ok so i dated this guy, but we didnt really last long. so we became best friends instead. and then he dated this girl and w.e that didnt last long either. then i realized i still really liked him but didnt want to say cause ik he liked this other girl waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy more but what i didnt know is he liked me to so now he asked his ex back out for maybe the millionth time and she said yes. =[ soo now i still really like him but i told him that too cause i asked what it would take for me to make him break up with her. and then we started talking but he wont break up with her for me cause he has worked to hard to get her. what should i do? become her best friend (again) and convince her to break up with him or wait???
2007-11-14 07:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by Tess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, i wouldnt take that path and pave a road just yet, it seems this guy you are interested in has uncertainty of himself, and he likes you both to feel like he has an opportunity if one way goes wrong. There is something she does with him that he adores, or he likes to be around her for a certain reason, in the end you should always know who you are dealing with before you engage in such mess. Becarefull of your choices. MY advice to you is that you take a pacifist approach and observe. not only then will you read the likeness in between them both, then you compare yourself to them. Then you plan your approach if you still have interests in this.
2007-11-14 07:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Poopface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your working too hard for this guy, and he's already with that girl so maybe you should look for a guy to make him jelous or just to see what he his reaction is..if he doesn't care then use the guy and move on, but if he cares and breaks up with her and wants you then go to him. Somtimes it requires seeing the other person with someone else in order for you to know you want them because people feel they already have you so they don't need to try.
2007-11-14 15:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait...he seems to be a bit more fickle than most guys are comfortable being anyway, so it's likely he will swing your way again. Don't try to influence (or break up) his relationship, though. That's not what best friends do to each other (regardless of their personal motivations) and it would most certainly come to light eventually.
2007-11-14 15:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait. I'd be mad if my girlfriend was convinced by anybody else to break up with me. i wouldn't like you no more. just wait. and on a side not, not to give you a bad thought, but how much does he want to be with you if he wants this other girl that rejected him all those times. think about that. good luck.
2007-11-14 15:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by just james 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are going to become her best friend so that you can break her up with her boyfriend? That really doesn't sound like a friend at all to me.
2007-11-14 15:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by hawkeye316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like you make me sick! You couldn't make it work with him the first time around and now that he's back where he was happy to begin with you want him back! This is not love, this is being selfish and childish! Why not let him be happy if he can be happy with her?? Maybe he'll come back, maybe he won't, but if he ever thinks about coming back, and he finds out that you broke up his relationship he's not going to be happy with you.
~ Nessa ~
2007-11-14 15:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥(`*•.(`*•.¸ ή姧α¸.•*´) .•*´)♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It obviously didn't work out the first time, so if I were you I'd cut my losses and turn my attention elsewhere. Continue to be their friend, of course, but if you try to come between them it will spell disaster for all three of you :(
2007-11-14 15:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by iittghy? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but, your being kinda selfish.
Your wanting him all for yourself and trying to break them up.
If you really liked him you would want him to be happy.
Wait until he likes you back, if not, move on.
2007-11-14 15:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Adrela 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
become friends with her.
dont try and break them up, it will make things worse.
2007-11-14 15:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by LiVV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to wait untill he falls in love with you
2007-11-14 15:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by soccerplayer359 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋