Ok, my one of my best friends is 19 (he's a guy). I'm 16. We've known each other pretty much our whole lives. He's my neighbor, so he comes over a few times a week and me, my little sister, my little brother, and him hang out. Lately, my mom has been getting mad when he comes over. We're always outside, so he's not bugging her. I know she's worried about me and him cause my dad told me. I don't know what she thinks we're gonna do outside w/ 2 other kids there. She keeps asking me if I like him. It makes me so mad. Finally I got so mad and I told him. He was really mad, but he said they're just parents, he knew that would happen. And when my mom leaves me and my brother alone, she says now if he comes over, you can't go inside. Why doesn't she trust me? She has always said how good of a guy he is. Why doesn't she trust him? My sister heard my parents talking and my dad said they'll be ok, i'll be out there sawing the wood. I can't believe it! What should I do?
Thanks!
2007-11-05 12:54:20 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's mother's nature. That's their job, to protect even though there's a word "over"attached before it! Mothers usually keep things to themselves, leaving their kids puzzled with "why" question. If you truly believe in your friend & doesn't see him as a threat (when what you are to each other right now might be more than friends), then time will prove your mom wrong. No use talking, only your right actions & time can make her realize that. Good luck!
2007-11-08 15:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by zynjen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's intuition is pretty keen, especially when that woman happens to be your mom. She's probably tuned into something that you can't detect, or something you don't dare allow yourself to admit that is happening.
2007-11-05 13:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋