2007-11-14 08:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what the ex told you. Watch his facial expressions and body language, men are not good liars. Tell him that his ex is coming to meet with you to discuss what's being said, if he thinks he is in trouble, he will talk
2007-11-14 08:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he cheat on his ex or is he cheating on you with his ex?
What is his ex's agenda that she feels she needs to tell you that he is a cheat? Is she trying to make life miserable for him, is she trying to get him away from you and get him back, or is she trying to save you heartbreak?
You know your guy, you already have all the answers that you need. If the ex is just trying to cause trouble, ignore her--she's looking for drama and trying to get a rise out of you. Tell her "OK, thanks for your concern." When she realizes that she can't get the response she wants, she'll go elsewhere.
If the ex is telling the truth and your guy is a cheat and is cheating on you, then dump him. Show him you aren't a doormat to be taken advantage of.
If he cheated on her, but he's saying he's changed, then pay attention to his actions not just his words and you'll know soon enough if he's telling the truth.
Good Luck.
2007-11-14 16:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex may just be trying to get him back and it may be that case. On the other hand if this ex of his is one of your friends then find out which is which. If you trust and love this guy you should believe him. Your heart will know and I wish you the best of luck.
2007-11-14 16:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Missy Mizuho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I would tell he that someone told me you was cheatin on me and I need you to keep it real with me, because if you was, we need to go get test done and we need to talk, I don;t need you to make choice for me I want to make the choice for myself if I want to contiue being with you and if I do the only way are relationship will work is if you keep it real with me like tell me the true....... But to be honor
2007-11-14 16:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Ann f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he is cheating, it's probably with the ex. On the other hand, she may just be saying yes to get up under your skin. Trust your instinct.
2007-11-14 16:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by I've Got My Answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need more information to make a final decision. But what if his ex just wants him back and is trying to break the two of you up? It depends on the circumstances of their breakup. I would trust your boyfriend until you have further proof otherwise.
2007-11-14 16:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dizzler9347598 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple - you either trust him or you don't. An ex isn't exactly the most reliable source, especially if their relationship ended badly.
2007-11-14 16:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Flusterated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to ask yourself is he a cheater and do you trust him or do you trust his ex. Because he ex can con you and make you break up with him. Also ask yourself do you love him if you do trust.
2007-11-14 16:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by SingerChick4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ex knows
2007-11-14 16:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by suzanne g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ex is probably jealous. Do you trust him?
2007-11-14 16:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋