I was raised seperately from my relatives. My dad was in The army and he raised me to be a good decent person. My relatives on the other hand are cruel, greedy and abusive. I never had any contact with them until i was 8 or 9. I was thinking of the famiies I saw on tv and thought are family was like that. They arent. They were very cruel, and abusive. For years i guess i just blocked out the stuff they said & did. I remember now because back then I was confused about what families were like and what love was. They took their frustrations out on me.
2007-11-05 15:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In a way you had be en lucky to be raised by your father Imagine I you had been raised by your family You have no bond with your family And if you want my advice stay away from them Noboby need abuse One day you will have your own family Husband and children and they will bring you joy LOts of Chance
2007-11-05 17:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sometimes I feel it to be that way in my life....but you know I try my best to make the best out of my life...its not a pice of cake sometimes...but I deal....you know there is no family is rly happy out there like on TV but the reality is for most of us not all our problems can b solved in 30 min timmings....its kinda sad tho you look at some people and think wow thier lives are great they got everything I always wanted there family is perfect...but u dont see what goes on behind close doors....the pain they are going thew....I know it might be hard but doing the best u can is rly all u can do...look at them in pitty for what they are saying and the way they are acting...u know ur a better person than that....dont let urself become like them...hold ur head high and never let them break you....my dad was the type of man who thrived off of making people feel pain...dont fall...hold urself up...sometimes people cant be changed...thats when u take control of ur own life and say to urself I tried...
I hoped i helped
lots of love!
2007-11-05 15:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by fufu16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teaches you to do things differently. Like a "birds eye view" so to speak. Gotta love life and your family. LOL
2007-11-05 15:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by nancie_usa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, like my dad had a proble with his trucking business which affected us financialy. and so with all the stress that my mum , with my dad and with church and work, she yells at my brothers and i a lot and i like dont want to bother her with anything so i dont really mention things a lot. ya no
2007-11-05 15:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by princesslineth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋