aftr i caught her flirting wth othrs, i askd 4 explanation, she says thts jst frndship tlks, whn she says "luv u" 2 othrs she dosent mean it, bt means jst 4 me. i took it lite, bt once again i found her givin her cell no. & fixing meetings wth guys (though she says shes jst givin guys dates, nt actually meetin thm), i again tried to clear things...she again says its nthn serious..she ws doin it jst like tht...whn i ask her to meet up, she constantly gives dates, makes plans, n hangs 4 sm or d othr reason...i m real confused wht to do nw...i deleted her chat ids, her cell no. every contact...bt i m sure she will call bck (lyk did everytm be4)...n she will giv a big explanation, n will try her best to convince me emotionally...wht to do now? is this all my misunderstanding? i aint in d mood of timepass....if i start luving its gonna b forever...bt wht if she is jst flirting like shes doin wth othrs...n quits in between..bt she says she luvs me more thn nythin on earth...more thn her dad
2007-11-14 02:38:23 · 6 answers · asked by confused soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, what she says she's doing to other guys, she's doing to you. You said she only gives the other guys dates...well ya, she's doing that to you too and she's probably not going to change. If she loves you more than her dad you would think she'd have her priorities straight, like putting you first? I don't know...just a thought. If it hasn't worked for this long, changes are it's just not going to work.
2007-11-14 02:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was just luv u over Text message that would be one thing...some people tell everyone love you. But to be making dates with them all the time and the I love you thing....well to tell the truth it sounds like she has you as her fall back boy and that while she's with you she is on the look out for something better. Some people are like that and will not change. And yeah I know someone like her. She did marry her fall back boy but that is because all of the guys she flirted with and tried to have sex with didn't pan out so she settled for him...which I feel is an injustice for him! He deserved a lot better than that witch!
Oh and I think you deserve a lot better than her!
2007-11-14 10:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some girls out there who can simply Not say no to a guy. They could be married with three kids and still they will flirt with anyone. If she is one of these girls, she probably does love you, but she is so insecure with herself that she needs to have every guy like her. Its a self esteem thing.
2007-11-14 10:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Claddagh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut lay the law! if she really wants to be with you and only you then she wouldn't give her number out to any guys! or make up dates with someone else! Just tell her if she really cares about you that she has to stop being such a firlt or its over for good. Don't let her talk you into getting back with her tell you see a change! and if she really cares for you like she says she does then she will!
2007-11-14 10:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women flirt but she is talking it to the extreme. And if you spoke to her any many occasions about it and she still does it, that clearly means that she has no resoect for you. You should flirt around with other girls so she will understand how it feels.
2007-11-14 10:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Phoxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh. The ol' "flirt". I know what you mean. Hmm. Even though people may find this "immoral" It may be time to see how she likes it ya know?
2007-11-14 10:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Instant Kamen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋