Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

Every weekend i invite this guy over (plus some mutual friends), i get him drunk, he does stupid stuff, and then i take advantage of him. plus, i record how drunk and stupid he is with my cell phone and then put it on youtube. is this genius or wrong?

2007-11-05 16:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This has to be the hardest thing I ever did. But if you had to be in my shoes would you do the same thing?

Ok I should start off by saying I have a 2 year old daughter and I found that my husband her father is in to KP pictures a few months ago and I didn't know what to think about it when I saw one of the many pictures on he's MY Book hard drive and all I could think of was I didn't want him any where near our little girl until he gets help for that and until then I don't want him around her without someone in the same room with them at all times.

I just want to hear it from other people that if they had to be in my shoes right now that they would do the same thing. Because I don't want to hurt my daughter because mom and dad are not with each other anymore. But then again I also don't want her to get hurt or go through like what I saw on that picture of a girl and be scarded for life.

2007-11-05 16:07:12 · 14 answers · asked by JG78 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Plans are not finalized, but my wedding will probably be located at a relative's cabin which will be a minimum drive of 1 1/2 hours for some guests, but a 4 hr drive for more than half of the guests. (by the way, small wedding, about 50 guests).

Do I need to send save the date cards in this situation?

2007-11-05 16:02:26 · 8 answers · asked by *ae* 3 in Weddings

Okay so there these to girls i work with there sisters and they know i like this guy at work. the older sister told me that her younger sister was goin out w/the guy i like. are they both lying jus so it gets to me. the guy i like hardly ever talks to these girls.

2007-11-05 16:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by shortyT 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and her husband have a loving and mutually respectful relationship. This is why I was shocked to learn that she had advised a mutual friend who had become physically violent with her husband during an intense argument (mutually aggressive) that this was normal and that most--if not all-- couples go through it once...it is a problem if it becomes a pattern, but that it is bound to happen to most couples once in their mariage. This has NOT been my experience in my own marriage but she cited the names of other couples who had become violent with each other at least once during an argument (shoving, slapping, spitting).... and I am still in disbelief.

I am interested to hear from couples to whom this has happened but have NOT made it a pattern....

2007-11-05 16:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by joellemoe 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex s going all crazy on me. we have a kid together, but I have moved on and am dating another guy!!! Every time I go out with my BF he calls and bugs us. I don't know what to do!! My BF and me are really close and even thinking of getting engaged sometime in the near future!! My ex is trying so hard to get me back, i tell him I don't want to go back to him. I'm scared that if I **** him off that he won't be around for our daughter!!

2007-11-05 16:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by rhianon_elizabeth 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 16:00:17 · 2 answers · asked by Mario 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with someone and I still love that person but she doesn't love me anymore and I know that the relationship we had could never be the same. Even if the girl decided she loved me I still wouldn't want to get back together with her because things are so different now. However, its been 3 months since we broke up; I moved to a new city, got rid of everything I had that reminded me of her and don't talk to her. For some reason I can't get her out of my head, she's there all the time and she's in every one of my dreams. Everyday I keep loving someone who I could never be with again. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Can anyone give me some advise on moving on? I need to move on, but can't.

2007-11-05 15:58:24 · 17 answers · asked by kevcim06 2 in Singles & Dating

im a 25 year old african american that lives in brooklyn and need friends in my life. I seem to attract the bad crowd. anyone know of any website to meet or chat with people my age?

2007-11-05 15:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am attracted to one of my managers at work. I haven't acted on it for the obvious reason that he is one of my managers and I didnt want to date someone I work with. However, I found a new job and this is my last week at my current job. We have started flirting more than usual recently, and I am very attracted to him, not just sexually but he has a great personality as well. Im not sure if he is attracted to me (I am attractive, but I am not sure if he feels that "spark") or if he just enjoys flirting with me, with alot of men do without realizing it (just my experience). Should I just go for it since I'm not going to be working there much longer anyways or no? If yes, how should I approach it?

2007-11-05 15:56:55 · 3 answers · asked by kitty10185 3 in Singles & Dating

My son is two years old I can see signs of autisim in his behavior. I live just northeast of Houston, TX. Right now he sees a speech therapist once a week. I feel that he needs more than just once a week. Does anyone know of any places or programs that can help us out?

2007-11-05 15:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by movingon@31 2 in Family

I like this girl that I've met this year, but I can't quite figure her out. In the mornings, we would see each other and talk on the train station before school. We would never have awkwardness between us. We would talk, but not flirty talk, just general stuff. We have one class together, but we dont sit next to each other anymore (thanks to my teacher's racial desegregation), and if we see each other in the halls, sometimes she would poke or tickle me as I walk by. Once, she grabbed my cell and called her own so we'd both have each others number. The thing is, she is pretty hot, and I'm kind of a loser (if you looked at both of us in the same picture, you wouldn't believe we would be going out since I'm out of her league). Also, I believe that my friend continously hinted to her that I liked her.

So my question is, should I make a move soon since I'm afraid that she will get tired of waiting or should I become more flirty,which im not, none of my past relationships made past a week

2007-11-05 15:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by Donaldo 4 in Singles & Dating

My son uses women, he leaves babies everywhere he goes. He's been all over the country doing this, I have grandbabies in Virginia, Nebraska, California, and god only knows where else. Right now he's between women, " I won't let him use my computer ". That's how he meets and uses them. Now that he's here, how hard should I be on him? He's our only child, the apple of momma's eye, how do I avoid problems now that he's here? I love him dearly, but not the way he treats the fair sex. He is a grown man now, 25. He goes to work and I charge him 10 dollars a day, how do get rid of him from my house without pissing off my wife?

2007-11-05 15:53:08 · 11 answers · asked by nortonclarkson 4 in Family

2007-11-05 15:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you haven't met that person yet....only by phone.

2007-11-05 15:51:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to give them money for Christmas because their parents and grandparents give them EVERYTHING they've ever wanted.

2007-11-05 15:50:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm tired of crappy relationships, I'm in school, I work and I am a fun and pretty girl from what I've been told. I've completely put my heart out once and got my heart crushed. All guys want now seems to be is sex and I want a relationship...Is that impossible to find?

2007-11-05 15:48:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We've been together for almost two years. We never talk about past relationships. Well he knows that I've been with 2 people because my friend told him. I have no clue about him though! Is it wrong for me to wonder or to even ask? I know that he's older there for probably more experienced but if he said a big number it may break my heart...Maybe it's better not knowing?

2007-11-05 15:48:23 · 2 answers · asked by mhk2358 2 in Singles & Dating

I flip out when my skin breaks out, well it is having a party today and I am super upset. I have been feeling sick for two weeks and got diagnosed with mono, I am having trouble with all my credits in school and hating my major but my parents wont let me NOT major in business so i have to major in journalism and business which will take an extra year.

someone stole my debit card and put me in 200 dollars in debt, i completely bombed an accoutning test i studied hard for, I am sad because I dont have any music in my life anymore, because I dont have time.

I wish i could get better, move to NYC and sing, then i would have to leave my family and my boyfriend and I could never leave them.... blah.... super duper sad and ready to fall asleep again....

2007-11-05 15:48:23 · 2 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

more then just once a night,

2007-11-05 15:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this problem: I have this friend (Seiji),who was one of my only friends in the beggining of sixth grade, since I wasn't a big social magnet. We've had sleepovers, hang outs, and lots of friendship stuff... Now, In 7th grade. He's calling me a stalker because we ended up in the same class and my locker's right next to mine. I had no choice for my class and locker. He'd start bullying me, and when I try to talk to him, he wont talk to me coz he doesnt talk to "Fat A$$e$". I feel really hurt about this. I try to say sorry about what ever I did. HE NEVER FORGIVES ME. I need help. I really want to be his friend again.

2007-11-05 15:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"What kind of dog is that?" Awkward situation...
We recently moved, and after I found out my ex lives about four houses down from us...
Ex as in ex boyfriend...
That was awkaward enough, and then tonight I was walking my pup, and his wife or who I thought was his wife asked me what kind of dog I had? To get my attention, yes... But why?

Once she got my attention she talked non stop , said she knew I was her boyfriends ex... OK, awkward... Small town yes, and what made it more bizzare is she is someone I know now is from my now hubbys highschool days...

OK, now why did she want so bad to talk to me? I have seen this coming several times over in passing ...
What if anything do you make of it?

2007-11-05 15:42:59 · 16 answers · asked by My Hubby's Be Be`♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who is 35 and he is dating a 20 year old girl. my males friends don't see it as anything bad. my female friends see it as disgusting. what do you think?

2007-11-05 15:39:54 · 19 answers · asked by The Allknowing Edgar 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so just GIVING HIM the note was stressful enough for me, I MEAN MY HANDS WERE SHAKING and this was a big step for me. it was supposed to be from classmates to better friends and closer. and the letter wasnt like A LOVE LETTER POURING OUT MY FEELINGS FOR HIM, but it was really really really flirty and it asked him these weird fun questions like "are you part black? and how are tall are you" ( i know, its an inside joke dont laugh) and it was like a page long about other random stuff and the teacher TOOK IT after he only read ONE LINE (i heard him say this, he didnt say it to my face) but i dont get why she took it... I mean class didnt start yet when I gave it to him. I deliberatley said on the note "i dont want you to get in trouble for passing notes in class" so i gave it to him before class but she still took it. what if he thinks its a love letter?? afterclass, I walked past him and made eye contact but we both didnt know what to say to each other and just left. what do i do??

2007-11-05 15:34:54 · 37 answers · asked by I'm A Big Girl Now 1 in Singles & Dating

ive always been weird about opening up in relationships, trying not to get hurt...The last one noticed it and i allowed myself to trust him, really thought i could. He gave me no reason not to. We had so much fun together and HE was the first one to say he loved me. He broke up with me for what appared to be no reason. Ive started dating since but cant seem to get past the fact that this last guy seemed great and turned out not to be, so why would the next one be any different?

2007-11-05 15:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin has a 1-year-old daughter and at the time she got pregnant she was sleeping with 2 different people. She TOLD the guys from the start about her infidelities and neither of the guys offered to help with the pregnancy/ baby. She just now had a paternity test to see who the father was. She gets welfare assistance and that was one of the stipulations was to receive child support. Now the father is claiming abuse to the child because she didn't have the test done sooner. Is that really child abuse? She says the neither guy stuck around or tried to help her out until they could determine who was the baby's father so it didn't matter to her. That might have not been best for the baby but is that really abuse??

2007-11-05 15:34:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is turning 41. He does a lot of carpentry work. I was thinking clothes (which I get him like every year). My friend said tools... Which do you think he will appreciate more?

2007-11-05 15:32:35 · 4 answers · asked by Tonya R 3 in Family

seriously anyone know anything?

2007-11-05 15:31:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anthony Kellen R.I.P. Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy just made love for the first time a few weeks ago.. Eversince then, he has been very happy and acts even more loving to me. I know its awful but I feel a little resentful to him. I know that I wanted to do it too but I kind of regret it. I love him very much and can't see myself without him but I feel like I let myself down. I always promised myself that I would wait for marraige.......So now I feel like a complete failure. I can't help but look at him and think he's the cause of it all..........although I KNOW that is unfair to him. Am I a jerk for feeling this way? What can I do to stop feeling these regrets :-( Please save any RUDE comments.

2007-11-05 15:30:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lonely Love 06 2 in Singles & Dating

I was raised seperately from my relatives. My dad was in The army and he raised me to be a good decent person. My relatives on the other hand are cruel, greedy and abusive. I never had any contact with them until i was 8 or 9. I was thinking of the famiies I saw on tv and thought are family was like that. They arent. They were very cruel, and abusive. For years i guess i just blocked out the stuff they said & did. I remember now because back then I was confused about what families were like and what love was. They took their frustrations out on me.

2007-11-05 15:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family