How do you move on...?

Question

How do you move on from someone who told you he never wants to see you again. Especially when you did nothing on your part for this to happen, and really knowing this person wants nothing to do with you and you will never see that person again. How can I move on?

Answer 1

sorry that happened to you, i know how u feel, my ex girl friend afyer 8 yrs did the same thing to me, except she never told me a thing, got in her car and drove off and never said a word, its like someone rips ur heart out and untill u know why u will never be able to move on, its been two years and i still see her in town and other places and it is so hard to just drive away like i never knew her, so my heart goes out to you and hope u find peace some how, good luck

Answer 2

Well, sometimes we might have actually done something for it to happen, but if we're not informed about it we can't guess what it was..... normal people don't vanish just like that, they must have a reason -- as weird as it can be. But it's really maddening when they aren't kind enough to let you know. I had this BF I REALLY cared about.... everything seemed to be great but then I got fired from the place we both worked at and I traveled abroad for a few weeks.... he said he'd wait for me and we even communicated while I was away, but when I came back POOF! he just vanished from the face of earth!!!! No goodbye, no explanation, no nothing.....!!!! It took me about 2 years to get over it. I'm not saying I spent 2 years crying and not going out or meeting other guys.... but it was very hard to move on without having closure, and these guys are SO selfish to not even give us the opportunity to close the cycle......... but there's nothing we can do about them. I tried to locate him, I sent him a letter, he knew where to find me but never tried to. That was enough of a message.... he just didn't want to be with me. I'd have appreciated to get an explanation as to why he made this decision, but I never got it. It's hard, but you just need time.... it eventually hurts less. You need to continue with your normal life, seek a lot of support among your friends or even professional counseling.... engage in new activities. I just left my BF (don't know if for good yet) and I will engage in voluntary work for the next few days/weeks so as to not keep on thinking of stupid stuff and crying. Do that and you'll be ok....... good luck.


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Answer 3

when a relationship ends its painful, especially for the one left behind who didn't want it to end. we wonder what we did, even blame ourselves for awhile until we realize the person we loved was incapable of being emotionally responsible or worthy of our trust and love. don't internalize this rejection, its not about u. accept it, expect no more from him ever, cut all ties. join a self help group where there are others who are going through the same thing, they will guide u through it and be your support system, when this happens we need the support of others. u don't have to do anything to them, and u have no control over it, if they say they want nothing to do with u again believe them, never stay where your not loved, as it can damage u emotionally and make u feel even more hurt.

Answer 4

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

You know, I did that once to a guy. We were so young and had been dating a long, long time. I fell out of love with him and told him that I had to break up with him. He begged me not to. I feel bad to this day about it - but the way I saw it was that I would be doing him a REALLY big disservice by pretending to still love him.

Now, he's happily married and his first baby is on the way!!!!

So, while you may be devastated, be happy in knowing that you are THAT MUCH CLOSER to finding Mr. Right!

Answer 5

That is difficult question to answer. It will be a hard one but you will make it in time. You can start out by doing that you never got to do. Take this time to focus on you and spend time with good friends if possible. It is not a easy task to just move on with life but its something we all must do. In time it will be come easier and the hurt won't hurt anymore.

Answer 6

Go out, not to hook up or date, but to just hang with friends. Have fun, know it's his loss. He's the one not good enough for you. Always reason it out to a positive. I'd say you're better off finding out how he is now then to have found out 7 yrs and 3 kids later. Good Luck

Answer 7

I dont know but Pray hard ,seek God. I did when my hubby told me that and we have come through it. If he doesn't come back ..know that you are a complete person without him and that you still have alot to give. It is his loss.

Answer 8

You run as far and as fast from him as possible... and don't ever look back.
He is obviously not the one for you. For WHATEVER reason.
You start over... chalk it up to fate.... and try your best to move on as fast as possible.

Answer 9

how do you move on...simply put,one day at a time..there will be good days and bad, but as the days progress suddenly there will be more good days...one day at a time...

Answer 10

take it day by day,one foot in front of the other!there's so much out there for u!