ok after sex with your husband does he like to talk about it. and say things like " that was 35 minutes" it feels like hes counting the minutes and all his moves just to talk about it later...is this normal do other guys do this?
2007-11-14 04:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband doesn't do that and I would be like what do you want a trophy? Jeez...I would think that would ruin any kind of mood was there.
2007-11-14 05:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man 35 minutes that is weak. Usually my wife and I go for atleast a couple of hours and thats a quicky. Really when you have sex in marriage it is suppose to take some time you have foreplay you have experimenting and well you are suppose to be making love not wham bam thank you mam. It doesn't matter how long it takes as long as you both have an orgasm. Hopefully within in those 35 five minutes he got you off. I usually do not care how long it takes I'll go until my wife
explodes in pleasure isn't that the whole point. Geeze oral pleasure to start with can take up to that amount of time and more. It sounds to me like your hubby thinks he is mister wonderful tell him he is just average when he can muster the time to get you to climax with his tongue then he can brag. Since he counts the minutes it is kind of hard when your down below and your mouth is busy doing other things.
One last note if he counts the time is he doing this because he can't wait for it to end?. I would ask him why he counts how long it was.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
Really I usually say thanks and that was awesome but that is me.
2007-11-14 12:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, most guys do NOT do this. Sounds like your husband needs his ego stroked. Tell him how good he was before he makes a comment next time.
2007-11-14 12:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no, my husband doesnt count the minutes or do things just to talk about it. i mean if it was like really good he might mention it lol but thats about it. sounds like your husband is really insecure about whether or not he pleases you.
2007-11-14 12:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by massmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think I have ever done that. Your man sounds very competitive, like he is trying to record a personal best each time you have sex.
Very odd.
2007-11-14 14:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal. It's about fulfilling each others physical needs and emotional bonding. It's not a track and field event...well, technically, it's not!
2007-11-14 12:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
20 minutes or two hours...who cares as long as you both arrived at your "destination".
2007-11-14 15:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by njxrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Owen E obviously does not have kids.
2007-11-14 13:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jake44 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, we dont
2007-11-14 13:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋