Why so much drama :( Right now between all of my friends their is drama! We are all freshmen, but sometimes i think i am the only one who thinks all this is STUPID! Please help!! Read this and you may understand!
1.) my best friend Shelly has a boyfriend (their relationship is fairly new) and when ever Shelly and all of our friends want to go do something for the weekend he ALWAYS comes with her. I don't mind that her boyfriend comes with group but i do get pissed when Shelly gives 98% of her attention to her boyfriend and blows all of us!
2.) Our other friend, Vanessa, flirts with Shelly's boyfriend behind Shelly's back and even right in front of her. SOOOOOOO many people have noticed it and have told Shelly (including me). Shelly tried telling Vanessa but Vanessa completly denied everything and then was all pissed at Shelly. But Vanessa always talks to me like nothing is wrong, and she bad mouths my one friend named Alyssa, Alyssa and Vanessa Hate eachother but i'll get to that
2007-11-05 13:32:49 · 6 answers · asked by xxripapartmybleedingsoulxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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3) Vanessa and Alyssa completly hate each other and they both talk to me and make me try to take sides :(
4) All most all of my friends are starting to not like Vanessa. It's b/c at times she can be so nice but than turn completly bi***y
I just feel like i am in the middle of ALL the drama
2007-11-05 13:36:56 · update #1
Sorry even more!
1- Vanessa is not bipolar she is just kind of evil (at times)
2- With Shelly and her boyfriend, Alyssa and i have already told Shelly that she needs to make time for friends and boyfriend but she just seems not to listen!
3- And then Vanessa started this whole thing with her "Boyfriend" that she meet on myspace. What she really did was took a pic. off of google and claimed him as his boyfriend. Then Alyssa finaly told that everyone knew that her boyfriend was fake, Vanessa filped out on her (that is how the fight between Alyssa and Vanessa started)
I am probably making worse than it sounds but that is how it feels! :(
(Sorry that it is so much to read)
2007-11-05 13:44:15 · update #2
Gosh, this sounds like a complicated soap opera! Why do you stress over boy-girl situations that really have nothing to do with you, an innocent bystander? Don't you have any real problems of your own to solve? Don't make others' situations your dilemma. These friends you have now in school will all go their separate ways eventually, and you'll have a whole flock of new friends who are more mature and lasting. And you'll find there won't be as much back-stabbing and deceit. Right now, just concentrate on your studies, and developing the fine person you will become as an adult. As for the others, let them fight it out. You've got better things to do. Good luck!
2007-11-05 13:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on from both of these two girls lol........... shelly needs a realety check............. friends are there for life boys come and go lol............... and vanessa lol how funny really.......... gotta see the funny side to that one ........... i think vanessa can see how insecure this shelly is about her boyfreind................ and also shelly spends way too much time with the boyfriend...trust me the boydfriend will grow tired of spending soooo much time with her ...dont be suprised if he moves on and gets with vanessa
2007-11-05 14:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** your friends sound crazy just try not to get invovled and just smoke a bowl or something and tell your friends to grow up and that one chick needs to stop flirting with your other friends boyfriend tell shelly to kick her *** yeah
2007-11-05 13:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is yahoo solutions. i quite pity you if you are getting this obsessed over a yahoo solutions account. being so prime on degree five simply indicates how you don't have any existence however to come back onto yahoo solutions all day of your existence
2016-09-05 11:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by weigel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama drama drama, high school drama! and you're actually making it worse, by spreading it around the net. nobody likes drama, especially Freshman drama. everyone else will think it's stupid. my advice would be to stay out of it and let your friends work stuff out and tell them you don't want to be part of it.
2007-11-05 13:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by KC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, but just ditch vanessa! she sounds like a TOTAL b**ch, PLUS she's turned on all your other friends. it's only a matter of time before she turns on you!
2007-11-05 13:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by purple daisies! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋