I have been married 2 months. My wife is really frustrated because she says she is not happy. She is trying to change everything about me. And by that, I mean everything. Is this a normal phase to go through. And anybody got any advice. She is saying things like I am not her keeper, and I'm around to much. Thanks for the imput
2007-11-14 07:29:14 · 12 answers · asked by heath83852 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-11-14 07:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she married you? After two months you probably haven't changed. Did she marry you to change something about you? No person has the right to force change on anyone. Did she marry you because she loves you? I am so confused...What the h--- is wrong with women...Oh I am a woman. I do not know what is wrong with woman that think they can walk into mans life fake love and get their way...Guys wake up...think with the big head before you get in this situation. Sorry that is not intended just for you. I am just upset that things like this happen. I am sure you are a wonderful man and do not deserve to go through this..I am so sorry. And people ask why men cheat....lol...ha ha ha...I would too!
2007-11-14 07:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by tinc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In just two months WOW!... Sure marriage does call for both partners compromising and not one trying to completely change the other. You wife definitely is having issues with living with someone 24x7. Or it could just be that she now regrets her decision for getting married and is looking for a way out. That is making your life miserable so that you leave her.
2007-11-14 07:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that she's frustrated by other things in her life, and is taking it out on you. but, how long did you know each other before you got married? did you know each other well, or was it a whirlwind affair? a lot depends on how used to each other you were before. oh and don't change for her, she married you before, so why should you change? stay true to yourself. good luck with everything.x
2007-11-14 07:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Knowledge is Power. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is to immature to be married. It is really hard for both people to adjust to living with one another. She must feel as though she is losing her independance. Talk to her and tell her you love her and you respect her. Give her some space when needed but don't cater to her every need either.
2007-11-14 07:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you didn't get to know each other very well before your marriage. Are you working? Or are you home all day under her feet? That can be annoying. I think she is perhaps having regrets. The best person to ask here....is HER!
2007-11-14 07:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her? You need to keep the lines of communication open. Then give her some space but not to much or she may feel like you don't want her anymore.
2007-11-14 07:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by achunt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still early in your marriage. These feelings shouldn't occur until later in your marriage. When the sex gets less frequent thats when I sometimes get those feelings.
2007-11-14 07:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she has lost interest in the marriage. The way you described it showed her as selfish and unappreciative. You deserve better!
2007-11-14 07:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by kaylasumm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space, encourage her own interests, pursue your own interests. It'll give you each room to grow, and some new things to talk about when you're together.
2007-11-14 07:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Curry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only 2 months huh?
It took me 10 long years to ....go nutz
2007-11-14 07:33:11 · answer #11 · answered by male.confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋