Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

So, I'm a senior at a university and my Professor and I have become more like friends and have told each other that we find each other attractive. Problem is... I'm engaged, he's married and he's my Professor! We have laid out that nothing can happen but the temptation is still there. I have a class right next to his office and he often steps out of his office and stares at me as I sit in class and it makes me want him.
I want to take his class next semester and he definitely wants me to take the course...should I take it? Do you think not seeing him would help me get over him? It's forbidden in SO many ways so why is it so hard to get over??

2007-11-05 14:55:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My last relationship took all my strength away. I dont think I can have another relationship, its too draining. He really screwed me over. Still waiting on a repair job from him I paid for 2 years ago. He wasnt even that much, why has it knocked the h#(&U# out of me?

2007-11-05 14:55:16 · 1 answers · asked by Irma 2 in Singles & Dating

I sit and cry all the time anything i think of reminds me of him. when my girls kiss there daddy goodnight i have too leave the room sometimes i swear i see his face just appear out of no where and disapear just as fast..my dads death was an accident.. he drowned and idk know if thats why i cant let it go or not.. i feel like im going insane can someone plz give me some personal advice????????? if u need to know more just ask

2007-11-05 14:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by Always Asking 2 in Family

My ex broke up with me on friday.
We didnt fight or anything,
& there wasn't really a reason.
We just kind of lost feelings for eachother.

I want him to want me back.
If that makes sense.
I want him to regret breaking up with me.

Is looking hot the best revenge?
Like I don't mean I want to get revenge on him...
I just want him to regret what he did.
How can I get him to like me again?

Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks much♥

(We're in highschool by the way)

PS: I was thinking about breaking up with him earlier;;;

I WOULD HAVE IF HE WASNT SO DARN HOTT.

=[

2007-11-05 14:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in 5th years of my married life.Found my sexlife with my husband quite dull and I really don't enjoy it anymore. I don't have any other relations, neither I feel attratcted to anybody. Have a kid , who makes me busy after office hour, have a very demanding boss, who is always chasing me with my works. Is it normal or shall I go and see any psychiatrist? Acting as if I am enjoying it ( just want to make my husband happy as he wants me to be very aggressive during lovemaking), but not wanting it at all is very painful for me. Not having any enjoyed sex also makes me angry and frustrated the next day. One thing, I remain very tired at night to manage my home and job together.
What shall I do now? need your advice badly, is ther anyone facing teh similar problem, or this problem of coldness is only with me?

2007-11-05 14:52:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 14:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a single young attractive female, and i am the secretary for the pastor of my church. He started telling me about his marital problems, and in an attempt to help out I listened. I figured everyone needs someone to talk to. At first I gave him advice on nice things to do for his wife, and then he started giving me hugs when I got into work. Since then his has kissed me and a little more. I told him that it’s not right, and that his wife would be devastated, be he doesn't seem to care. I don't know how to get out of this situation without losing my job, and not hurting everyone involved, including people at the church....What makes me feel worse, is that I love his wife and think she is an amazing woman. She's just busy and forgets sometimes that she's a wife too.

2007-11-05 14:48:36 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is kinda s personal question...but here goes,

is it natural to call the moon "you dark brother"

cuz every night...pains in my legs...so energenic....why???

i feel i am corupted...my childhood was ruined when my father died at age 4,and i feel the loniliness still haunts me to this day... please help me...

-starwarslego

2007-11-05 14:48:31 · 3 answers · asked by starwarslego987654321 2 in Family

why

2007-11-05 14:47:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like for someone to give me the 888 number on the back of the Amercian Express credit card. The reason is I wanna see a sneak peak to next weeks prison break on fox. You gotta put in that number to see it

2007-11-05 14:46:55 · 2 answers · asked by Michael J 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and I want to get married. He always says "some day". I know he loves me and I know I love him I just don't want to wait forever. Help... please.

2007-11-05 14:45:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

saw stars and then he whopped me a couple times on the back of the head pretty hard. I felt like stabbing him to death. Now I'm wanting a divorce and he doesn't want it. What's his problem besides me? He makes me sick. Any one else living this nightmare?

2007-11-05 14:43:41 · 17 answers · asked by jacquie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like my boyfriend but theres this other guy that i like and i think he likes me to (not my boyfriend). so is it a bad thing that i am attracted to someone else that is not my boyfriend??? what do you think i should do and please give me some tips on anything?.....

2007-11-05 14:43:28 · 34 answers · asked by person 2 in Singles & Dating

why dose the time change efect me in sutch a way that i feel like im going in to a nother damention ? do you feel this way ?one houre shoud not efect the sikie this much shoud it ?

2007-11-05 14:42:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 14:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by ike_humphries 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you have seen a woman at work, and just have her email address as her only contact information, and want to be her friend and don't want to seem like a stalker, what would you do? send her an email or add her to your messenger telling who you are or saying you are another person and wait until she gets confidence and then tell her who you are?

2007-11-05 14:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I had a brief sexual relationship with this guy for a few months.It was something that just happened wasn't meant to but did.He happened to be the best friend of an associate of mine(which is a girl).I asked him beforehand, if he thought it wuld be a problem with her, and I asked him would it effect their friendship, he assured me that it wouldn't because they were just close friends from junior high school.Anyhow, he broke it off with me, he said that he didn';t like me anymore, and that if I called him again he would tell everyone my business.I said okay no problem.The very next day his best friend calls me(keep in mind I haven't heard from her in eight months) to volunteer at an event that he was hosting.I never returned her call, so now when i see her she doesn't speak to me, she looks at the ground and ignores me, when I see him he doesn;'t speak to me as well,however I did run into him and he smiled at me and called me over to him so that "we can talk" but I told him I had to go.
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but as far as his friend she ignores, me I tried to reach out to her and wishe her happy birthday"! and I even tried to wish her congratulations on her win at a concert, but all I get is snubbed..and so now I'm wondering did I do something wrong? Truthful answers needed

2007-11-05 14:39:43 · 2 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so i go to a high school of about 800 students.
there is about 30 girls that are datable.
one of them is one perfect and one of my best freinds, but she has a boyfriend in college.
another girl has the best personality ever, and is dating some player and i bet he'll break her heart and i dont want that to happen.
another girl is dating a guy that im like best friends with.

all the others are really not all that good but would probably be a easy lay.

what should i do? go for the lay or go after a girl and take her and have a meaningful relationship? :)

2007-11-05 14:37:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 14:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 14:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by liveinlove<3 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend Ana she is very fun and funny and shes in my clas so i like hanging out with her bcuz i have a great time. but my 2 friends that i go out with and sit with at lunch get mad at me when i go with ana bcuz they just dont like her at all they say shes a hipocrit and critizes me when i not around i know how ana can be but it doesnt affect me bcuz thats the way she is and i wouldnt be surprised, my other friend laura follows ana around which i think is annoying, and i do want to sit with ana at lunch but she has a best friend who gets mad if me and/or laura sit with them bcuz she says its her only time of the day with her best friend i respect that, laura dsnt get the hints so she is always with them at lunch but today one of my 2 frinds Kel said that ana invitd laura to lunch but kel is very good liar and ana says she dsnt mind me and laura sitting with her but her friend does so i dont hang out on weeknds with her or at lunch nd bthers me bcuz we used to be great friends.

2007-11-05 14:34:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!

2007-11-05 14:34:28 · 3 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a friend who use to talk to me alot and i use to go to his house and hang out with him and my other friends but now he dosen't talk to me alot and he talks to my other friends alot more then he use to talk to me i ask him wats up why don't you talk to me like you use to he said nothing instrusting to talk about so i want to know is something going woung i have another friend who does not know the friend i am typing about he told me that i am lame so now do i have to consider my self lame

2007-11-05 14:30:23 · 14 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 14:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by Married and Bitter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she left because we would argue to much.. and i dont think she'll give me another chance.. i tell her i will change but how do i show her ive changed?? and whats a cute way to ask her back out later down the road?? incase things do get better...

2007-11-05 14:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

omg! my bff is so annoying. she does her hair for like 5 hrs. I don't want her to fell as if no one notices her, so I go "I like ur hairstyle..." She goes, "Oh, this thing... Pshh... It only took me a minute or two..." Then she goes, "Hey do I look pretty?" I'm like "Huh?" And she goes, "I look so ugly!" As her friend I go, "No... ur pretty..." Then she smiles and goes, "oh, I know!"

she is so vain. how do i get her to shut up?!?

2007-11-05 14:26:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hye friends, I’m zaza. I have problem about my boyfriend. He’s good but I confuse with his old love. Actually before this, my boyfriend have a girlfriend and both of them couple around 4 years. They haven’t problem but the main problem which take them to break up is girl’ father dislike & not bless their couple and now my boyfriend already couple with me...& before this when we beginning in love,
my boyfriend said his old love already break up & he nothing relation with his ex girlfriend. I believe with my boyfriend until I have see the ex-girl friend photo in his room & violet & when I asking he give any reason. My boyfriend also have meet with his ex with haven’t tell me. He just tell me his ex want to meet him but he not tell me when & where until I know. I receive all reason but my hearth so broken because that’s only reason. I don’t know whether he really love me or he still love his ex-girlfriend.

2007-11-05 14:26:06 · 1 answers · asked by Zaza Ahmad 1 in Singles & Dating

So basically i want my ex bf back and im gonna write him a letter like saying he was the best thing that happened to me blah blah blah and i need some ideas on what to write in it
im in 9th grade
thanks
Lauren

2007-11-05 14:25:55 · 29 answers · asked by *>*>*>*>*>*>*& 2 in Singles & Dating

Around 18 - 25? (Other than clubs or bars)

2007-11-05 14:25:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because I have seen it in the movies and it was romance between the guy and girl, just like that.

2007-11-05 14:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating