my husband has been gone 4 months in military i think he has called me 4 or 5 times. This is os weird because we had sleep together a week before he left. I really don't want to talk to him because he is a jerk . I kinda think he has alot going on up there or i wonder if he just hates me . what do you think do you think when he gets back to our boring town he will try to contact me should i be a btch or have one converse before we divorce as i think he used me for a greencard and he has rented room and went to strip clubs. I see this on the bank statement. I have a 7 yr old that this really hurt i had to explain to her why he never answered and never called. She has to sleep at nite with the stuff animals he won out of machines she never slept with animals before and why only the ones he got her? i hate him for this and we have a child that will be 2 at christmas. He is 35 me 30 any suggestions how 2 deal all this he is bk in town next wk i moved out of our apt
2007-11-14 06:34:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well you need to ask him straight up. Get all the answers from him. It is rough though in the military, lots of guys change. Also, they act differently, and then they get home and are the same as they were before. Its not easy to call alot either, but it sounds like he hasnt even tried. Maybe hes more concerned with what he is doing and not even thinking.
2007-11-14 06:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Zaire 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give the guy a break, maybe he hasn't been able to call you. It's not like he's over there for a civilian job, he has to obey orders.
When he comes in talk to him, ask him what's up.
I don't understand if the rented room and strip clubs are from before he left or while he's been gone.
2007-11-14 14:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by justceleste 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should honestly thank him. Most guys would have just killed you for being so ghetto, at least this cat went into the military so he could legally kill people. However, you might want to watch that broken a55 English when he gets back, you don't want him to snap and then you have two kids in foster care. Actually, that might be better, at least they would have a chance at an education.
2007-11-14 15:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you put yourself in his shoes. He is in the military, maybe even getting shot at. If I were married to a woman with your attitude I would volunteer for the most difficult missions and HOPE to get shot rather than come home to her. But first I would make sure any kids of mine would get any benefits after they were out of your home.
2007-11-14 14:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dave G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You call him a jerk in a public forum, he ran away from you, and you're asking us for suggestions? Answer: pick better men.
2007-11-14 14:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry lady but that is justa little too wierd for me to comment on, I think I'm gonna go over the singles section and critique them for a while... good luck though.
2007-11-14 14:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by huckleberryjoe 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
After reading this I'm wondering if he didn't get into the military to get away.
2007-11-14 14:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Find a new man that would do you right.
2007-11-14 14:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by John 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
post a picture, then i will answer.
2007-11-14 16:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by ab dominance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋