i was raised to speak my mind, but everytime i spoke my mind and how i really felt inside i always ended up hurt, i learned how not to wear my heart on my sleeve, i was never the kind of girl who thought love was just so nice and all that other bs. i didnt really care to much for how the dudes were feeling about me especially when it came down to love, but i never intended on hurting anyone's feelings, i just always thought loves just not 4 me, until i met this dude it was back in april, at a carnival we talked i got his number i called, and ever since i think ive been falling more and more in love with him. could this be love. im feeling the way he speaks he has maners unlike other dudes but yet is just sooo cool and not geeky, love his smile, the way he smell, the way he treats his mother, and just hearing his voice makes my world so much better when im going threw hell hes just so calming. i think im in love and i cant even open my mouth to tell him i really care about him.
2007-11-14 04:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by rabbit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry.There is no need to express love orally. The eyes and hearts will speak to itself. Be free.
2007-11-14 04:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by shree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is, you should never feel worried if that is what you think it is. Be proud to have this time in your life and felt what it's like to really "live" because you've felt love. Its really to early to worry about where this feeling will take you, whether in a good way or the other, at this moment you know you feel good inside. So I'd say, just enjoy the feeling. The only time it becomes overwhelming is when you demand for something to come out of it, like wanting him to feel the same for you or getting down to a commitment. If it is really love, and if you really know if it is, then remember that it has to be healthy in the sense that you don't feel any likelihood of selfishness towards yourself by working on some kind of protection so that you wont later get drowned in this feeling... or by eventually stepping back from this guy and eventually lose the companionship he enjoys with you. Love is always wanting the best of intention for the other person, at the right time. It is not the question of whether you have to say it now or later. Its more on the question of being absolutely sure about it that it's worth opening your mouth. Practice a little patience. Nobody really knows when the right time is, but when that happens, you will really know.
2007-11-14 12:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be love it may be mister right just take it slow since you sound young and well somewhat inmature.
One other thing never refer to guys as dudes it is actually quite old reference and well gross since dude is the term used to describe a wart on the tip of a horse's penis.
Really though you may have fopund on of the nice guys so
just take things one day at a time and who knows it may be
wedding bells in your future.
2007-11-14 12:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak the truth. Problem is people can't handle the truth. Too much PS'ism going on in this world.
2007-11-14 12:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're heading down that road! And for your information don't refer to us as "dudes"!!!
2007-11-14 12:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your in love awww that's cute and it's hard to find a guy like that sometimes so keep him don't try and tell him how much you love him he'll figure it out
2007-11-14 12:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋