Why do girls like the 'bad' boy.?

Question

Half the time their d:)ck eds any how.

Answer 1

Because, like the famous Opera: Giuseppe Verdi’s, Rigoletto states:
"Woman is fickle, like a feather in the wind. With tears and smiles, her pretty face always deceives"

No doubt, they make excuses for this behaviour and hold responsible the men for this their Achilles' heel.

Oh well, such is the lot of the western man.

Answer 2

Mmmm...its usually th younger less experienced girls who do this.Its kind of sexually apealing......its a huge sexual boost in many cases......and sometimes these guys give the impression of being tough, girls like to feel protected physically by a tough character.Bad boys are not always idiots.....some are mislead by peer pressure, some get into the wrong company through wanting to be accepted, some...have little or no confidence and will do stupid stuff to make them feel....in control..and it becomes an addiction....whatever the reasons...some bad boys pretend to be bad, but more often than not have a deep sensitive nature that they hide by being bad and tough...girls who are willing to give them a chance, even when they seem bad, can often turn them into teddy bears..even turn their lives around.A good woman never did a bad man any harm, when she knows deep down inside he has a heart made of pure gold.Often we can have preconceptions and they are misconceptions of people we do not understand.However the opposite is also true.....bad guys and just.....bad guys no matter what you do with them.THE VOICE OF EXPERIENCE.

Answer 3

because If a woman can capture the heart of the bad boy, they will protect you till their last breath..it's about the instinct within us to choose the best and fastest, to insure survival.

ever watch Andromeda ? http://www.tv.com/andromeda/show/637/summary.html
sci fi show? there is a race on there that were geneticly engineered called *mind the spelling may be off* Neitchians. they fight fiercely to have the honor of procreating and being a father. to them it is sacred. yet, to all others they appear as "bad boys" everything they do is to bring them higher status in the "Pride" to allow them to be with the best female..to make the strongest and fastest offspring.

i feel it is the same thing.

as for me? i chose the "good guy" to my teenaged mind and nearly got beaten to the point of being the hospital..just because they LOOK and ACT like good guys does not mean they are. further? women, well one who has either survived such, or who are more experienced/wise, can spot those who would harm them. *shrug* be he projecting the good boy or bad boy persona.

Answer 4

Women basically do not trust men. Being a bad boy gives them ample reason to feel they are on the inside of a bad experience. Women like that because they have it equated with security. You are their man. They are safe. You are theirs. It is really a control thing and a rather obvious power ploy.

Answer 5

I dont like bad boys. I have enough problems without those immature idiots. Nice guys will get a lot further in romance. Especially if their open and honest, caring and thoughtful.

Answer 6

that is a question that come to mind every time I stumble across such couple and IMO the girl will feel protected with such guy and thus enhance her air of superiority to others. Well that is what I thought,

Answer 7

BEEN there done that and I can definitly answer this.....Because they think that they can CHANGE THE GUY!!! And ya know what....YOU can't. They are gonna be the bad jerk that they are. It's a challenge thing.
So if you are the nice guy that you are....just hang loose and you wait for the good girl that you deserve.!!!!

Answer 8

Here u are u asked for it man.Among the women I know: One is sleeping with an engaged man, one is in love with a man who has hit her on more than one occasion, one is cheating on her boyfriend, one lets her man get away with anything he wants and one is dating a man who still calls me looking for a hook up. Why, after all the women's rights movements and the fights for equality, are women still letting men treat them like the oil stain under their car?

It seems women are so desperate to find a guy that they will do anything to get one. I am not innocent of such behavior and I just can't stop myself. So what is it that attracts us to these dumb animals? In this day in age, it is no longer necessary for women to be with men for financial reasons, to have children, or even to orgasm. But they continue to stay in these relationships - if you can even call them that - day after day.

Sex with these men isn't even that great for most women, - it's a lucky day when they actually have an orgasm because of it. Unlike men, who come every time, women usually just want to be with they guy for cuddling afterwards. Sure, some women know their body well enough to always finish, but for most an orgasm from sex is about as likely as me voting for Bush. So, if women are not addicted to these horrible men for the sex, what is it?

Society continues to reward any type of relationship over the single life. Women who say no to men because they are waiting for something better are seen as losers. After all, something must be wrong with you if you can't get a date. Society has even created benchmarks for women to meet. Single on the playground? Lame. Single at the prom? Loser. Single on college graduation day? Pathetic. Single with a child? Immoral.

Deep in my heart I know good guys must be out there somewhere, but where? All of them seem to be either taken or gay. It seems some men are under the impression that women always turn down the nice guys. However, I am here to refute that point. Let me explain the problem women seem to have with so-called nice guys. Whenever we give them a chance they turn out to be just like every other guy. The only reason they are nice is because they think they can't get a girl, but as soon as confidence sparks - look out.

I know what you're thinking: "Well, such and such is with a nice guy." Sure, that's what you think. But I bet he's cheated on her. Those are the ones who always cheat, because nobody would suspect it and the mistress is so excited that she has a nice guy that she keeps her mouth shut.

Guys will continue to behave accordingly as long as women put up with it. And I have to admit; there is something extremely sexy about the bad ones. The ones women know they should stay away from are the ones they run toward. I can only hope that someday I meet Mr. Right and he will be single, interested, straight, and sexy. Until then, I'll just stick it out with Mr. Wrong.

Answer 9

In the words of Cascada:
Won't you be my bad boy, be my man
Be my weekend lover, but don't be my friend
You can be my bad boy, but understand
I don't need you in my life again

Usually just for a fling. Or the rush, but it won't last

Answer 10

for the same reason that bad guys like bad girls...

but ever notice they always marry the girl next door...