trouble in their marriages? Do you think it has alot to do with people not respecting the vows that said on there wedding day? I hear & have been through so many cases of everyone out for theirself in relationships. I just don't understand what is going on in our soceity.
2007-11-14 05:18:42 · 8 answers · asked by "karma" 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People have "other options" so if they find it hard to stick to their committments, they take the easy way out.
2007-11-14 05:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, "respect" probably is not the best word.
A huge number of couples have a very uncommitted upbringing and drag their extremely unstable perspectives into marriage. When they fall in love, it "seems" that all is well, and the "vows" are so exciting.
But when the feelings and emotions seem to drift, than the opportunity to truly "love" is not evident.
The reason is not one main factor. It is many factors, which include a large portion of influences by the very liberal media, which displays about a 90% negative view on committment, marriage, fidelity, responsiblity, etc.
2007-11-14 13:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by splashdesign238 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't speak for most me me I think my 1st marriage failed because we were young and didn't know how to Communicate & Respect each other's feelings. I so badly wanted to be like my grandparents married to each other till death but I didn't put forth the effort to make sure we were compadable like my grandparents did. Back in the day people went into marriage for the long haul now a days with knowing that divorce is out there we just get married and if we don't like it we divorce each other. Marriage is no longer looked at as forever more as lets see how this is going to play out.
2007-11-14 13:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by rosalyn_1973 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are my ideas:
Ease of divorce
Women in the workforce and around temptation (no longer staying at home like we used to)
Lack of morals and values
Commonality and social acceptance of divorce (it's no longer taboo and people might think "everyone else is getting them")
People marrying for convenience and just because they want to by a certain age.
That's why I'm 30 and have never been married. I take it VERY seriously and won't marry someone who doesn't take it just as seriously as I do...maybe I'll never get married...that's fine with me...
2007-11-14 13:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by laura1977 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not ever promise something that you cannot fulfil and if somebody lets you promise it - they dont know nothing about love or life. **** them.
marriage vow: I thank you for comining into my life and bringing the light that I have been missing. Help me never forget how lucky I am. Be always my guide into my better self. Hold me tight if I need that and let me go if I want to go. Love me if I reciprocite it and dont love me if I neglect you or anything that makes you what you are. Be my home and my refuge. Help me detach from plans and doings. Help me stay with my best self and help me set myself free. Think about me so I can think about you and not vice versa.
2007-11-14 13:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by radharani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people on here advocating divorce at the first sign of trouble doesn't help.
2007-11-14 14:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one thing people rush into gettin married and they dont respect vows that means they are not ready to commit
2007-11-14 13:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by skulls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ME generation.
2007-11-14 13:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋