With guy 1, I was all about women's rights. I wanted equal say in everything, I forced the issue. I wouldn't let him watch porn, i'd get mad at him for getting a hard-on when I just wanted to be romantic and make out.
With guy 2, I completely trust him to do everything. I trust him to be the "head" of the household because I trust that he would never do anything to hurt or lessen me. He is my hero. And whenever he gets a hard-on when we make out, I think... "what a beautiful thing that this healthy man loves me". It's his natural reaction and I find beauty in his male form and good health.
Which one is love, which one is stupidity?
2007-11-14 05:22:06 · 22 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1 = Stupidity
2 = Love
2007-11-14 05:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second one would be love, or should I say trust, doesn't sound like you trusted # 1 at all? Maybe it was you for some reason, maybe you didn't have self confidence at the time.
I don't see anything wrong with # 1, I think it was more you then anything else.
2007-11-14 13:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by okimreadynow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1 is stupidity and Number 2 is love. Ok? It's really not that hard to decide which one is love and which one is stupidity. I mean come on. Guy number 2 seems like Mr. Right for you. Maybe just maybe he is. Good luck with that.
2007-11-14 13:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy 2 defiantly seems to have your heart. From your post about Guy 1, it seems like it was an unhealthy relationship. Getting aroused while making out IS a beautiful thing!
2007-11-14 13:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second guy should be the for real. You need to leave guy 1 alone if he can't do the things for you that you want. You shouldn't settle for something you really don't want, get what you deserve and it sound like guy 2.
2007-11-14 13:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by lou lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way! Its not stupid you just feel a certain level of comfortability with the 2nd guy to let him have control. I used to think hard ons were nasty as well until I met I my guy now it turns me on knowing that I can turn him on and we have the best sex ever!
2007-11-14 13:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Janna B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has a different perspective of what love is, and yours is when the man respects you and your body so I think they are both out of love in your own way. There's not 1 standard of what love is, it really depends on the two people.
2007-11-14 13:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either one is stupidity, but I do think you love guy number 2. You speak very highly of him, and are so accepting of the things that drive you crazy about guy number 1.
2007-11-14 13:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds more like love. When you fall in love with someone you don't typically care about every little detail that might have made you up set before. You see things in a different way.
2007-11-14 13:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by tickerspam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its love with either yet, but guy #2 is the one that you are being more loving with. Poor guy #1!
2007-11-14 13:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by greeni707 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋