do you think the only thing that interests men is sex?
i want to be like a normal person who keeps his man happy on bed and as well as being a soulmate. If you don't perform they will leave you to look for new flavours to practise their fantasies, right? that's why so many people are having affairs outside their marriage.
why men are like that?
2007-11-14 06:33:15 · 13 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not like that. I suppose I'm a bit different than normal guys though. I love sex and am very adventurous and will use toys and buy all the guides to be the best lover I can be. However, when I am not in a relationship it is not the sex I miss but the affection. One thing worries me though is how you say you try to keep a man happy in bed. What is also important is you should be happy in bed too. I won't lie, I will indulge in sexual lust at times but sex should not be just about pleasing a partner but an almost spiritual connection. Not always love but about sharing something like an intimate secret about each other. If you are not happy in bed then maybe you have not either met the right man or developed the confidence to share what you like. Sex is about sharing each other and it should not be one way. Sex is not a taboo subject and it should be discussed about what each other likes and you should never do anything just to make your partner happy if you don't feel comfortable. A gentleman is someone who wants to please his partner more than himself but most importantly wants to know about who you are rather than what you can do for them in bed. If that is all they are after and that is not what you want then hard as it is you are better off without them. Sounds like you been hurt. What makes us hurt also makes us stronger x
2007-11-14 06:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Gordon g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is something I feel very strongly about. I am a man and I’ve been in a relationship for over a year and I treat her with all the love and respect in the world. Yes my eyes have wondered and I’ve looked at other girls but my hands NEVER wondered and I would NEVER go behind her back or any woman’s back to cheat on them.
Please don’t paint ALL men with the same brush because we are not all sex mad cheaters. I know a lot of men that would be the same as myself. I think the problem is that most women go for the best or second best looking man they can get because unfortunately it’s what’s on the outside that counts most these days.
Pick a man regardless of what he looks like and you will find the kind of man you want. Just don’t label all men as cheaters because not all of us are.
2007-11-14 07:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the guy every girl wanted for a friend but not boyfriend in high school. They said the same thing as you did. Why can't I find a good guy?
What they meant was "Why can't I find a hot guy who will treat me the way I want to be treated?"
Now I'm retired, very well off, can do what I want and wouldn't waste five seconds on women like that.
The world turns funny.
2007-11-14 06:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by hexeliebe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Men look for sexual adventures outside a marriage for a million reasons, same as women. You sound broad-minded so your relationship should be fine. It's certainly not all about sex. Not even for a man.
2007-11-15 04:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Boudicca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men are, if this is your experience, then that is very unfortunate and i hope you have better luck in the future.
i would never expect a partner to "perform"
love making should be a shared experience, wanted and enjoyed equally by both partners
2007-11-14 06:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by paul c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man you find is really your soulmate and he yours, then the rest comes naturally...you wont look elsewhere and neither will he. The hard part is finding your soulmate...good luck =)
2007-11-14 06:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by aphrodite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only men that are scum to begin with do not think all men are l.ike this please. Alot of men have morals and would never hurt there wife like this no matter how much sex they got or didn't get.
It's called having respect for the one you love.
2007-11-14 06:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sounded like the perfect woman until you let that tripe "Why are men like that" fall from your mouth like stones.
So...tough for you. Keep up with a philosphy like that and you'll never get the right person.
2007-11-14 06:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can satisfy a man's mind and body, he will stick with you.
If a man can satisfy your mind and body, you will stick with him.
Too many people focus on one and not the other, unfortunately.
2007-11-14 06:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, that is most men's interest (well at least the one's ive met), unfortunately. All they can see is the section from your shoulders to your thies.
2007-11-14 06:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋