Anyone suprised how shallow white men are in dating?

Question

It is like unless your thin, they don't want you.

I am very accepted and welcome by other races (esp. Latin and Black men) but white men don't seem to show interest in me.

Answer 1

are you maybe a little too judgmental? it sounds like it's on your end...you set yourself up to be rejected by "white" men, probably by some subconscious prejudice you carry that you have not yet acknowledged in your life. that will inevitably spill over into your daily behavior, your body language, your tone of voice, your demeanor all change when you're in front of a white man. i'd try to focus less on color of skin and zoom back out to what you're projecting, then make that your starting point for change, if indeed you want to change and become more attractive to the hallowed "white man." hope this helped ya. blessed be.

Answer 2

That is not true. I know men who love women who are not thin. I am not thin and I have a boyfriend who is white.

Just because they don't show interest in you, doesn't mean they are shallow. Some men may already be attached and quite happy with their relationship. Some men prefer to date within their own race. There is nothing wrong with each persons preference. It becomes wrong when someone is mean and disrespects you or calls you names.

There are shallow people out there in all races, but their are good men too, in all races.

Answer 3

Ah, white guys... Find a hot one and they are like international currency - accepted anywhere.

Honestly, good white men are harder to come by then the idiot and my favorite - the douche.

Regardless, of the ones you've been exposed to thus far, keep your chin up and understand that you shouldn't put too much faith in the opinions of random white dudes, especially when your fierceness is at bat.

Like most challenges in life, finding a great guy of any race is a trial and error thing. But, white guys are particularly slow... for you, you like any race of guy... feel bad for us ethnic girls who are romantically racist!

Answer 4

You may be a little too judgmental... like yourself for who you are and men (the ones you will actually want to) will come running.

Forget about the guys who are so superficial that they judge you by your pant size... those are the ones you want to be with. If you do, become that skinny girl who they are always going after.

But first.. you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you.

Answer 5

anyone notice how shallow the chick asking this question is???????? you just generalized and entire race by your few encounters with white men. im sorry you feel this way but i see alot of white guys dateing really really fat chicks i mean some real heffers wheeww i mean some really really big hogs. and the men are white who date these big pigs.

Answer 6

Hold on honey,do not go stereotyping all white men like skinny women.I like ladies with a little meat on the bones no matter what color they are.

Answer 7

maybe the men you are dating don't like or don't have a preference unfortunately in african american women. If that's what you experienced it's not wrong, I think there are just alot of racists on yahoo answers!

Answer 8

Not all white guys are like that,some of us prefer women with something to hold onto.Good luck.

Answer 9

Hmmm where are the "you are a racist" comments?

If this were the other way round I'm sure they'd be pouring in.

Oh.. what was your question? Am I suprised? Psssh, no. Of course not.

Answer 10

It's true. I'm hella ugly. But girls chase after my bf..strange. I must not be ugly. But white men are shallow (some)!!!!