A few weeks ago i was at a party and i met this girl. We hung out together basically the whole night and hooked up. Now i'm starting to have feelings for her but i have no idea how she feels about me. This is the first time i've had feelings like this for a girl in a long time and i want to get to know her better and possibly even start a relationship but i just dont know how to approach her.
2007-11-14 08:21:48 · 27 answers · asked by bill b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start by little things like ; email, talk on the phone etc.
then you can go to the next step and start going on dates
2007-11-14 08:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by DIFF_ERENT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try the good old fashion way? Call her and ask her out on a date. I mean, what's the worst that can happen? She could say no. She could curse at you. . .then you at least know she doesn't share your sentiments. Or, maybe, just maybe, she wishes that you would have called after she shared a very intimate part of herself with you; like you really do care afterall. Better late than never. I'd say that even if she doesn't want to go out with you, she'll probably appreciate the flattery aspect that you actually do like her for more than just a piece of A@@, you know? but, you'll have to be careful that you take it slow this time and be honest about your feelings for her- this way she doesn't think you are just using her for a booty call.
Good luck!
2007-11-14 08:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by CandyLandCondoResident 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did you get her number? if so call her and ask if she wants to hang out sometime maybe go for dinner or something. If you dont know how to get a hold of her at all well I dont know you will have to be creative, maybe you have a mutual friend who could track her down or something. But just caually ask her if she is interested in spending some time with you. Youll get either a yes or a no, then go from there.
2007-11-14 08:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by brina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you need to just tell her. Don't beat around the bush. Call her and see if she wants to go out. If she says ok...then tell her at dinner or coffee or wherever ya'll go.
You can say..."I wanted to tell you something tonight...when I met you a couple of weeks ago, I thought you were awesome. Now after some time...I think you're more awesome than I ever imagine...I really like you. You go on and tell her how you feel and tell her that if the feelings are mutual, you would like to see her exclusive.
Good Luck Sweetie!
2007-11-14 08:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, a few weeks ago you had sex with a girl you just met at a party. Now you're "starting" to have "feelings" for her, but you have no idea how she feels about you. Yep, sounds like a match made in heaven...the foundation for a permanent union if ever there was one.
2007-11-14 08:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by DR W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she was drunk, or just looking for someone to have fun with. Real relationships are not born out of people hooking up at parties. Resist your urges and put effort into meeting someone who you won't have to ask Yahoo Answers how to approach - you'll just know.
Unless, of course, you just want to get laid, in which case nevermind.
2007-11-14 08:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by baloneyjack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The follow up after a hook up is important. Please call and let her know that you had the greatest time with her and you would like to take her out again. make sure it is somewhere fun and public so that she can get to know you better. Also, be sure not to put too much pressure on her. We girls dont like pressure or pushiness. Good luck!
2007-11-14 08:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by vixxen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi and chat, than start to get to know her friends than just be a gentalman around her (not a pussy )and make her feel comfortable. Than ask her to go out with you and friends(try not to make it sound like a date and spend more time with her than your friends)Than see what happens there
2007-11-14 08:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by Erik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, think about this....you were not even her boyfriend and she hooked up with you. obvioulsly she doesn't have a problem with one night stands. so ask yourself this....would you want to make a girlfriend out of some girl you didn't even know that put out to you??....are you gonna trust her when shes at a party without you?
one night with a girl and she puts out.....1 night without you is all it would take...and whose to say if she even has a boyfriend now...don't tell me it's because she said so.
2007-11-14 08:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋