So, I'm a senior at a university and my Professor and I have become more like friends and have told each other that we find each other attractive. Problem is... I'm engaged, he's married and he's my Professor! We have laid out that nothing can happen but the temptation is still there. I have a class right next to his office and he often steps out of his office and stares at me as I sit in class and it makes me want him.
I want to take his class next semester and he definitely wants me to take the course...should I take it? Do you think not seeing him would help me get over him? It's forbidden in SO many ways so why is it so hard to get over??
2007-11-05 14:55:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, honestly look back at absorb the situation. you sound ridiculous.
2007-11-05 15:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by YogurtYay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds hot. This is definitely forbidden but how many people actually get to participate in something like this? This is a common fantasy among alot of people. Am I suggesting that you go and pork this guy? No. Am I against it? No.
Here's the problem with this. You're engaged and you're close to having sex with another man, this will lead to problems down the road and ultimately lead in divorce. You're thinking about taking a class with him next semester, what happens if someone finds out, or he loses interest in you? He can easily fail you. This is a matter of extreme risk and lust. Ultimately, it boils down to this... every guy has a dick, some are bigger and smaller, is one dick worth this much to sacrifice a future family? Or do you want to try out different things?
2007-11-05 15:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by bloodsanctum 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haf to make a choise.your not the
first student he has played with,
His wife finds out and he will say he's sorry
and your out of collage.
OR you and him get on and on.You want to stop,he won't let ,he can keep it because
of blackmail. He says he wants to stop and
tell his wife everything.where does that leave you.
you're old enough to make up your mind.
You just wanted others to in courage you
to go for it.
2007-11-05 15:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the course will assist with your degree then why not?? --- you are both aware and adult enough to handle the situation ---- have fun
2007-11-05 15:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋