Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

It is like unless your thin, they don't want you.

I am very accepted and welcome by other races (esp. Latin and Black men) but white men don't seem to show interest in me.

2007-11-05 14:21:32 · 3 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

It is like unless your thin, they don't want you.

I am very accepted and welcome by other races (esp. Latin and Black men) but white men don't seem to show interest in me.

2007-11-05 14:21:06 · 22 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 14:21:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has always had problems waking up. I literally half the time used to have to kick him out of the bed to get him awake. Now he is working third shift, so I thought it might get easier, but no - it is becoming more difficult again. His best friend suggested I get a plastic baseball bat and beat him with it if he doesn't wake up after the second time I tell him it's time to get up. I think that's childish, I feel like he should be able to get himself up and be responsible and get himself to work. No one wakes me up to get me to work. I am tired of having to take care of my husband like I do my kids.

My problem is if I don't get him up, I'm afraid he will lose his job from always being late. How are we supposed to survive on just my income if he can't hold a job? So far, I haven't let him sleep late enough to even get in trouble. But I am so stressed out and it is so infuriating to see him mope around trying to wake up and not make an effort to be responsible. HELP!

2007-11-05 14:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by swheatmamato3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it feel the same or would she feel the difference?

2007-11-05 14:19:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have been going out for two months now. I'm 14 years old. We've already had sex, numerous times...but she does this horrible thing all the time, during foreplay, at random, while we're making out...she bites. yes...bites. I used to love it, but now she's breaking the skin on my neck, my chest, my shoulders...everywhere, I come home from her place looking battle-ravaged! I really do love this girl, and was wondering if there was an appropriate way to tell her that her biting is a major turn-off now. Any suggestions are welcome. Thanks!

2007-11-05 14:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by Joey P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a brief sexual relationship with this guy for a few months.It was something that just happened wasn't meant to but did.He happened to be the best friend of an associate of mine(which is a girl).I asked him beforehand, if he thought it wuld be a problem with her, and I asked him would it effect their friendship, he assured me that it wouldn't because they were just close friends from junior high school.Anyhow, he broke it off with me, he said that he didn';t like me anymore, and that if I called him again he would tell everyone my business.I said okay no problem.The very next day his best friend calls me(keep in mind I haven't heard from her in eight months) to volunteer at an event that he was hosting.I never returned her call, so now when i see her she doesn't speak to me, she looks at the ground and ignores me, when I see him he doesn;'t speak to me as well,however I did run into him and he smiled at me and called me over to him so that "we can talk" but I told him I had to go.

2007-11-05 14:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Friends

Just to sum it up..I took my bf back after a 3 yr break up. We are married now with a 7 yr old. We are good parents. When we were just bf and gf we broke up because he left me for another female (our son was 2). Since we been married, he's talked to her on several occasions, before I found out I let him do as he pleased because I forgave and trusted him again. Now I wonder after finding out they've talked several times....what does that mean? He says it's nothing. I don't want to question my husband anymore than he's answered but I can't help but wonder..If it bothers me, shouldn't he respect that? If it is nothing, why does he do it? I want us to have freedom to do whatever we choose and be able to be faithful at the same time.
I feel like I do support him in good or bad situations. I believe in us. I don't ask the question anymore since he answered but
Why the need to talk to her? He says he'd never even have a fling with her so Why talk?

2007-11-05 14:17:11 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lets say if a girl wasd below the age of eighteen but strikingly beautiful.

2007-11-05 14:16:15 · 2 answers · asked by liveinlove<3 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy who i know, from way back in 2nd grade. we just started goin to school with each other again last year, and we started talking this year. He has a girlfriend and is VERY serious with her.

so recently the guy has been talking to me a lot. Most people at my school will just say hi, but he stops and talks, not long, just chitchat. He has comments me on myspace, and sometimes i don't get to comment back for a week or so, so he leaves another comment a couple days later. Does this mean he likes me? or is he just really friendly?

2007-11-05 14:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by thespillcourtney 1 in Friends

I was in love with a girl for a long time, but was always too shy to ask her out, and didn't see her going down the road when she'd try to wave, so she'd THINK I was being stuck up and not waving when really I just didn't see her. So now we don't study each other any more, but I was wondering, what are the chances that she talks bad about me? I've seen her boyfriend look at me kind of crazy and angry like, so I think she's told him about me. Do girls talk about their exboyfriends/exlovers?

I myself have never said a word about her...

2007-11-05 14:12:36 · 6 answers · asked by DMD3 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-05 14:10:27 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My mom is on the phone, screaming at the top of her lungs at her mother. From the sounds of it, it's something about how my grandmother got someone to call my mom and tell my mother to call my grandmother more often. She's been screaming for five minutes. It is ringing in my ears. Even if you plug your ears, you can still hear her at yelling volumes and it rings in your ears. My special-needs brother is sitting right next to her and is crying because he thinks she's yelling at him, plus it must hurt his ears. I tried to get him to move, but he doesn't do anything. My mom won't stop, even when I say "You're sitting right next to Daniel."

It's SO annoying and it's over something so stupid. She's ranting and she's even cursing a little.


Any tips?

2007-11-05 14:09:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm an adult college student and I have a big crush on my professor (who is English, by the way). He just seems a few yrs. older. Should I tell him? It's affecting my classwork in a bad way. I think he is a little attracted to me (long story), but I don't want to start anything...maybe just a little mercy. Is it a bad idea?

2007-11-05 14:04:40 · 10 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Singles & Dating

to lock your teenage daughter up in her room to protect her moral integrity?

2007-11-05 14:03:16 · 13 answers · asked by jacks_insanity 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to decide if i should get an album or just buy the Proofs and scrapbook(i've been scrapping for over 10 years) the pictures the way i want.

2007-11-05 14:02:33 · 27 answers · asked by Princess Jo Jo 2 in Weddings

One has a very negative, selfish outlook, but is loving towards the spouse and the spouse only. The other is very positive, outgoing and spiritual. Money is first for one and people for the other. One is very dishonest and seems to fight with everyone all the time. The other studies Buddhism and is trying to become a better person. However it seems cruel for the one to leave the other even though they agree finally that they are too different. It would be taking away the one bright spot in his life, but maybe it would also force him to create other bright spots for himself. The couple has overcome many obstacles and do love each other, but their opposing natures constantly present problems. One loves the other, but the other's behavior has changed the attraction so that it is more of a parent/child relationship. It is horribly difficult to leave, but one is growing slowly and the other feels their growth is severly stunted by the whole situation. Is it time to move on?

2007-11-05 13:59:42 · 5 answers · asked by wrytoasts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

mabey he is mand but i havent done nothing wrong or he migth like another gril

2007-11-05 13:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by nena 2 in Singles & Dating

When a guy wants to divorce them when she gets fat in the marriage. When a guy marries a skinny/average weight women and she gets far, I think it is ridicoulas for women to be mad that her husband doesnt love her anymore. Or do you think that unconditional love means that you can do anything and he will still kiss your feet?

2007-11-05 13:58:09 · 23 answers · asked by metro900 3 in Marriage & Divorce

With so much *** and boobs being revealed, can men be really faithful to their women? Just walkin on the street almost every woman I see is sexy! They got on tight clothes revealing cleavages, legs hair is all done, belly showing etc...also I work at a firm and the women here just show it off everyday...is it possible to be faithful your whole life to your woman or are you bound to fail?

2007-11-05 13:56:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How fricking sad is it that I had my first kiss in a play at school? I'm a senior in high school! I'm cute too! It's just I haven't had a girl friend since 9th grade and girls like me but I seem to have a problem with timing because whenever I finally like a girl she has a bf by then or she doesn't like me like that any more!

2007-11-05 13:54:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For a man that has everything? My boyfriend and I are coming up on our two year anniversary. The problem is, he is VERY wealthy and already has everything he wants/needs. I am just a college student and I have no money whatsoever. I feel really bad because he gives me everything and take me everywhere. I want to do something really special for him, but I don't know what to do. Any suggestions? Thanks for your help.

2007-11-05 13:52:36 · 3 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

yes/no whtz your opinion?

2007-11-05 13:50:51 · 20 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just got married and he just started working 2nd shift. I work days. He is never at home and we fight all the time. I never get to see him, have dinner with him, sex with him, never get to sit down and TALK!??!?? What do we do??Am I looking for an easy way out?? I just am depressed coming home to NO ONE and as a newlywed its hard. I am so depressed and then he is leaving me at home and going on a hunting trip. I have to work yes. But I want to spend some time with him. What do I do?? Advice please

2007-11-05 13:48:42 · 18 answers · asked by hawaiiansun_82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 and cant make a female friend to save my soul, im a very nice considerate giving person, im kinda shy but am funny and goofy when ya get to know me......... why is it that other women are friends with females since grade school and i dont have any left and its impossible to make them..( i do have a lot of guy friends and i never put out to make these guy friends)

2007-11-05 13:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs ACO 3 in Friends

Ok I´m a young single mom to a 4 yr old becuz the father of my child left me to marry someone else, during all the time they were together she told him to NOT have any communication with me and he obeyed her like a puppy. It angered me since he didnt even get along NOT vwen for my kid since he was not allowed to talk to me. His mom also never liked him having anytype of communication with me, prohibited him too. Time passes by and now he is NOT with the wife anymore...His dad who lives in another country comes here and says he wants to straighten things out and wants us to get along and have communication like we´re supposed to and tells his son that what he did to me was wrong and tells me i´m part of the family and blah blah which is nice cuz he made me feel good and like of he was on my side...but problem is that I´m not sure if I´m ready to make nice with the dad of my child since he has done to many things that have hurt me TREMENDOUSLY

2007-11-05 13:44:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am tired of waiting. There is nothing wrong with me. Lets face it-I am indeed gorgeous, clever, huge personality, caring etc yet I find it soo hard to find someone who is actually worth me. People think I'm lucky because I can have anyone, but on the contrary I can have much less as my choices are limited by my pickiness and by the fact that I want someone who is just like me in all aspects. When I say just like me I mean- with looks, personality, brain etc. There are much less people like that out there. Where should I look for them? I refuse to settle for less :(

2007-11-05 13:41:35 · 48 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 13:41:04 · 3 answers · asked by Farley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in a few years and we are paying for the whole thing ourselves (we already started saving). I already asked my dad and he said he is broke, although he loves us as a couple. My parents however plan on inviting co-workers and friends and neighbors to my wedding. Their friends will outnumber my friends for sure. This is bugging me because I plan on having good quality food at the reception and on Long Island that can run more than $100 a plate.

I'm kinda pissed because my parents don't want to chip in but they want me to pay to entertain their friends and co-workers at my wedding.

Am I being irrational for wanting to elope?

2007-11-05 13:40:57 · 26 answers · asked by Zee Bee 2 in Weddings

Option A: Apartment shared with ex boyfriend, all your stuff is already there, take over lease from him for $900 a month. 25 minutes from work. Huge walk in closet, large laundry room, vaulted ceilings, 2 br. 10 months left on lease.

Option B: Apartment in same complex as A just a mile away. $1200 a month. Smaller bedrooms, smaller laundry room, bigger kitchen and dining/living room area. still 25 minutes from work. 5 month lease beginning Wed $1500 up front.

Option C: A friend's house; 50 minutes to work. $500 a month plust $200 for stuff that would have to go into storage. No rent until Dec. Smallest bedroom and all personal belongings would end up in storage; wouldn't be personalized.

2007-11-05 13:40:12 · 3 answers · asked by torn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships