i have a crush
i depressed
i think im in love
2007-11-14 07:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nicole, if you sit and worry about what is going to happen, instead enjoy the moment, we may all be dead tomorrow and you have wasted your time together, if it does not feel right move on, the best human instinct is your heart. listen to your heart and no one else.
2007-11-14 07:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by just doing it! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just allow yourself to enjoy the feelings of being attracted to someone without letting yourself start planning too far ahead in the relationship. When we start having huge expectations of a relationship, that is when we end up getting hurt at times. Just enjoy the moment, and if it develops into a deeper relationship, then great!! But, if it doesn't, have faith that you met that person for a reason, that it is good to feel attraction towards someone else, and KNOW that there will be someone else coming along that will share love with you. Don't let your past rule your future. Love doesn't have to hurt!!
2007-11-14 15:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Janice T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices...
1. U either run away scared and maybe wonder for the rest of your life is he the ONE who is gonna treat u well... only you'll never know cos u never took the chance.
OR
2. You go with the flow and just ride with it..
Seriously...if it goes wrong.. just put it down to experience.. everyone gets hurt.. its LIFE! Just get over it.... we are here to live and love. Just take things slowly (I wish I had its my only regret in my life) and see where it takes u.. and hey. forget about your past, dont let it ruin ur future. past is past. There's nothing u can do about that now but u can do a whole lot for your future.
Good LUCK!!
2007-11-14 15:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by ~funkymonkey~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicole relax!! I'm sorry you got hurt in the past but remember its the PAST. So, lets keep it the past and remember not to repeat the same mistakes. Now, you have a crush, youre depressed, and you think youre in love. Ok. One thing you have to do to see if this guy has interest in you is this: SMILE!! When you see him SMILE like you never did before in your life. That's it!! Then he has to do the work from there. REASON:This waves a signal to him so he can proceed in getting your number. Relax, be confident, don't look desperate!! Good Luck!!
2007-11-14 15:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by FABULOUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are still hurt and focusing that needy void into an unhealthy fixation by trying to force a relationship. This is very very common.. so don't think you are alone. But you shouldn't rush into a relationship where you think there could be love until you can be comfortable standing on your own.
In other words.. take it VERY slow or your fear and baggage will not allow this relationship to happen.... and to be perfectly honest.. you should shoot for friends for now till you are at a better place in your life.
2007-11-14 15:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by pip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your self love. your not supposed to be afraid of falling in love with people. the only thing you should worry about is trying to make your partner happier than you are. In turn they should do the same for you. you are so scared that you don't want to love any more. don't be afraid of pain, you'll get it one way ar the other. its just a matter of how you deal with it. i wish you well.
2007-11-14 15:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by just james 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put all your faith and trust into one person. Date. Go out with your friends. Enjoy your life. Men will come. The thing is they may or may not be looking to settle down and what they do is play the field until they find the one they want to settle down with and thats what you should do.
2007-11-14 15:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by T A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to do is to pick your courage up and walk up to whoever you think you are in love with. It is a pity for you to keep living in the past, don't you think so too?
2007-11-14 15:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by yeng mee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever ever ever compare past relationships!! trust me I was the worst! id been hurt allot and was scared for life i thought, but now I'm married and trust my wife very much!
2007-11-14 15:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by chris t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your past dictate your future. Move on from it and learn from it.
2007-11-14 15:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋