I am a college student and I have a huge crush on this guy. The thing is, he works in a building near my job, I just don't know which one. I asked him a few months ago, where he worked, but forgot. I only briefly talked to him once, which was initiated by him, and it was casual. I only see him when he comes to the post office or the cafeteria in my building which is rarely. So I hadn't seen him in a few months. However, recently, I found out that he goes to my college. I decided to leave school early one day and while I was going to my car, I saw him across the parking lot on his way to class. I was staring at him because I knew he was familiar, but I wasn't sure where I knew him from. He was staring at me too, probably for the same reason, but he then gave me a really big smile, waved, and said hi. As you know I have not seen him since, at school or at work. What should I do and how do I tell if he likes me back?
2007-11-14 02:51:41 · 5 answers · asked by sdw2840 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could wait for you two to cross paths again and then talk to him. I'm sure he'll show up again.
2007-11-14 02:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me it seems you both might be 'crossing each other's path' (so-to-speak) for a reason. Pls don't necessarily mistake such comment of mine as an interpretation of "Oh yeah, girl! You like him, he likes you, what's there to figure out?!" Pls take it more as an outsider's observation of two people more than likely on their way to a potential 'good friends' path! That you will eventually meet seems no doubt from 'my' view... but if you play your cards right... and continue to practice your patience (seems to me you pretty much have been, whether by choice or not, he-he),,, you're chances of building a solid foundation for your friendship are greater!!!
Nowww... Should you choose to 'take your time' about this, whatever (if ever) 'evolves' later on down the road will be a "valuable thing". (Pls TRUST ME on this. Why?? I'll tell you why... because it has been proven that a relationship that is 'rushed into' usually ends just as quickly :( Whereas the whole point of 'riding the tide' is to get to know each other... as MUCH of each other as possible or needed. (Make sense?)
And I'm sorry sweetie if my answer seems a round about way, but I want very much to see your whole situation as a future "It Was Fate" story... bottom line.
GOOD LUCK!!!
rosaincali4nia~
2007-11-14 11:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask around school. It may seem goofy but try it. Describe him to girlfriends when ya'll are talkin. SOMEBODY there knows him. Hell that works for me all the time. Don't be embarassed to ask around girl!
2007-11-14 10:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Instant Kamen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you know anyone that's affiliated wtih him, ask them about him; or someone that knows of him. At the same time, you don't wanna look like a stocker
2007-11-14 10:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heh dont stalk him .....guys hate stalkers, if u see him again slip him ur #...if he calls he likes you...if he dont then hes a shy guy who u need to open up...
2007-11-14 10:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋