Pretty straight forward question. I think this question can be asked about life in general. Is it easier to be a good person or bad?
Do you think its easier to be a good spouse or partner? Or a bad one?
2007-11-14 08:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would think it is easier to be a bad partner.It takes effort to be a god partner.It requires effort to put someone else ahead of yourself.It takes effort to share time and space with another.It takes effort to realize another person counts and to consider their feelings and opinions and not just your own.I The scales will never be 50-50 ,one day one person has more imput than the other.In the end all that matters is that you both work together. It is never easy to acknowledge life is not just about ourself but any successful relationship requires the effort of both parties.
2007-11-14 09:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely easier to be a good person and a good spouse. When your a bad spouse, it makes life miserable for the other and who needs that in this day when there's so many other things to worry about. I'm the good spouse by the way,lol, thats how I know this for sure. I'm sure that I'll explain more on another question of yours.LOL.
2007-11-14 10:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things are going good it can be easy to be a good spouse when things are going bad then the horns start coming out. It is better to be a good person and it also makes you feel good about yourself but hey nobody is perfect when a person makes bad decisions usually it beats them up inside. My answer has to be it is easier to be a good spouse but when you are trying to be good and the other is in a bad mood and taking it out on you then that is another story.
2007-11-14 08:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think a bad person first cause ur just not use to the idea that ur with someone and its not all about u anymore.selfishness!has alot to do with it ! it has to be my way and its always has been me! and after you deal with the fact that ur with that person it comes easier! love, trust ,honsety , patience , and time makes u b a better person!no one is perfect!
2007-11-14 08:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Don't take life 4 granted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PERSONALLY I THINK IT IS EASIER TO DO THE BAD BECAUSE OUR FIRST INCLINATION IS FOR SELFISH THINGS FOR OURSELVES.. BUT IN A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU LEARN TO COMPROMISE AND SACRIFICE AND SOON IT BECOMES EASY TO BE A GOOD SPOUSE AND DO THINGS THAT THE OTHER PERSON WANTS
2007-11-14 08:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by gin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just depends on what ones desires are in life. it is easier on ones conscience to be good, unless u don't have a conscience, and u don't love your spouse. if one desires his/her spouse, and loves them they will be good to them, if they want a way out, or don't like their spouse they will be bad to them. just depends on what one wants from life and how they view life.
2007-11-14 11:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to be either one... It is our choice to be a good one or a bad one. Personally, I love to be a great one... Things go better for everyone when no one is fighting and on fabulous terms.
2007-11-14 08:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋