She still doesn't treat me like her equal, and her kids don't respect me neither does she lets me discpline them when we lived togehter.....I'm am also raising my own 14 year old son.... Are we wasting our time?????
2007-11-14 05:06:24 · 21 answers · asked by bankerjay01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunaltely you are wasting your time. If in 4 years there hasn't been any reconciliation and like you say no respect, then WHY hang around?? Seriously for what? for more torture and grief?? let it go and find yourself someone that will value you for who you are. I am sure you will be in a better place in your life. Good Luck!
2007-11-14 05:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by jpoveda2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have been separated for 4 years now and you are doing just fine on your own with your son why should you stay married to the person who doesn't even respect you. I think its time for a divorce.
2007-11-14 05:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Crash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been separated for 4 years you should get a divorce and find someone who will treat you like you should be treated. No need to drag it out just let it go and move on.
2007-11-14 05:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by prettylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. get a divorce. the odds of her changing, especially after she hasnt in 4 years, is slim. i was separated for 21/2 years before we finally started pushing our divorce through. its time to let go.
2007-11-14 05:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage what marriage you have been separated for that long there is no true love I would divorce and go your separate ways as much as I hate divorce!
2007-11-14 05:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Amberlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been seperated for 4 years...WHAT marriage? Time to file for divorce and find someone that loves and respects you, you only have one life...!
2007-11-14 05:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Muschi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years without your wife? And why haven't you filed for divorce yet? I think this is a LONG time coming!
2007-11-14 05:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by MayMay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are waiting your time its time to get a divorce and concentrate on your own kid and both your happiness
2007-11-14 05:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce now, if you know there's no more hope, file the papers for a divorce.
2007-11-14 05:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say four years no chance of reconciling time to call it quits and get on with your life. If there is no respect there is no relationship.
2007-11-14 05:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋