who is going to Unity Maine, and he loves it. I wanna study animals, badly and the more I look over Unity the more I fall in love with it. Now I want to go badly, I'm pretty sure I can get in. It'll be very far from home, but it'll give me everything I need. It's expensive I know that but it can get me where I want to be. Hands on and totally perfect.

I'm just confused, and she talked about transferring. However I would rather not transfer. I'm not the type that likes to move around, and would prefer it to be permanent then to switch.

2007-11-14 04:15:21 · 2 answers · asked by Wolf Destiny 1 in Family

2007-11-14 04:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by LELE 1 in Singles & Dating

I make $10 an hour and i pay $495 a month now. it will go up to $600 a month as soon as she adds him on her medical plan. how am i supposed to live????

2007-11-14 04:14:55 · 17 answers · asked by happydude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really want to get on with my mum, but she always shouts, and as i have always stuck up for my self, i shout back then we argue and then sometimes throw something at me, or slap me on the leg or head, and im fed up, i love her with all my heart but she makes me sad, im only thirteen and wish we could get on..
i dont talk to her about anything, well, i will talk to her about normal stuff like the Tv or tea time, but nothing personal..
i get on with the rest of my family, but my dad works away and when he comes home he sometimes gets mad at me too, i arent a bad child! im polite, im never in trouble i respect my elders.. and i just dont see why my mum cant like me..
Please help, its really depressing me.. thanks

2007-11-14 04:13:04 · 12 answers · asked by Darlin'x 4 in Family

not to your family members, but to your boyfriend/girlfriend or someone that you really like

2007-11-14 04:10:33 · 8 answers · asked by I love my l Life =-] 1 in Singles & Dating

Married for 10 years, we were in a rush to get married so, he checked single on the marriage form. Later found out he was married while in the military & suppose to be divorced. Is my marriage legal or can you get into trouble for filling form out wrong...Need to know!

2007-11-14 04:10:01 · 5 answers · asked by bj4569 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What fantasies or fetishes do you have that cause you to blush thinking about them? Which of these have you told your spouse about? Which have you acted out? Which make you blush too much to tell him/her?

2007-11-14 04:09:21 · 4 answers · asked by momtosaraandscott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I broke up a while ago but he txted me the other day and he appologized for liking me alot and he said "i know you don't like me as much as I like you because we hardly talk and hangout". And than he came over 2 weeks ago and he said that hes afraid of relationships and he doesn't want a gf. Than the other night he texted me again saying that he might have a gf by friday. Than he was acting all jealous when I asked him if he misses me and he said "should I? everytime I see you on the street your with a different guy". I told him at the beginning that I have a lot of guy friends and he said that he was ok with that. What is up with him?

2007-11-14 04:09:11 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

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