guys:how many??

Question

when you're looking for a seriouos relationship, how many years younger/older do you look for? Would you be more interested in a brand new woman, or an old friend? what charecteristics would you look for?

Answer 1

i would look for someone around my age but i look more torwords personality. so if the woman is alot younger or alot older as long as she has a good personality. there are limits. i myself would try for an old friend. it makes things easier becayse you all ready know each other. i look for a woman that respects you not tramples all over you. she would have to be ok with all of the things you would secretly do by yourself when know one is looking. not that either for the perverts out there. that is what i look for. also i prefer red hair but it really doesnt matter as long as shes got a good personality

Answer 2

I'm not really that fussed about age.

I've been with girls 7 years older than me and *gasp* 16 years younger than me ... and a lot in between.

I have a bunch of characteristics that would mean I would NOT go out with a girl, but then aside from that I like to see how things go.

I would not date a smoker
I would not date a girl who does illegal drugs
I would not date a needy girl who needs rescuing
I would not date a girl who couldn't spell or punctuate a sentence
I would not date a girl who could not follow a movie like Pulp Fiction

I'm looking for a hard headed woman
One who can make me do my best
When I find my hard headed woman
I know the rest of my life will be blessed

Answer 3

I'm 24 and I look for 22-24 years olds. And for me I like new ladys. As for charecteristics I'd say sense of humor, beautiful eyes and I have to feel comfortable around her I hate being pressured.

Answer 4

I never look for a serious relationship, if it happens it happens. I certainly don't set myself criteria for a girlfriend. Tall, short, blonde, brunette, redhead, voluptuous, slim, friend, acquaintance or stranger, it makes no difference. It is what kind of person they are that matters. Of course an attractive lady would catch my eye more than an unattractive one but if she hasn't got the right kind of personality then it is a relationship doomed to failure. The first thing I notice and that attracts me is if the lady looks happy. No man wants a gorgeous misery on his arm.

Answer 5

1-2 years older about a c

Answer 6

No specifics. When you are looking for a love (because that is why you would be in a serious relationship), you can't rule anyone out (within reason). 12 yr old girls will obviously not work. But any girl that is available must be considered because you never know what will happen if you are truely looking.

Answer 7

It really depends, I am open to a lot of different things; I thought I only liked women younger than me but now I am dating one several years older than me so you never know. Personality has a big part to play as well as appearance and attraction.

Hope that helps!

Answer 8

i'm generally looking for a woman older than me or at least my age, but i've found it's less the number of years that person has spent on earth, and more about the maturity level. i'm dating a girl 4 years younger than me, and it doesn't make a single goddamn difference.... but i have dated other girls of the same age and it's all drama drama drama... it a all depends on the person...

Answer 9

Age does not matter to me. I prefer an old friend I can trust that would like to take a chance w/ me.

Answer 10

guys don't generally look for a serious relationship. they get serious relationships by accident - by finding the right woman. age is largely irrelevant, but social and emotional maturity is.