Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

So theres this chick shes a cheerleader....yeah I know what your all thinking. Anyways shes a babes and shes quite nice. I'm not exactly Mr popular and can piss people off. I have an extreme low self esteme in myself so if you have any answers on what to do i would be glad to hear them. Ohh and what are some good topics to talk about. I always seem to babble on about stupid crap when I'm in the presence of girls.

2007-11-05 13:39:16 · 1 answers · asked by Wolfman 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a big crush on my professor and I'm really tempted to write him an email telling him that it's the reason why I have been having a hard time focusing in class. It's the honest to goodness truth. Is it a bad idea? I don't want anything, just his mercy. I'm not stupid, I'm just distracted.

2007-11-05 13:36:59 · 19 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend walked in on my bf kissing... his cousin! wtf do i do!? i know if i ask, he'd deny it. so what now?? and what is it called? is it incest, or is that only for parents&child(ren)?

2007-11-05 13:36:42 · 22 answers · asked by KC 1 in Friends

My husbands mother always asks for money. Not from me but from him. She doesn't talk to me much because i am white and my husband is from pakistan. She wanted him to marry in his own race and religion. But the problem is she constintly asks for money. This time it is for his sisters wedding. Other times it has been for house payments and business deals for his uncles. He doesn't want to disrespect her but we have two children and don't have any extra money. She doesn'tknow ourr circumstances because she isn't involved in our lives. What should he say to her to stop her from asking for cash. And we are talking about thousands.

2007-11-05 13:36:03 · 7 answers · asked by justmyopinion 4 in Family

The best reason I know is because when two people kiss something remains in the mouth for a long time, other than that I don't know.

2007-11-05 13:35:12 · 8 answers · asked by madmax_noway 1 in Singles & Dating

can they be friends without one of them wanting more

2007-11-05 13:35:10 · 32 answers · asked by justine 1 in Friends

I was very your when my mom died and think i'm starting to forget her,my did died a few years ago .How do you save the memory?

2007-11-05 13:32:54 · 5 answers · asked by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4 in Friends

Why so much drama :( Right now between all of my friends their is drama! We are all freshmen, but sometimes i think i am the only one who thinks all this is STUPID! Please help!! Read this and you may understand!

1.) my best friend Shelly has a boyfriend (their relationship is fairly new) and when ever Shelly and all of our friends want to go do something for the weekend he ALWAYS comes with her. I don't mind that her boyfriend comes with group but i do get pissed when Shelly gives 98% of her attention to her boyfriend and blows all of us!

2.) Our other friend, Vanessa, flirts with Shelly's boyfriend behind Shelly's back and even right in front of her. SOOOOOOO many people have noticed it and have told Shelly (including me). Shelly tried telling Vanessa but Vanessa completly denied everything and then was all pissed at Shelly. But Vanessa always talks to me like nothing is wrong, and she bad mouths my one friend named Alyssa, Alyssa and Vanessa Hate eachother but i'll get to that

2007-11-05 13:32:49 · 6 answers · asked by xxripapartmybleedingsoulxx 2 in Friends

Okay Me and my husband have been together for 5 years. and we have 3 small children. i am 25 and he is 21.
i just want to know How do I know if he still loves me anymore after all these years. He has done some pretty hurtful stuff behind my back im sure you all know what im talking about! But that left me feeling pretty bad and jealous. I t ry to trust him but cant find it in myself. He says he loves me but it seems like just a routine thing when he says it. like there is no meaning to it. He doesnt seem like he is interested anymore. Yes ive put on a lil weight but I still look good and dress up with my heels and what he likes. but I have to fish for compliments or get hurt and cry over it before he says anything.
is it me or him. Does he still love me? or Want someone else?
How do I knkow that he wont cheat again.?
I am and have been completely faithful through out every thing and im still here. so its nothing that I have done. Guys am I just old news or something? i need to know

2007-11-05 13:32:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heyy well im in love with this jerk who like uses me but i really like him. please DONT lecture me on this, can you all come up with some cute little quotes or like a myspace headline.

PLEASE &
THANKS SO MUCH

2007-11-05 13:32:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you move on from someone who told you he never wants to see you again. Especially when you did nothing on your part for this to happen, and really knowing this person wants nothing to do with you and you will never see that person again. How can I move on?

2007-11-05 13:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just found out today that my crush going out with someone else.

but him and his girlfrieds fighting at the moment about me!

his girlfriend found out from one of her friends
that her boyfriend [my crush] said to her friend
that if he didnt like her, then he might like me

and well.

idk what to do at this point...

2007-11-05 13:31:56 · 4 answers · asked by loveisthemovement ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend thats pregnent and we are only FRESHMAN PLZ HELP shes scared and so am i

2007-11-05 13:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by black_roze 2 in Friends

I was fortunate enough to have been able to have spent my summers in Paris at my family's summer home while I was growing up. However, my brother was always intent on taking part in "volunteer" work and mostly stayed around our winter home in New York year round.

Frankly, his lack of travel and seeing the world has very much limited his view on relationships, and the type of girl to enter a "life" partnership with. My fiancée Megan (pronounced Mee-Gun) is a fantastic intellect. She is a partner at her floral shop and speaks three different languages. Every day is a learning experience with this beautiful flower of a woman. We travel to Paris and talk about paintings at the Louvre.

My brother is married to some dame who works at Subway. My goodness, she is not even interested in what is going on in the world today. Her idea of a good time is a hot dog and good seats at the races. She calls my brother Robert "Bob", which to me is a verb and NOT a proper name. She drinks BEER.

2007-11-05 13:26:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

IN WHAT WAYS DO YOU SHOW YOU LIKE HER?
I mean how do you act around your crush? What things do you do that you wouldn't do to just a friend?

2007-11-05 13:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by LEMON the good life 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my friend called me today and asked if I knew what a Jodee was. He said a gurl texted him and said Military Men call guys like him a "Jodee". Can anyone tell me what in the world that means???

2007-11-05 13:18:20 · 2 answers · asked by KRockerella 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with my closest friend. She doesn't feel the same way at all, and I'm at the end of my rope. I would really, really like to just get over her and salvage our friendship. She means so much to me, but she feels guilty because she doesn't like me back, and its just a bad situation. How do I get over her? I just want things back the way before, when we were just friends.

2007-11-05 13:17:57 · 9 answers · asked by jawzmorph23 1 in Singles & Dating

im a sophomore now and i dont know lately ive noticed she says hi to me more. and kind of flashes me smiles at random times does that mean anything. and if it does what should i do?

2007-11-05 13:14:38 · 23 answers · asked by skate4eva899 1 in Singles & Dating

Half the time their d:)ck eds any how.

2007-11-05 13:12:51 · 23 answers · asked by M C 2 in Singles & Dating

is there something wrong with me I get bored then I just shut down.. what going on here whats wrong with this picture.....

2007-11-05 13:11:47 · 20 answers · asked by b ranch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it mean my husband wants other women because he watches porn after i go to work?

2007-11-05 13:11:37 · 14 answers · asked by Shady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just case i talk to evey one in my scool

2007-11-05 13:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by nena 2 in Friends

I'm so totally in love with this guy i can't get him out of my head every where i go i think about about him, before i go to bed i think about him when i wake up i think about him. i'm crazy about him but the thing is that he's my ex boyfriend.. we broke up like 3 months ago and i am missing him like way too much every time i try to get him out of my head i can't and i can't move on many people have asked me out but i just couldn't cuz i love my ex boyfriend soo much and i want him back what do i do... ???? i cant get him out of my head it's like when he left i lost apart of me it's like i was a puzzle and he look the last piece my heart... n i dont wanna love anyone else but him but we arent talking right now what do i do.. ???? i'm soo confused and lost without hhim..???? someone help me please..???

2007-11-05 13:07:40 · 8 answers · asked by Devi T 1 in Singles & Dating

i went out with a guy who had a bad reputation as a player a couple years ago. and sure enough, it didnt end well. after hating him for about a year, i forgave him and now we're friends again. but the chemistry is back. this year he has only gone out with one girl. and he likes me a lot now. i like him too. all my friends except for one are telling me how disappointed they'll be if i go out with him. except my best friend who wants me to be happy.
1) just friends, i dont want to get hurt
2)go for it, some people change
3) friends with benefits.
what should i do?

2007-11-05 13:05:06 · 27 answers · asked by Nicole S 3 in Singles & Dating

I there any tips/tricks? It's really depressing me.

2007-11-05 13:00:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for just under 3 months. However, we live about three hours apart and only have time to visit each other on weekends. We take turns traveling to see each other and have been together all but one weekend. Lately she has been wanting to go back home earlier and earlier.
When she got home this past weekend, she called and claimed that she needed some time to herself for the next weekend and then she would be seeing her best friend the following weekend. This means I won't see her for 3 weeks. I asked her if everything was ok but she claims that it is a girl-thing and she just needs some "me-time".
I don't mean to sound selfish, but I barely see her now and she has 5 days each week to do whatever she wants without me. This is my first long distance relationship...in fact it's my first serious relationship (at age 24). Is this need for "me-time" normal in a long distance relationship?

2007-11-05 13:00:11 · 2 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 2 years. It has been a WONDERFUL 2 years until "THE MONSTER IN LAW" comes around. She acts like she is a saint in front of her son but when her and i are alone she acts totally different. She tries to control parts of his life that she should have given up when me and her son got married. I don't know if i should be mad at my husband for allowing her to do the immature things she does or should i be mad at her for being a grown woman not knowing her boundaries and a mother and my place as a wife. I am really at my wits end with her. I really need some advice. I am open to suggestions.

2007-11-05 12:59:37 · 18 answers · asked by Damsel in distressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I married this man a little over 3 mths ago, and dont get me wrong but i do love him, and his daughter which is 8 yrs old, but i am feelin at my wits end, his WHOLE life revolves around his daughter, hes on the verge of superoverprotector-he just got a new trk and guess wht this is his daughters, shes a great child, spoiled, but shes great. I hve tried to leave sev times but keep going bak some rsn, also her mom is here and we get along good, so no conflict there. I am so depressed abt this, now my hubby wont be intimate with me-fyi---hes 42 and im 22, i hve needs, and he refuses to be intimate becuz he says i snore at nite, and is punishing me frm having a bad attitude, but if u lived with him u would hve a bad attitude also!!! I am wanting to get a plce of my own, but im having a hrd time affording it, i just got a new job 2 mths ago, so im tryin to get on my ft, and mve, but i dont know if im doin the rite thing, im married but SO LoneLy : ( Please n e advice appreciated...

2007-11-05 12:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by alleybug_2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it just me....or do most wedding dresses look the same? LOL

2007-11-05 12:57:10 · 17 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

Ok, my one of my best friends is 19 (he's a guy). I'm 16. We've known each other pretty much our whole lives. He's my neighbor, so he comes over a few times a week and me, my little sister, my little brother, and him hang out. Lately, my mom has been getting mad when he comes over. We're always outside, so he's not bugging her. I know she's worried about me and him cause my dad told me. I don't know what she thinks we're gonna do outside w/ 2 other kids there. She keeps asking me if I like him. It makes me so mad. Finally I got so mad and I told him. He was really mad, but he said they're just parents, he knew that would happen. And when my mom leaves me and my brother alone, she says now if he comes over, you can't go inside. Why doesn't she trust me? She has always said how good of a guy he is. Why doesn't she trust him? My sister heard my parents talking and my dad said they'll be ok, i'll be out there sawing the wood. I can't believe it! What should I do?
Thanks!

2007-11-05 12:54:20 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends