she left because we would argue to much.. and i dont think she'll give me another chance.. i tell her i will change but how do i show her ive changed?? and whats a cute way to ask her back out later down the road?? incase things do get better...
2007-11-05 14:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, a girl doesn't want to fight in a relationship she want security so the easiest way to ask her out later down the road is to show her that she can trust you and then ask her out
2007-11-05 14:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by casey p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ide ask how long yall have been apart and second I want you to know it isnt only you who needs to change im sure changes need to be made on both yalls parts. I have the same situation but backwards me and my GF argue all the time and I broke up with her. It took only about a week for me to take her back but everything is the same still fighting. Make sure she knows you care be there for her. Hang out with her instead of goin out with your friends. Make sacrafices for your relationship to work. Go see her and if she really does still love you nothing will change I know when I would go see my GF when we were broken up we still acted together.
2007-11-05 14:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by tj31324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way that you can show her a true change is by living out that change before her and then by letting her make an informed decision that does not involve your begging or scheming to try and win her back. Your actions alone will speak louder than your words in previous arguments and she will take notice of this provided it is sincere. Give her space and let her deal with her own shortcomings and you deal with yours.
2007-11-05 14:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bowlingboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to still love one and not want to return to the romance as you already know. While my sympathies are with you, I will suggest that you give up on trying to get back with your ex. You indicated that you argued too much ,but more importantly, you don't think she will take you back. Until and unless she changes her mind, I advise you to take the lessons you've learned from your mistakes here and apply them to any new relationship you build in the future. I wish you all the best.
2007-11-05 14:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kody,
there's really no way for you to make her take you back, one thing I've learned with my wife is that your pride will always get in the way. When you talking to her about yourself and getting back together help her to understand how sorry and childish you were for your behavior and you learned more about yourself and her then you would have if you weren't arguing. Besides how can you prove yourself unless she gives you another chance.
2007-11-05 14:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone always changes the way they act to the people they like.. act yourself and do what you would normally do as a friend, but you can still do everything else but your attitude towards things have to be more positive.. act yourself, and treat her really nice, and im sure she will give you another chance
2007-11-05 14:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by JBanswers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have like a surprise party and tell her and perservere even when she says no and don't just sit there when she tries to leave grab her hand and look her into the eye and show her with your eye that you love her
2007-11-05 14:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your way in you know your girlfriend very well than i.
How long have you been together?
You both know each other very well where you?
2007-11-05 15:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her about and if she still loves you she will give you anohter chance
2007-11-05 14:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by tennisbabe4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋